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Author: AlexandraSadista

My NiteFlirt Listing

Hello, pets. I find Myself on this sunny Monday morning with a last minute cancellation, thus freeing up My time for a couple of hours, until My next appointment. What better way to kill some time than by dominating you via NiteFlirt? It is rare that I log in to receive calls, so take advantage of the moment! 10AM-NOON CST. you will find My NF call on My website, or by searching for MistressAlexandraS.

Have a Kinky Day!

A Kink-Filled Weekend in Chicago

While I normally do not cross-promote the events I participate in, I made an exception on account of the full schedule that lies ahead of Me. Yes, you may stalk Me.

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This evening, I am performing with Mistress Sophia Asphyxia at a weekly event I manage called SIN. In honor of the leather lifestyle, we will be bringing our favorite whips and chains, in addition to the standard fire torches and angle grinders. (Roscoe’s Tavern)

Tomorrow evening, I will be performing with ex-Domme Ammunition and the crazy crew from Porn and Chicken. Yes, there is actually porn on the screens, and fried chicken for the audience. (Bodi)

Saturday I team up with local band Catalyst and perform their stage as they rock out. (Nite Caps)

AND Sunday! The event I am looking forward to the most! Vespertine, a strictly Woman’s only Play Party run by Daddy Sky and Myself. Mistress Sophia Asphyxia, Ammunition and I will be performing BDSM demos including wet fire cupping, play piercing, and a violet wand/fire play combination. Looking forward to playing with the Ladies! Sorry, no penises allowed! (The Studio)

In addition, I will be attending the IML Leather Market with My boy who, thanks to some early self-exploration and My influence, has a newfound fascination and appreciation for all things CBB!

Have a Kinky weekend!

~Alex

Objectified, and Ignored scene.

A six weeks ago, My s-toiletbitch approached Me with the idea of a heavy objectification scene. Surprisingly, he managed to depict a scenario that has been a long time fantasy of Mine. Previous circumstances and timing did not allow for such a scene in the past, but now, everything seemed to line up. I admit, My mind was reeling at the thought of this actually being actualized.

The fantasy was simple. s-toiletbitch was to serve as Me over the course of half a day. he would be bound to My toilet box in My private dungeon, and I was to go about My daily activities. When not being used, he would simply be ignored. Pretty straightforward. Of course if at any time I felt the inclination, I could stuff his ass or slap at his cock and balls, or something of the like.

I will be concise about the actual scene that took place… he arrived, was quickly situated and bound to the box, and I proceeded to ignore his existence. Less than two hours into the scene, he was given his first bountiful food and golden drink of the day directly from the source, and was rewarded a glimpse of My beautiful, muscular derriere. Unexpectedly, he began to struggle with his feeding, and before I could snap gloves on and force feed him, he sits up and calls it quits.

My fantasy was ruined not even two hours into the afternoon-long scene! My first reaction was to let him know just how I felt about his failing as My toilet, and how he wasted My valuable time, energy, and elaborate efforts. Instead, I took into consideration that every time he serves Me, he does in fact attempt to be the best toilet he can be, despite the hefty challenges I throw his way. We had a brief chat, during which he admitted that there were external factors that attributed to his failed attempt. I forgave him, and he left after being a good boy and showing his appreciation for My efforts, with his tail tucked in between is legs.

The negotiation and communication that takes place before any complex scene is crucial to the experience and the results, THAT should go without saying. Yet, there are still factors that play into how one may react once immersed in a scene, when the “oh, shit! What did i get myself into” thought comes to mind, when one realizes one is not at all prepared for what they asked for. Or, it might be an external issue that has nothing to do with Me or the scene planned. In this particular case, standard negotiations took place with My regular. The difference was he decided to not communicate that he had been hesitating for days prior to the date, due to personal conflicts outside of BDSM, so to not disappoint Me.

My point is, to all those that fall into the category of

• submissives
• clients
• cum buckets
• foot stools
• shit bags
• masochists
• just another hole to stuff
• anyone who serves in a subservient capacity

…you all still HAVE A VOICE. Communication is a fundamental part of the interactions I have with the afore mentioned beings, and without it, you will not get very far with Me, or in life! My interactions are meant to be mutually beneficial, healthy, kink-positive, safe, with an understanding of intentions prior to entering a scene, any kind of training, or long-term servitude. Do not let your “submissiveness” or fear of doing or saying what may not please Me get in the way of what is expected from you. Or your “manliness”, that will not be tolerated either.

In other news, it’s HOT out, and Alexandra is loving it!

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Wanna taste? In your sweet, kinky dreams!
~Alexandra

 

Visiting Houston, TX

I will be traveling to Texas and will have TWO DAYS ONLY set aside for appointments in the Montrose area of Houston. Scenes involving bondage, mummification, sensory deprivation, corporal punishment/discipline, CBT/NT, select types of worship, and many more can be negotiated. Refer to My website (www.IamyourFetish.com) for the complete list of My preferred activities before making contact. Compatibility is a must!

For those wishing to indulge even further, you may book a double Domme session with Myself and Domina Shannon (www.DominaShannon.com).

SUNDAY, APRIL 28TH & MONDAY, APRIL 29TH

you may contact Me via email or phone to discuss an appointment. Deposits and/or references are required for booking.

Looking forward to being in you, Texas!

~Mistress Alexandra

Synopsis, written April 1st.

A well-written session review by an enthusiast, during which some undeniably steamy memories were made. I thoroughly enjoyed reading this, and so will you!

I have been trying for a week to wrap my head around our time together and still can’t quite do it. You really did blow my mind!  I really appreciate how you took my input and crafted two perfect sessions. Not too heavy, not too light, but just right. You exploited my latex/corset/cleavage fetish expertly using and depriving my senses of sight, smell, sound, feel to tease, deny and reward me. The CBT was just awesome and the smack of your hand and flick of your finger was pure painful ecstasy!  The bondage was tremendous and all the other activities were heightened as I pulled against my restraints. Add to that another layer of the best NT ever, and everything just kept building.  Then the  icing on the cake was the anal play culminating with the truly mind altering Strapon fucking you gave me!  Every perfectly angled plunge was like the initial upswing of the beginning of an orgasm, which was quickly withdrawn bringing the arousal back to a lower plateau. And then quickly repeated. Over. And over. And over. It was a state of suspended orgasm,  suspended consciousness, complete submission and surrender of responsibility that was difficult for me to process. Then the hood/blindfold experience just brought it to yet another level. You left me aroused yet spent, pained yet pleasured. My mind was so overwhelmed with everything that for a period of time it was completely blank. And that is not any easy thing to do given all the stuff constantly racing through my brain. You turned me into a shaking, quivering mess and it was beyond anything I have ever experienced. I cannot thank you enough for the careful preparation and execution of my sessions and for expanding my experience beyond my imagination.   

With deepest gratitude until we meet again,

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My Bewitching Convergence

On Saturday, November 24th, I am celebrating My Birthday Party, as well as My 5 year Anniversary of Pro-Domination.

Enjoy the Bewitching Convergence celebrating Mistress Alexandra’s Birthday and the Anniversary of 5 years of Pro-Domination.

8PM to 9PM ~ Absinthe Hour (Special Guests will be notified via email — no slaves/submissives allowed)
9PM til 1AM ~ The Soiree

I have updated My Wish List just in time for My Birthday! It can be found on Amazon.com under the email address Iamyourfetish@gmail.com. If you will not be attending and wish to send a token of your devotion via mail, please send gift to the following address:

Alexandra Sadista
PO Box 221565
Chicago, IL 60622

More info on the event:
This is a social, kink-friendly gathering for My friends, as well as those in the BDSM lifestyle. Secondly, this is a Play Party. Play is encouraged, but not required. Please bring your own toys. Musical soundtrack by Alexandra featuring her favorites of the New Wave, Industrial, Dark and Ambient genres.
submissives are required to bring a snack… something sweet.. something savory. Email Me at IamyourFetish@gmail.com if you are preparing a special dish or bringing a dessert to avoid repetition, and to respect My dietary preferences. Non-alcoholic beverages will be provided. BYOB (wine only please). Smoking is not allowed at the Studio.Y/you must RSVP for you and your guest to IamyourFetish@gmail.com for the address of the location.
If you have not been invited and wish to attend, submit a sincere request via email for My consideration : IamyourFetish@gmail.com.

Chicago’s ClubFEM December Party

Saturday, December 1st, 2012 · 9:00 PM – 1:00 AM
Location:The Studio Chicago
Address given to those who RSVP. @ map
Cost: admission is $10.00 per female, $20.00 per male. Couples : $20.00
Dress code: Fetish wear preferred. Males, keep ready for specifics!

Chicago’s ONLY female dominant/male submissive focused group.
Come play in an environment tailored our unique energy

Mistress Simone will be on a much needed vacation with hubbie boy so her fellow Domina, Ms Alexandra Sadista, has graciously agreed to step in as hostess.

As is the tradition at our parties, please bring a dish to share.Veggie tray, Dip, Cheese and meat trays are always welcome as are sweets! At this time, NO ALCOHOL is allowed any longer at the Studio. Please do not bring it in as you will be asked to remove it to your car.

You MUST confirm via email to Ms Simone at her email address — chicagomistress@gmail.com
Only those who have RSVP’d in this manner will be on the guest list. DO NOT call her business number seeking info or directions, nor email her website email. You will not receive a reply, only succeed in pissing her off.
RSVP’s sent after noon on party date will not be replied to. By then, we are in party prep mode.Please no phone calls or texts for the address.

Males must be presented in one of these ways: nude, feminized or revealing fetish gear. No male will be fully clothed at CCF functions.
ANYONE FOUND NOT TO BE IN COMPLIANCE WILL BE ASKED TO EITHER REMEDY IT IMMEDIATELY OR LEAVE.
Switches are welcome to come and explore but they must be in the proper role at all times during our party.
Play is negotiated between parties.There is no guarantee of play by attending.
For new attendees, I suggest you review the past few discussions on party behavior.

This is a lifestyle function.Professionals are welcome and encouraged to attend but please do not discuss sessions or business at CCF.
Lifestylers ,please be respectful of all other ladies.Any lady found being insulting to a sister will not be allowed at future CCF events.
All who attend CCF are sincerely interested in the fem dom/male sub dynamic.

DomCon Atlanta 2012

Last month, I had the honor of attending My second DomCon Atlanta, the world’s ONLY professional and lifestyle Domination Convention.  The founder of DomCon LA and DomCon Atlanta is Mistress Cyan of the Sanctuary in Los Angeles. For nine years, Mistress Cyan has worked hard to organize the event geared towards bringing together those in the BDSM, Leather and Professional Communities to promote awareness through education with various classes including demonstrations and panel discussions.

This year I had the honor of attending as a Special Guest, along with the Ladies of the Studio, Mistress Simone and Mistress Xena. As soon as We arrived, We were immersed in the lifestyle. The event itself was well organized and included many opportunities to attend the classes of your choice, socialize amongst kinksters, Pros and people in the Lifestyle, and PLAY! The weekend was short, but I was able to pick up a few goodies at the vendor’s market, and attended the Play Party on Saturday night. I was accompanied by My slave ‘O’ and arrived just early enough to have a brief yet intense scene with her in the main room before the venue filled up with guests. The rest of the evening was spent socializing, watching a couple of very intense (and smoking hot) scenes, and meeting Dominas from all over the US. Gay Pride Atlanta fell, once again, on the same weekend as DomCon, which resulted in My absence from the Con on the last day.

Plans are already in motion for Me to make an appearance at DomCon LA in May of 2013, where I will undoubtedly meet many more fabulous people, and see some of My West Coast kinksters that I have not seen in years.

~Alexandra