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Events at The Studio – December 2013

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Saturday, December 21, 2013 – Chicago ClubFEM Meet and Greet from 4pm-7pm

For many just getting started in the lifestyle, a play party can be a bit daunting. Even more so when faced with the MISTRESSES! So, come meet and mingle during the day light hours and see if the group is for you. This casual gathering will feature a short discussion facilitated by Head Mistress Simone, geared towards beginning protocol, party manners and rules of conduct. You do not have to attend the whole meet and greet but can come and go as desire. BNC (details below) is later that night so some of you might consider coming back for that.

Entrance fee is $10. No alcohol ,drugs or illegal activities ever take place at the Studio gatherings.

RSVP is the same as it is for parties. Please send to chicagomistress@gmail.com with name.

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Saturday, Dec 21st – BONDAGE NIGHT CHICAGO’S ANNUAL XMAS PARTY from 10pm-3am
With your Hostess: Mistress Xena Special Guests for the night:
Mistress Simone & Mistress Alexandra Sadista

This is an Annual X-Mas Party ! Yes, once more, X-Mas is upon us. The stores, the shopping, the madness. But tonight, we get a break from all that. We get to unwind in a playful way. This is the night for a kinky Christmas. And what a better way than to have a contest for the best dressed Santa, the sexiest Mrs.Claus, the sleaziest Elves and the Horniest Reindeers. Prizes will include sex toys, gift cards, and pornography.

Age: 18+. Entrance fee: $10 for Ladies / $20 for Gents.
BRING YOUR OWN ADULT TOYS CLEAN UP AFTER YOURSELVES AFTER YOUR SCENE !
It is a sober and Smoke free environment! Smoking and alcohol are forbidden on the premises.

We urge you to Dress-to-Impress. Feel free & bring a holiday snack / festive dish for the party, if you would like. No cameras are allowed in the dungeon. Street Parking is available. Or, you may park in the back of The Studio (in the CTA lot) for $5.

RSVP: bondagenightchicago@yahoo.com The address will be given to you, once you RSVP. You must RSVP, using your full name.

Review.

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Really enjoyed, i mean REALLY enjoyed, Saturday afternoon in Your clutches. I find Your enthusiasm for sadistic expression thrilling! W/we’ve had two sessions together and i haven’t felt a single minute boring or formulaically repetitive. Often, when seeing other Mistresses in the past, They will create something that was done in previous sessions exactly as before. Like a cook at a restaurant prepares the same lasagna night after night. Instead You create something fresh and keep things lively.
 
In answer to the top question on Your mind, YES, i drove the whole 3hrs home marinading in Your PISS. i was mortified every mile of the way. i even HAD TO stop and get gas. i usually go inside and pay with cash, but hell no, i used a credit card and got out. When You told me to put my clothes on and keep the diaper i was unsure. But it was such a humiliation for my Mistress to ask of me, i had to obey. i had to open the car window several times and then put up a scented air freshener when i got home.
 
my ass is quite tender and the bruises quite crimson/purple. i am constantly being reminded of Your swift strokes at every seating. i’m sure You approve.
 
Love to hear that i am bringing new ideas to You and giving You first experiences with bananas and peppers. in fact, this was my first figging. i loved how it was carved and i think figging will remain on my “must do” list. Your handiwork was much appreciated.
 
i’m done prattling on, but suffice it to say, i was used well and well used. Just as i like it.
i’m repeating myself but it’s true- Your smart and sexy. Why would i see anyone else?
(Written November 4th, 2013)

Bondage A Go-Go at Exit

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My lovely family of Kinksters will be dishing out the spanks this Thursday at Bondage A GoGo. Join Miss Sophia Asphyxia, Miss Ammunition, Daddy Sky and yours truly — also known as Team Vespertine! Whether you are curious about getting spanked, interested in being placed in bondage, or you are devoted to serving divine Goddesses, this is the night for you. Daddy Sky is a fierce member of Chicago’s own leather community. Daddy and babygrl Ammunition will be doing a BDSM demonstration – more details to be announced.

This is a rare opportunity to publicly play with Team V. Boys, take advantage of the occasion, as biological males are not allowed to attend the private parties Vespertine holds regularly. you may might not ever have a chance to play with these four again. Ladies, come play with Us… or rather, let Us play with you.

Thursday, June 27th at Exit Nightclub. 11PM—4AM, no cover.

About Team Vespertine…

Vespertine encourages education in the fine fetish arts and interactive, hands on role playing, safe and consensual scene play and a person’s right to explore new and exciting ways to express themselves in a sexual manner, safely. Vespertine is a private play party open to all women and transfolk. If you are a woman, you identify as a woman and live your daily life as a woman or are a female-born transgender person who feels they have a connection with and love of the kinky/leather/fetish women’s community, you are welcome at our private events.

My NiteFlirt Listing

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Hello, pets. I find Myself on this sunny Monday morning with a last minute cancellation, thus freeing up My time for a couple of hours, until My next appointment. What better way to kill some time than by dominating you via NiteFlirt? It is rare that I log in to receive calls, so take advantage of the moment! 10AM-NOON CST. you will find My NF call on My website, or by searching for MistressAlexandraS.

Have a Kinky Day!

Synopsis, written April 1st.

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A well-written session review by an enthusiast, during which some undeniably steamy memories were made. I thoroughly enjoyed reading this, and so will you!

I have been trying for a week to wrap my head around our time together and still can’t quite do it. You really did blow my mind!  I really appreciate how you took my input and crafted two perfect sessions. Not too heavy, not too light, but just right. You exploited my latex/corset/cleavage fetish expertly using and depriving my senses of sight, smell, sound, feel to tease, deny and reward me. The CBT was just awesome and the smack of your hand and flick of your finger was pure painful ecstasy!  The bondage was tremendous and all the other activities were heightened as I pulled against my restraints. Add to that another layer of the best NT ever, and everything just kept building.  Then the  icing on the cake was the anal play culminating with the truly mind altering Strapon fucking you gave me!  Every perfectly angled plunge was like the initial upswing of the beginning of an orgasm, which was quickly withdrawn bringing the arousal back to a lower plateau. And then quickly repeated. Over. And over. And over. It was a state of suspended orgasm,  suspended consciousness, complete submission and surrender of responsibility that was difficult for me to process. Then the hood/blindfold experience just brought it to yet another level. You left me aroused yet spent, pained yet pleasured. My mind was so overwhelmed with everything that for a period of time it was completely blank. And that is not any easy thing to do given all the stuff constantly racing through my brain. You turned me into a shaking, quivering mess and it was beyond anything I have ever experienced. I cannot thank you enough for the careful preparation and execution of my sessions and for expanding my experience beyond my imagination.   

With deepest gratitude until we meet again,

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My Bewitching Convergence

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On Saturday, November 24th, I am celebrating My Birthday Party, as well as My 5 year Anniversary of Pro-Domination.

Enjoy the Bewitching Convergence celebrating Mistress Alexandra’s Birthday and the Anniversary of 5 years of Pro-Domination.

8PM to 9PM ~ Absinthe Hour (Special Guests will be notified via email — no slaves/submissives allowed)
9PM til 1AM ~ The Soiree

I have updated My Wish List just in time for My Birthday! It can be found on Amazon.com under the email address Iamyourfetish@gmail.com. If you will not be attending and wish to send a token of your devotion via mail, please send gift to the following address:

Alexandra Sadista
PO Box 221565
Chicago, IL 60622

More info on the event:
This is a social, kink-friendly gathering for My friends, as well as those in the BDSM lifestyle. Secondly, this is a Play Party. Play is encouraged, but not required. Please bring your own toys. Musical soundtrack by Alexandra featuring her favorites of the New Wave, Industrial, Dark and Ambient genres.
submissives are required to bring a snack… something sweet.. something savory. Email Me at IamyourFetish@gmail.com if you are preparing a special dish or bringing a dessert to avoid repetition, and to respect My dietary preferences. Non-alcoholic beverages will be provided. BYOB (wine only please). Smoking is not allowed at the Studio.Y/you must RSVP for you and your guest to IamyourFetish@gmail.com for the address of the location.
If you have not been invited and wish to attend, submit a sincere request via email for My consideration : IamyourFetish@gmail.com.

Chicago’s ClubFEM December Party

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Saturday, December 1st, 2012 · 9:00 PM – 1:00 AM
Location:The Studio Chicago
Address given to those who RSVP. @ map
Cost: admission is $10.00 per female, $20.00 per male. Couples : $20.00
Dress code: Fetish wear preferred. Males, keep ready for specifics!

Chicago’s ONLY female dominant/male submissive focused group.
Come play in an environment tailored our unique energy

Mistress Simone will be on a much needed vacation with hubbie boy so her fellow Domina, Ms Alexandra Sadista, has graciously agreed to step in as hostess.

As is the tradition at our parties, please bring a dish to share.Veggie tray, Dip, Cheese and meat trays are always welcome as are sweets! At this time, NO ALCOHOL is allowed any longer at the Studio. Please do not bring it in as you will be asked to remove it to your car.

You MUST confirm via email to Ms Simone at her email address — chicagomistress@gmail.com
Only those who have RSVP’d in this manner will be on the guest list. DO NOT call her business number seeking info or directions, nor email her website email. You will not receive a reply, only succeed in pissing her off.
RSVP’s sent after noon on party date will not be replied to. By then, we are in party prep mode.Please no phone calls or texts for the address.

Males must be presented in one of these ways: nude, feminized or revealing fetish gear. No male will be fully clothed at CCF functions.
ANYONE FOUND NOT TO BE IN COMPLIANCE WILL BE ASKED TO EITHER REMEDY IT IMMEDIATELY OR LEAVE.
Switches are welcome to come and explore but they must be in the proper role at all times during our party.
Play is negotiated between parties.There is no guarantee of play by attending.
For new attendees, I suggest you review the past few discussions on party behavior.

This is a lifestyle function.Professionals are welcome and encouraged to attend but please do not discuss sessions or business at CCF.
Lifestylers ,please be respectful of all other ladies.Any lady found being insulting to a sister will not be allowed at future CCF events.
All who attend CCF are sincerely interested in the fem dom/male sub dynamic.