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Happy 18 Years Domme-aversary to Me!

[Pic from 2007. Photos taken prior belong to the commercial space I worked for so unfortunately I’ve no copies of those]

October marks 18 years working in professional Dominatrix. What a journey it’s been! It’s been a pleasure to meet the people who I’ve played with, traveled with, shared discussions, blood, sweat, and their tears. I’ve created memories to last a lifetime.

I remember My first session quite well. I tagged along with another Domme and watched Her work the hell out of Her submissive. The entire scene consisted of him on his knees being berated, teased, slapped, and lightly tortured by way of nipple pinching. I remember being in awe of Her demeanor and his puppy eyes staring into Hers and Mine. It was a look I craved to see again and again. But despite the thrill and excitement of it, I thought it lacked what I was seeking to explore and engage in, and this begun My journey of exploration in professional BDSM.

Coming from an eight year stint with an audacious band who featured Women in Leather performing a wide variety of fetish and circus acts, I had a very good idea of the direction I wanted to go in. I had extensive experience with piercing and cutting, basic flogging and impact play, fire play, role play (mostly student/Teacher and military), simple suspension and bondage. One could say I entered this profession with a full-steam-ahead attitude and lots of creative energy and inspiration.

I acquired My first slave only seven months in and immersed Myself in a style of play and interaction that helped Me develop an understanding of the submissive mindset. This wasn’t a performance, this was the real thing with real people. Many placed their minds and bodies in My care, trusting Me to guide them carefully and thoughtfully through their BDSM experience. What an honor it was, and still is!

I can honestly say that the connection I have with FemDom and BDSM is deeper than it ever has been. My desire to provide a sacred space for every person who entrusts Me with their lives is something I take very seriously. My passion for play is strong. This is not only a creative outlet, it is an opportunity to challenge Myself and My submissives to grow, expand their capabilities, and be rewarded in ways they never imagined before.

So… Happy FemDom anniversary to Me! Thank you to all who’ve supported Me, served in any capacity, and who’ve stuck by Me at My feet throughout all the years.

~DAS

If you wish to send a gift, I am currently desiring Gift Certificates to HW-Design