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Sadista to resume sessions in late August

Chicago, My brief hiatus is almost over. Did you miss Me? Of course you did. And I missed you.

What have I been up to? It seems I always have a few projects going on in the world of FemDom. This time most of My attention was on a very important and personal endeavor, so I decided to take a break from working. I won’t go into all the details, but I will let you know what is relevant to you. I will be back in the dungeon seeing new clients again very soon, and I will be seeing My regulars even sooner.  For those of you who I have not met, be forewarned… I have an even lower tolerance for discourteous and lazy email introductions. I will be quick to favor those who are respectful, honest, and articulate about the experience they seek to engage in with Me, and quick to deny and ignore those who fail to acknowledge and follow the booking procedures clearly stated on My website (

I will be available for sessions Monday through Friday in the evenings only and all day on Saturday and Sunday. If your only availability is in the daytime weekday hours, we can try to work something out provided you are in good standings with Me and can follow My booking instructions to a tee.It is highly encouraged you book with at least 48 hours advance notice. I will no longer offer same-day sessions, no exceptions.

Video shoots will resume in September, and until then you may purchase the clips that are available on My C4S store #50845. If you wish to be in a video shoot, scroll down to My blog entry with the requirements, and follow the instructions.

Travel will resume soon. I will more than likely visit Detroit first, followed by New Orleans in late fall, Madison WI in January, Houston and Austin in February.

Now for the good stuff… I’ve acquired a few new toys that I wish to add to My scenes of the electrical torture and breath control nature. I’ve also been away from the dungeon the longest time ever in My 11 years of domination. That said – I am very thirsty. My claws are sharpened. My big black cock is lubed up. My play piercing needle supply has been restocked. I long to hear the crack of My whip and the sting of My cane on your bare flesh, your whimpers and cries and pleas for mercy. I will put your tongue to use as you lick the bottoms of My leather boots clean, maybe I will allow you to kiss the leather or to suck on My heel. I am ready for you, slaves and fetishists and kinksters, to hand over your body and mind to utilize and manipulate in ways you never imagined.

Email Me to inquire about a session with Me starting in late August:

Phoenix and Los Angeles February Travel

Look out, I am heading West! I look forward to prescribing your perfect dose of BDSM and guiding you through My wonderful world of kink! Email Me to discuss a potential session:

PHOENIX: SATURDAY, FEB 11—WEDNESDAY, FEB 15 at Goddess Sadie‘s Secret Shangri-La.
One hour, extended scenes, and overnight sessions are available. Inquire about double Domina sessions with Goddess Sadie. If you wish to be in Our FemDom videos, send an email with previous experience and references.

LOS ANGELES: THURSDAY, FEB 16—WEDNESDAY, FEB 22 at the Ivy Manor in Downtown LA.
I will be attending the Domme Collective Matinee Play Party on Friday, February 17th. One hour, extended scenes, and overnight sessions are available. Inquire about double Domina sessions with My colleagues in Los Angeles including the fabulous Mistress Bella Bathory. If you wish to be in Bella and I’s FemDom videos, send an email with previous experience and references.



Sadista in Las Vegas — June 7th-11th

I am excited to announce the takeover of yet another US city, this time Las Vegas! I love hot climates, I highly enjoy swimming and laying out by the pool (I know, WHO doesn’t), and the hotel I am staying at on the Strip has several pools to enjoy! I do not like to gamble, so here is where you come in to entertain Me.

I will be seeing slaves from the morning of Wednesday, June 8th until the afternoon of  Saturday, June 11th. If you would like to meet Me, serve Me, and be immersed in a genuine FemDom experience like no other, email Me at with LAS VEGAS in the subject line.

I will be bringing a heavy suitcase with various articles of clothing and accoutrements for:

Impact play
Gags, blindfolds, hoods
Sensory Deprivation
Play piercing
Bathroom related activities
Public scenes – so many options in Sin City!
Leather, Latex, Lingerie fetish wear
Boots and heels

Miss Victoria Cayne’s ( trip is overlapping with Mine, so we decided to offer you the opportunity to see Us both! We are available on Tuesday, June 7th and Wednesday, June 8th ONLY. Email Me to inquire, with VEGAS DOUBLES in the subject line.

Looking forward to meeting kinksters and having fun in Vegas!
~Dominatrix Alexandra


Hot and Steamy in New Orleans 8/27 — 9/2

Not a morning goes by that I do not turn off the AC, open the windows, and allow the waves of heat to enter My apartment. Since the temperatures have lingered at 80+ degrees, I’ve been My happiest. I am enjoying consecutive days of being scantily clad, wearing bikinis under My casual clothing just in case I pop over to the beach on the way home. And in the spirit of summer, My session attire options lean towards bare legs instead of stockings, ass revealing skirts, leather or latex bras with matching thongs. I like it HOT. And it’s a good thing I do, because…


My arrival date is Saturday, August 29th. My departure date will either be Wednesday, September 2nd OR Saturday, the 5th.

Toys from My personal box will be traveling with Me for the following scenes:
• e-stim (electro-stimulation/torture)
• restrictive and predicament bondage, mummification
• corporal punishment and discipline
• play piercing
• medical/invasive procedures

For a complete list of the activities I engage in, go to
Email inquiries:

~Domina Alexandra Sadista


New Orleans, April 3rd—8th

The charming Big Easy beckons and I am happy to oblige! This is My first visit to New Orleans with the primary focus being on engaging in genuine BDSM scenes.

I am scheduling appointments in Mistress Genevieve’s Dungeon near in the Bywater area, approximately two miles east of the French Quarter. Four full days (Saturday 4 through Tuesday 7) are reserved for sessions, video shoots, and kink-related activities. Those who dare may inquire about doubles with Genevieve and I. Let’s make obscene memories, New Orleans!!!

There are a plethora of activities that I enjoy incorporating into a scene, ranging from edge play to humiliation scenes to sensual sadism, and beyond. The most important element, however, is the power exchange; your desire to submit. your desire to be taken over. your desire to relinquish control of life as you know it. your submission and your suffering is My kink, and the varying degrees you display will determine My mood during our time together.

Of course the activities we engage in must be ones that I have a hard-on for. Lucky for you, the list is abundant.  The following are examples of the types of scenes I am currently enjoying (the most):
• heavy bondage and restricted mobility, anal hooks
• verbal humiliation associated with slut training, toilets, ball busting/cbt
• medical scenes – sharps, enemas, invasive procedures, at, role-play
• over-stimulation of your senses/sensory play
• impact play
• foot domination, foot fetish scenes
I suggest you take a look at the Interests section on My website. I do not list/offer activities if I do not highly enjoy them.

Please peruse My website prior to emailing:

Deposits required.
P: 312-203-4535

~Dominatrix Alexandra Sadista



Sessions available with Ms Sophia Asphyxia through the end of October



Ms Sophia Asphyxia is giving you the rare opportunity to serve Her during Her third trimester or Her pregnancy. That’s right, Sophia is glowing with a bun in the over, and is accepting inquiries for sessions including, but not limited to, the following activities:

• Bare handed spankings
• Corporal punishment and discipline
• Tease and Denial
• Golden showers
• Smothering (with protective barrier)
• Foot worship
• Trampling
• Body worship
• Age play
• Shaving scenes: I will elaborate on the shaving scene and stress the fact that this is a once in a lifetime chance to serve Sophia by devoting your gentle touch to making Her life easier during these last couple of months. Sophia will be allowing a small number of carefully selected clients to shave Her. you must have experience with either shaving your own private area or the private area of another.

Sophia and I are also offering Double Domme sessions at a discounted tribute (email for info) at the fully equipped Studio. Keep in mind that if you do not have any experience with shaving, this would be the perfect opportunity to have Me as your teacher, so to perform the task without any mishaps. AB and age regression scenes are recommended between the two of Us, as well as the activities listed above and those on My website, with exception of heavy medical scenes.


you may email Me at to book an appointment. Verifiable references and/or a deposit will be required.

If you are smart and know an amazing opportunity when you see one, you will not waste any time and book your time with Sophia Asphyxia for a solo or double Domme session.

Visiting San Francisco 9/18 — 9/22

San Francisco: Friday, September 19th — Monday, September 22nd (FOLSOM)

I am visiting San Francisco and taking appointments for the first time ever in California. Below are the only days/times you may book your time with Me. Send a polite introduction via email. Include your name, a description of your fantasy/scene, the activities you enjoy that correlate with Mine, and any additional, pertinent information. you will be required to submit a deposit to reserve your appointment.

Friday, September 19th — Saturday, September 20th — Monday, September 22nd

My website:
Contact info:

Queerella Fistalot will be joining Me, and We are offering double Domme sessions for a very low tribute. Why? Because We want to give you the opportunity to suffer for Us. Below is a photo of Queerella.

All emails are welcome. I would love to connect with people in the area, but time will more than likely not allow. My schedule is filling up quickly, with Friday, Saturday, and part of Monday reserved for play with new clients. The Armory of kink(dot)com fame is on the list of places to visit, and possibly one of the events held in conjunction with BondCon. Of course, Sunday is reserved for kinky fun and debauchery at the Folsom Street Fair with My cohorts from Chicago, and the sea of pervs that will be attending.

Additional information regarding  where I will be conducting My sessions will be added momentarily.

~Alexandra the Sadist


A portrait of a toilet bitch.

(not safe for you – if you are faint of heart, weak in the knees, or have a fragile stomach. Brown shower talk ahead, enter at your own risk!)


When My toilet-bitch and I met for the first time in May of 2012, I certainly did not anticipate he would earn a place in My stable. he came to Me for guidance, committed to serving Me to his best abilities, willing to face the many challenges this type of service involves. There have been moments of near-success and some of not-so-near, moments when punishment was a necessary action, and rewards were rightfully earned. Through it all, I always knew in his heart he wanted nothing more than to be the best toilet that he can be.

My most memorable training session to date was when he suggested a scenario that was a long time fantasy of Mine. he suggested he be My toilet, in My home (as he has been allowed in many times due to the nature of the scene). he wanted to be placed in a spot I designated for him, in a box that did not allow him to see much. he would be in this position for 5-6 hours, and would be used whenever nature called. This was a scene I read about happening mostly in commercial Dungeons, and I found the idea to be highly arousing. We began the scene, and without going into too much detail, it had to be cut short.

Moving on to our most recent, successful meeting with My T-Bitch… Once again, he suggested a scenario I fantasized about enacting ever since My first experience, during which My boy would consume a mixture that would provide for him to eat, to be served in a bowl. When it was time for the scene, My TB was inspired to bring a plate and utensils to consume everything as, literally, a full meal on a plate. My preparations went perfectly according to plan, and he was indeed served one of the largest meals in our history together. Much to My surprise, he pleased Me by not only finishing every bit, but also licking his utensils clean… Down to every last drop! he was rewarded with a couple of activities where he finds a great deal of pleasure, and I too, knowing the rewards well very well earned. A job very well done, toilet-bitch!

One of the most enjoyable aspects of our play is how inspired he is with every challenge, overzealous at times, but always wanting to out do himself. he is as devoted as I am pleased to push his boundaries and have him serve Me in this fashion. With so many wonderful experiences with him, I look forward to how we can continue to out do each of our training sessions. I’ve a few ideas….


i have served my incredible and beautiful Goddess, Mistress Alexandra Sadista, for a couple years.  During that time, She has guided my training as Her toilet.  Our mutual goal has been for me to become Her fully consuming toilet, taking in all Her divine wastes. As she puts it, “you are My toilet to use as I see fit.”  She is my Goddess and it is my ultimate way of worshiping Her, showing my complete submission and devotion to Her.  i have had my successes and failures.    She has sternly pushed me to become a better toilet for Her.

Prior to my most recent service, She firmly advised me that i would receive “a generous, proper feeding.”  She instructed me “Be prepared!  I will have a full meal ready for you, My toilet, and you must clean your plate otherwise you cannot leave the table.  Every little morsel.  I won’t take no for an answer!”   i agreed to bring a plate, knife and fork to help me with my task.  With great nervousness but also great determination to achieve my goal and please my Goddess, i arrived at Her door.

When She opened the door, She was amazingly beautiful as always, luxurious dark hair, flawless olive toned skin and a wicked smile.  i knelt down and kissed each of Her boots. As i met Her stern gaze, She asked “Are you ready today, My toilet?  Are you hungry for a full meal?”  i mumbled “Yes, Mistress,” trying to sound confident.  She replied,  “Good,  you better be! Don’t disappoint Me, toilet!”. She then proceeded to tie up my cock and balls and commanded me to put on a diaper.  Next, She sat down, instructed me to lie over Her lap and pulled down my diaper and gave me many hard spankings, each one stinging smartly and each one harder than the other.   She warned me, “Remember, there will be much harder spankings if you do not clean your plate today!  I might have to use a harsher implement as well!”  i mumbled “Yes, Mistress,” knowing She was serious.  When She was satisfied with the redness of my bottom, She announced,  “It is time for your meal, toilet! I am ready to use you.  Assume your proper toilet position!”.  She then slipped off Her underwear and sat above me on Her toilet throne.  Entranced, i gazed admiringly up at Her feminine flower and Her beautiful rosebud framed by a perfectly shaped muscular derriere, aware that i would soon be receiving my fresh drink and meal directly from my Goddess.  i waited with nervous anticipation.  She then commanded “Open your mouth, toilet, I am ready to give you My golden!”  i obeyed and my mouth was filled to the brim with heavy streams of Her delicious golden piss.  She commanded “Keep your mouth open and drink every drop, toilet!” as i gulped vigorously.  She fully emptied Her bladder into my toilet mouth, then told me to “ keep your mouth wide open, toilet!”  i was mesmerized by the glorious sight of Her beautiful rosebud puckering and Her brown slowly emerging.  As She had warned me, several firm brown caviar logs came out of Her one by one and landed in my mouth.  But they were too big to swallow and fell to the side.  She stood up, looked down and saw that they were beside me.  She mischievously smiled while observing, “That is quite a large load! you have a big meal today, toilet!”  She then ordered me to sit up.  She handed me the plate, knife and fork i had brought with me that day.  She placed all Her brown logs on the plat,  handed me the knife and fork, then sat down in front of me and looked directly into my eyes to remind me of my task.  “It’s time to for you to eat, toilet.  Now be a good toilet and clean your plate.  Every morsel.  If you do not completely clean your plate, you will be severely punished!”  i gradually ate my meal, piece by piece, chewing and swallowing every bite.  Each piece was still warm and fresh, firm but still moist and chewy.  The taste was strong and bitter but also delicious since it was Her divine waste.   As i did so, She looked into my eyes and firmly encouraged me with Her words. i eventually finished all the logs, a full load.  She smiled and said “Wonderful, toilet! But, you’re not quite done yet. Here, let Me help you.”  She drooled a large serving of spit onto the plate and mixed it with Her remaining brown.   She then said, “There you go.  Now finish cleaning your plate, toilet. Eat every little bit.  I want the plate spotless.”  As She ordered, i licked it completely clean and spotless to Her satisfaction.  Still not satisfied, She inspected the knife and fork, noticed some of Her brown still clinging to them and commented, “Oh, these aren’t quite clean yet toilet!  Lick them clean too!”   Soon, i had licked these spotless too.  She inspected the utensils, flashed Her wicked smile again, patted me on the head and said “Good job, toilet!”   She then gave me a chance to clean off in the shower. 

When i emerged again, She told me it was time for my reward.  She inserted a butt plug in my ass.  Then, She lay down and gave me the honor of massaging Her gorgeous feet and legs.   Her long lithe legs and petite feet are as perfectly shaped as Her Goddess bottom and it was a delight to serve Her in this way.  i was also rewarded with the sight of Her amazingly beautiful derriere as i massaged Her.  When i had completed this task, She advised me that She felt like She might have dessert for me!  i was so full from the earlier meal i had to reluctantly and graciously decline.  She was disappointed but realized i might back up if i ate more.  She used my ass some more and then had one final task for me, announcing “you will have dessert anyway, My toilet!”   She commanded me to assume a position on all fours and to masturbate.  As i did so, She placed the plate underneath me and commanded me “Come on the plate!  Don’t miss!”  When i was done, She told me to sit down once again, handed me the plate and instructed me, “Lick up every drop, I want the plate clean and spotless again.”  As She watched, i obediently did so.  She inspected the plate and announced “Perfect!  Every last drop!”   i was then allowed to dress and present myself to Her once again.  She asked me “How do you feel, toilet?”  i told Her i felt full and also happy after fulfilling my purpose as Her toilet.   With a satisfied smirk, She said, ” you should feel full! you served Me well and did an excellent job today, My toilet, consuming every drop and morsel of My gifts, not letting anything go to waste, your best job yet.  I am very pleased.  Now you may go.”  Before departing, i knelt and kissed Her boots again while She gave me another gentle pat on the head.  As i left, i felt deep satisfaction knowing that i had pleased my Goddess by fulfilling my sole purpose in life as Her toilet, Her shit and piss receptacle, Her “shit and piss pig.” i felt content knowing that the shit and piss of my Goddess were deep inside me, Her toilet.