Chicago, My brief hiatus is almost over. Did you miss Me? Of course you did. And I missed you.
What have I been up to? It seems I always have a few projects going on in the world of FemDom. This time most of My attention was on a very important and personal endeavor, so I decided to take a break from working. I won’t go into all the details, but I will let you know what is relevant to you. I will be back in the dungeon seeing new clients again very soon, and I will be seeing My regulars even sooner. For those of you who I have not met, be forewarned… I have an even lower tolerance for discourteous and lazy email introductions. I will be quick to favor those who are respectful, honest, and articulate about the experience they seek to engage in with Me, and quick to deny and ignore those who fail to acknowledge and follow the booking procedures clearly stated on My website (www.Iamyourfetish.com/contact).
I will be available for sessions Monday through Friday in the evenings only and all day on Saturday and Sunday. If your only availability is in the daytime weekday hours, we can try to work something out provided you are in good standings with Me and can follow My booking instructions to a tee.It is highly encouraged you book with at least 48 hours advance notice. I will no longer offer same-day sessions, no exceptions.
Video shoots will resume in September, and until then you may purchase the clips that are available on My C4S store #50845. If you wish to be in a video shoot, scroll down to My blog entry with the requirements, and follow the instructions.
Travel will resume soon. I will more than likely visit Detroit first, followed by New Orleans in late fall, Madison WI in January, Houston and Austin in February.
Now for the good stuff… I’ve acquired a few new toys that I wish to add to My scenes of the electrical torture and breath control nature. I’ve also been away from the dungeon the longest time ever in My 11 years of domination. That said – I am very thirsty. My claws are sharpened. My big black cock is lubed up. My play piercing needle supply has been restocked. I long to hear the crack of My whip and the sting of My cane on your bare flesh, your whimpers and cries and pleas for mercy. I will put your tongue to use as you lick the bottoms of My leather boots clean, maybe I will allow you to kiss the leather or to suck on My heel. I am ready for you, slaves and fetishists and kinksters, to hand over your body and mind to utilize and manipulate in ways you never imagined.
Email Me to inquire about a session with Me starting in late August: Iamyourfetish@gmail.com
Look out, I am heading West! I look forward to prescribing your perfect dose of BDSM and guiding you through My wonderful world of kink! Email Me to discuss a potential session: Iamyourfetish@gmail.com
PHOENIX: SATURDAY, FEB 11—WEDNESDAY, FEB 15 at Goddess Sadie‘s Secret Shangri-La.
One hour, extended scenes, and overnight sessions are available. Inquire about double Domina sessions with Goddess Sadie. If you wish to be in Our FemDom videos, send an email with previous experience and references.
LOS ANGELES: THURSDAY, FEB 16—WEDNESDAY, FEB 22 at the Ivy Manor in Downtown LA.
I will be attending the Domme Collective Matinee Play Party on Friday, February 17th. One hour, extended scenes, and overnight sessions are available. Inquire about double Domina sessions with My colleagues in Los Angeles including the fabulous Mistress Bella Bathory. If you wish to be in Bella and I’s FemDom videos, send an email with previous experience and references.
I am excited to announce the takeover of yet another US city, this time Las Vegas! I love hot climates, I highly enjoy swimming and laying out by the pool (I know, WHO doesn’t), and the hotel I am staying at on the Strip has several pools to enjoy! I do not like to gamble, so here is where you come in to entertain Me.
I will be seeing slaves from the morning of Wednesday, June 8th until the afternoon of Saturday, June 11th. If you would like to meet Me, serve Me, and be immersed in a genuine FemDom experience like no other, email Me at Iamyourfetish@gmail.com with LAS VEGAS in the subject line.
I will be bringing a heavy suitcase with various articles of clothing and accoutrements for:
Gags, blindfolds, hoods
Bathroom related activities
Public scenes – so many options in Sin City!
Leather, Latex, Lingerie fetish wear
Boots and heels
Miss Victoria Cayne’s (www.VictoriaCayne.com) trip is overlapping with Mine, so we decided to offer you the opportunity to see Us both! We are available on Tuesday, June 7th and Wednesday, June 8th ONLY. Email Me to inquire, with VEGAS DOUBLES in the subject line.
Looking forward to meeting kinksters and having fun in Vegas!
Not a morning goes by that I do not turn off the AC, open the windows, and allow the waves of heat to enter My apartment. Since the temperatures have lingered at 80+ degrees, I’ve been My happiest. I am enjoying consecutive days of being scantily clad, wearing bikinis under My casual clothing just in case I pop over to the beach on the way home. And in the spirit of summer, My session attire options lean towards bare legs instead of stockings, ass revealing skirts, leather or latex bras with matching thongs. I like it HOT. And it’s a good thing I do, because…
NEW ORLEANS, I AM HEADING YOUR WAY.
My arrival date is Saturday, August 29th. My departure date will either be Wednesday, September 2nd OR Saturday, the 5th.
Toys from My personal box will be traveling with Me for the following scenes:
• e-stim (electro-stimulation/torture)
• restrictive and predicament bondage, mummification
• corporal punishment and discipline
• play piercing
• medical/invasive procedures
For a complete list of the activities I engage in, go to www.Iamyourfetish.com/interests.
Email inquiries: IamyourFetish@gmail.com
~Domina Alexandra Sadista
I am currently seeking male bottoms, pain-sluts, masochists, extreme kinksters for upcoming video shoots. Experience is preferred. you must be able to provide a government issued ID and sign a model release form. It is My preference that you wear a hood. It is also My preference that you be hooded and immobilized in heavy bondage while I rape your every hole, but let’s be real… most of you cannot handle that.
Below is the list of activities I will be filming:
CBT and NT – Not on the lighter side of the spectrum.
Ball busting – If you have any doubts, then you will not be able to handle it
Heavy/predicament bondage/sensory deprivation – Not for beginners
Strap/on – No beginners. If you want training, schedule a session.
Deep throat/gagging – No gag reflex? Definitely a plus.
Heavy Corporal scenes – If you cannot have visible remnants the next day, this is not for you.
Extensive play piercing
Objectification – this position has been filled.
If you are able to participate in one or more than one of these categories, email Me with an introduction with “Video Shoot” in the subject line. State the activities you are interested in participating in, your limitations, and availability. If you have verifiable references, include that information as well.
If you are interested in filming with Me, but do not have experience in a certain area of interest, schedule a session with Me. We will explore the activity/s.
I welcome suggestions, particularly if there is an activity you are well-versed in as a bottom.
Email: IamyourFetish@gmail.com. Shooting will begin in June.
~Dominatrix Alexandra Sadista
The charming Big Easy beckons and I am happy to oblige! This is My first visit to New Orleans with the primary focus being on engaging in genuine BDSM scenes.
I am scheduling appointments in Mistress Genevieve’s Dungeon near in the Bywater area, approximately two miles east of the French Quarter. Four full days (Saturday 4 through Tuesday 7) are reserved for sessions, video shoots, and kink-related activities. Those who dare may inquire about doubles with Genevieve and I. Let’s make obscene memories, New Orleans!!!
There are a plethora of activities that I enjoy incorporating into a scene, ranging from edge play to humiliation scenes to sensual sadism, and beyond. The most important element, however, is the power exchange; your desire to submit. your desire to be taken over. your desire to relinquish control of life as you know it. your submission and your suffering is My kink, and the varying degrees you display will determine My mood during our time together.
Of course the activities we engage in must be ones that I have a hard-on for. Lucky for you, the list is abundant. The following are examples of the types of scenes I am currently enjoying (the most):
• heavy bondage and restricted mobility, anal hooks
• verbal humiliation associated with slut training, toilets, ball busting/cbt
• medical scenes – sharps, enemas, invasive procedures, at, role-play
• over-stimulation of your senses/sensory play
• impact play
• foot domination, foot fetish scenes
I suggest you take a look at the Interests section on My website. I do not list/offer activities if I do not highly enjoy them.
Please peruse My website prior to emailing:
~Dominatrix Alexandra Sadista
Ms Sophia Asphyxia is giving you the rare opportunity to serve Her during Her third trimester or Her pregnancy. That’s right, Sophia is glowing with a bun in the over, and is accepting inquiries for sessions including, but not limited to, the following activities:
• Bare handed spankings
• Corporal punishment and discipline
• Tease and Denial
• Golden showers
• Smothering (with protective barrier)
• Foot worship
• Body worship
• Age play
• Shaving scenes: I will elaborate on the shaving scene and stress the fact that this is a once in a lifetime chance to serve Sophia by devoting your gentle touch to making Her life easier during these last couple of months. Sophia will be allowing a small number of carefully selected clients to shave Her. you must have experience with either shaving your own private area or the private area of another.
Sophia and I are also offering Double Domme sessions at a discounted tribute (email for info) at the fully equipped Studio. Keep in mind that if you do not have any experience with shaving, this would be the perfect opportunity to have Me as your teacher, so to perform the task without any mishaps. AB and age regression scenes are recommended between the two of Us, as well as the activities listed above and those on My website, with exception of heavy medical scenes.
you may email Me at Iamyourfetish@gmail.com to book an appointment. Verifiable references and/or a deposit will be required.
If you are smart and know an amazing opportunity when you see one, you will not waste any time and book your time with Sophia Asphyxia for a solo or double Domme session.
San Francisco: Friday, September 19th — Monday, September 22nd (FOLSOM)
I am visiting San Francisco and taking appointments for the first time ever in California. Below are the only days/times you may book your time with Me. Send a polite introduction via email. Include your name, a description of your fantasy/scene, the activities you enjoy that correlate with Mine, and any additional, pertinent information. you will be required to submit a deposit to reserve your appointment.
Friday, September 19th — Saturday, September 20th — Monday, September 22nd
My website: www.IamyourFetish.com
Contact info: IamyourFetish@gmail.com
Queerella Fistalot will be joining Me, and We are offering double Domme sessions for a very low tribute. Why? Because We want to give you the opportunity to suffer for Us. Below is a photo of Queerella.
All emails are welcome. I would love to connect with people in the area, but time will more than likely not allow. My schedule is filling up quickly, with Friday, Saturday, and part of Monday reserved for play with new clients. The Armory of kink(dot)com fame is on the list of places to visit, and possibly one of the events held in conjunction with BondCon. Of course, Sunday is reserved for kinky fun and debauchery at the Folsom Street Fair with My cohorts from Chicago, and the sea of pervs that will be attending.
Additional information regarding where I will be conducting My sessions will be added momentarily.
~Alexandra the Sadist
I am Mistress Alexandra la Sadista, a Chicago-based Dominatrix. Stern, demanding, and deviously perverted.
I am traveling with Mistress Simone of Chicago to Dallas, Texas for the True Desires event hosted by Maitresse Renee. Sessions are being scheduled for Saturday, February 1st through Tuesday February 4th in Her massive 7K square foot Dungeon.
Scenes involving bondage, mummification, sensory deprivation, needle play, corporal punishment/discipline, CBT/NT, select types of worship (E.G. foot, boot), and many more are an option. Players of all experience levels are welcome, but must follow proper booking procedures (instructions below). Refer to My website (www.IamyourFetish.com) for the complete list of My preferred activities before making contact. Compatibility is a must!
For those wishing to indulge even further, you may inquire about Double or Triple-Domme session.
Inquiries can be sent to IamyourFetish@gmail.com. Mention “Dallas” in the subject line, and in your email include your interests, level of experience, hard limits, and any other pertinent details, such as current medical conditions. My time is limited, and I understand yours might be as well. Ample advance notice is preferred. A small deposit is required, otherwise our time will not be reserved in My book.
In the case you would like to make contact via Interweb, you may choose to do so using one of the following methods:
Gchat: Alexandra Sadista
Amazon: Or simply send a token of your admiration
Once again, Texas, I will be penetrating you very soon.
~Mistress Alexandra la Sadista
My lovely family of Kinksters will be dishing out the spanks this Thursday at Bondage A GoGo. Join Miss Sophia Asphyxia, Miss Ammunition, Daddy Sky and yours truly — also known as Team Vespertine! Whether you are curious about getting spanked, interested in being placed in bondage, or you are devoted to serving divine Goddesses, this is the night for you. Daddy Sky is a fierce member of Chicago’s own leather community. Daddy and babygrl Ammunition will be doing a BDSM demonstration – more details to be announced.
This is a rare opportunity to publicly play with Team V. Boys, take advantage of the occasion, as biological males are not allowed to attend the private parties Vespertine holds regularly. you may might not ever have a chance to play with these four again. Ladies, come play with Us… or rather, let Us play with you.
Thursday, June 27th at Exit Nightclub. 11PM—4AM, no cover.
About Team Vespertine…
Vespertine encourages education in the fine fetish arts and interactive, hands on role playing, safe and consensual scene play and a person’s right to explore new and exciting ways to express themselves in a sexual manner, safely. Vespertine is a private play party open to all women and transfolk. If you are a woman, you identify as a woman and live your daily life as a woman or are a female-born transgender person who feels they have a connection with and love of the kinky/leather/fetish women’s community, you are welcome at our private events.