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Erotic Hypnosis, Hypnosis and BDSM Classes – September 20-22

The Studio is proud to host renowned hypnotist, Lee Allure, for a three day class and party weekend.

Friday, Sept 20 – EROTIC HYPNOSIS 101 with Lee Allure – 6pm-8pm

Learn to hypnotize or become a better subject in this class geared toward beginners and those seeking to learn about this intense activity. Designed to ramp you up fast from basic to more advanced techniques such as instant orgasms. Includes brief discussions on safety, ethics and consent.

Saturday, Sept 21 – EROTIC HYPNOSIS CLASS #2  with Lee Allure – 4pm – 6pm

Great! You can hypnotize! What do you do now? This class explores some fun hypnotic options for play after the induction, and gets you playing, and helps make your partners better subjects.

Saturday, Sept 21 – LOOK INTO MY EYES …. STUDIO PLAY PARTY ” Hypnosis, Tickling, Flogging, oh my!” – 9pm-1am – $10

In honor of our guest educator, Lee Allure, the Studio is having a bright and shiny play party! We will be having some fun with the new hypnosis skills learned plus general kink. All fetishes are welcome to come and have a wonderful time in the 1800 sq ft. of fully equipped dungeon.

Light refreshments,water and soda will be provided. No alcohol, drugs or smoking is allowed. RSVP is mandatory to chicagomistress@gmail.com at least 24 hours before party time. None will be accepted the day of.

Sunday, September 22nd – Hypnosis & BDSM with Lee Allure – 2pm – 4pm

Enhance your bdsm play by upping/moving/changing sensation, using rough play to cause a trance state, getting into someone’s mind to find their true desires and to make them happen with you, when and how you choose.

WWW.LEEALLURE.COM – please visit her site to learn more about this highly personable, intelligent educator.

Each of the classes can be attended independently.
$20 per class, $30 for non deadline RSVPS, $50 for all three classes
Send RSVPS to chicagomistress@gmail.com
All RSVPS for all classes and party must be in by Thursday ,September 19th-midnight. Any after that will not receive the early rate.

Fisting and God’s Will

My day has been enlightened, due to God’s will. According to this person’s scripture, things Christians thought were blasphemous and controversial are now acceptable and could help you be spiritually closer to God, and your wife/husband’s privates.

I must add that I greatly appreciate people that can find humor in anything, especially when they can shamelessly put forth time and effort to make the world a better place by giving Us something to laugh at. And that applies to… everything.

Here are a couple excerpts for you all to enjoy and hopefully get a chuckle from:

“In the Song of Solomon, the Bible describes the act of fisting and the profound erotic bliss it induces: It is the voice of my beloved! He knocks, saying, ‘Open for me, my sister, my love, My dove, my perfect one’…My love thrust his hand through the opening, and my feelings were stirred for him. (Song of Solomon 5:2-4)”

“Before attempting fisting, a Christian husband and wife should pray together and ask for divine guidance. The husband should ask that God guide his hand and work through him, and for the skill and patience to fist his wife correctly and maximize her pleasure. The wife should pray for openness and readiness to receive God’s love and grace in the form of her husband’s hand.”Read more about “Sex In Christ” Fisting in the name of the Lord! Hallelujah!!

A Post From the Past — 12/8/12

Reminiscence.

 

A week ago I had the pleasure of having an extended session with My co-hort of the day, Miss XXXXX. boy came in from Vancouver to get tortured by Us, and torture We did. We began early and intensely, never letting up on Our lovely pain-slut. We ordered lunch and a few minutes later sent Our boy to retrieve it, wearing his casual clothing and collar and a huge proud smile. He then became Our footstool and Our servant as we enjoyed a casual conversation amongst ourselves. We finished, enjoyed a cigarette, and continued with ferocity.

He was a true pain-slut, a pleaser, a boy who desperately wanted his Mistresses to be proud of him. What was most enjoyable to Me was his exhibition of enthusiasm with ardor to be Our slave for the day, serving in any which way he could to please Us. As much as I would like all slaves to behave in this manner, the truth is a genuine demeanor like his presents itself infrequently.

 

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Written 8/21/08

Clips For Sale.

Two new clips have been added to My C4S store #50845. I suggest you treat yourself to a video containing three of Chicago’s finest Dominas.

The Chicago Mistresses (Alexandra la Sadista, Mistress Simone, and Mistress Xena) have their way with hoodman one afternoon. Watch as We have fun abusing Our bottom bitch.

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The Chicago Mistresses meet hoodman Part 1 and Part 2 — .MP4 & .MP4 (Filmed during DomCon ATL 2012).

Foot Fetishists!

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On Saturday, July 27th, the Studio welcomes:

Phillatio Foot’s 50th B-Day Party and Foot Fetish Extravaganza!!!

Hosted By: Phil-latio-Foot, Mistress Alexandra & 30 of Chicago’s hottest feet hostesses.

~Message from Phil-latio-Foot~

Hello Footsluts!
This long-running party has a great atmosphere, music, and the hottest feet in Chicago. I will expect that gentlemen act and dress like gentlemen (you don’t have dress fetish at my parties just business casual or nice evening attire) and email me to RSVP for further instructions (bday gift , donation, address). Drinks and snacks will be provided plus 20-30 of the hottest Foot-Dommes and models in the Midwest will be there to trample, tickle, stomp, kick, and make you massage, kiss, lick, sniff, and suck on their toes. If you are interested in attending please e-mail me at phillatiofoot@yahoo.com.

Don’t be fooled by other parties, there is only the best running the
last 15 years!!!


The Party begins at 8PM and goes until midnight.
This Party will have a Leo theme, we welcome all those celebrating Leo birthdays!
Enjoy an evening with the Sexiest feet in Chicago.

Location: Upon RSVP! Email: phillatiofoot@yahoo.com

A Kink-Filled Weekend in Chicago

While I normally do not cross-promote the events I participate in, I made an exception on account of the full schedule that lies ahead of Me. Yes, you may stalk Me.

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This evening, I am performing with Mistress Sophia Asphyxia at a weekly event I manage called SIN. In honor of the leather lifestyle, we will be bringing our favorite whips and chains, in addition to the standard fire torches and angle grinders. (Roscoe’s Tavern)

Tomorrow evening, I will be performing with ex-Domme Ammunition and the crazy crew from Porn and Chicken. Yes, there is actually porn on the screens, and fried chicken for the audience. (Bodi)

Saturday I team up with local band Catalyst and perform their stage as they rock out. (Nite Caps)

AND Sunday! The event I am looking forward to the most! Vespertine, a strictly Woman’s only Play Party run by Daddy Sky and Myself. Mistress Sophia Asphyxia, Ammunition and I will be performing BDSM demos including wet fire cupping, play piercing, and a violet wand/fire play combination. Looking forward to playing with the Ladies! Sorry, no penises allowed! (The Studio)

In addition, I will be attending the IML Leather Market with My boy who, thanks to some early self-exploration and My influence, has a newfound fascination and appreciation for all things CBB!

Have a Kinky weekend!

~Alex

Objectified, and Ignored scene.

A six weeks ago, My s-toiletbitch approached Me with the idea of a heavy objectification scene. Surprisingly, he managed to depict a scenario that has been a long time fantasy of Mine. Previous circumstances and timing did not allow for such a scene in the past, but now, everything seemed to line up. I admit, My mind was reeling at the thought of this actually being actualized.

The fantasy was simple. s-toiletbitch was to serve as Me over the course of half a day. he would be bound to My toilet box in My private dungeon, and I was to go about My daily activities. When not being used, he would simply be ignored. Pretty straightforward. Of course if at any time I felt the inclination, I could stuff his ass or slap at his cock and balls, or something of the like.

I will be concise about the actual scene that took place… he arrived, was quickly situated and bound to the box, and I proceeded to ignore his existence. Less than two hours into the scene, he was given his first bountiful food and golden drink of the day directly from the source, and was rewarded a glimpse of My beautiful, muscular derriere. Unexpectedly, he began to struggle with his feeding, and before I could snap gloves on and force feed him, he sits up and calls it quits.

My fantasy was ruined not even two hours into the afternoon-long scene! My first reaction was to let him know just how I felt about his failing as My toilet, and how he wasted My valuable time, energy, and elaborate efforts. Instead, I took into consideration that every time he serves Me, he does in fact attempt to be the best toilet he can be, despite the hefty challenges I throw his way. We had a brief chat, during which he admitted that there were external factors that attributed to his failed attempt. I forgave him, and he left after being a good boy and showing his appreciation for My efforts, with his tail tucked in between is legs.

The negotiation and communication that takes place before any complex scene is crucial to the experience and the results, THAT should go without saying. Yet, there are still factors that play into how one may react once immersed in a scene, when the “oh, shit! What did i get myself into” thought comes to mind, when one realizes one is not at all prepared for what they asked for. Or, it might be an external issue that has nothing to do with Me or the scene planned. In this particular case, standard negotiations took place with My regular. The difference was he decided to not communicate that he had been hesitating for days prior to the date, due to personal conflicts outside of BDSM, so to not disappoint Me.

My point is, to all those that fall into the category of

• submissives
• clients
• cum buckets
• foot stools
• shit bags
• masochists
• just another hole to stuff
• anyone who serves in a subservient capacity

…you all still HAVE A VOICE. Communication is a fundamental part of the interactions I have with the afore mentioned beings, and without it, you will not get very far with Me, or in life! My interactions are meant to be mutually beneficial, healthy, kink-positive, safe, with an understanding of intentions prior to entering a scene, any kind of training, or long-term servitude. Do not let your “submissiveness” or fear of doing or saying what may not please Me get in the way of what is expected from you. Or your “manliness”, that will not be tolerated either.

In other news, it’s HOT out, and Alexandra is loving it!

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Wanna taste? In your sweet, kinky dreams!
~Alexandra

 

Visiting Houston, TX

I will be traveling to Texas and will have TWO DAYS ONLY set aside for appointments in the Montrose area of Houston. Scenes involving bondage, mummification, sensory deprivation, corporal punishment/discipline, CBT/NT, select types of worship, and many more can be negotiated. Refer to My website (www.IamyourFetish.com) for the complete list of My preferred activities before making contact. Compatibility is a must!

For those wishing to indulge even further, you may book a double Domme session with Myself and Domina Shannon (www.DominaShannon.com).

SUNDAY, APRIL 28TH & MONDAY, APRIL 29TH

you may contact Me via email or phone to discuss an appointment. Deposits and/or references are required for booking.

Looking forward to being in you, Texas!

~Mistress Alexandra

DomCon Atlanta 2012

Last month, I had the honor of attending My second DomCon Atlanta, the world’s ONLY professional and lifestyle Domination Convention.  The founder of DomCon LA and DomCon Atlanta is Mistress Cyan of the Sanctuary in Los Angeles. For nine years, Mistress Cyan has worked hard to organize the event geared towards bringing together those in the BDSM, Leather and Professional Communities to promote awareness through education with various classes including demonstrations and panel discussions.

This year I had the honor of attending as a Special Guest, along with the Ladies of the Studio, Mistress Simone and Mistress Xena. As soon as We arrived, We were immersed in the lifestyle. The event itself was well organized and included many opportunities to attend the classes of your choice, socialize amongst kinksters, Pros and people in the Lifestyle, and PLAY! The weekend was short, but I was able to pick up a few goodies at the vendor’s market, and attended the Play Party on Saturday night. I was accompanied by My slave ‘O’ and arrived just early enough to have a brief yet intense scene with her in the main room before the venue filled up with guests. The rest of the evening was spent socializing, watching a couple of very intense (and smoking hot) scenes, and meeting Dominas from all over the US. Gay Pride Atlanta fell, once again, on the same weekend as DomCon, which resulted in My absence from the Con on the last day.

Plans are already in motion for Me to make an appearance at DomCon LA in May of 2013, where I will undoubtedly meet many more fabulous people, and see some of My West Coast kinksters that I have not seen in years.

~Alexandra