That’s right, I am heading to Barcelona, Spain in just a few hours and will be out of the country until next Saturday. I will be taking a million photos and enjoying some time away, of course! My laptop will be coming with Me, and I will be answering emails intermittently during the trip. Be patient, it may not be until Monday the 17th that I respond to your email, provided it is not time sensitive.
Be well, and enjoy life!
I am in Detroit until Saturday afternoon and have a very full schedule. In fact, the only human interaction I will be having is with clients and the occasional barista, waitress, and salesperson.
So far, I’ve broken in two submissives who were nervous novices when they walked in, and certainly felt like different people when they walked out. While fear is quite the aphrodisiac in My world, I do My best to not scare or overwhelm inexperienced clients as they can be quite sensitive, all the while firmly pushing their boundaries beyond their own expectations and self-imposed limitations. In one way or another, I blow their minds. And surely it is My own comfort with those activities that are considered taboo in many societies and cultures that allows My boys to completely let go and feel no shame.
My first client yesterday wrote Me after he had time to process our time together:
“I just wanted to thank you again for your time and guidance. You made me feel very comfortable, taking away my fear and embarrassment.”
Fan-fucking-tastic.
Detroit: I’ve one slot left open tonight at or after 10PM. Deposits are required. Email Me at Iamyourfetish@gmail.com if you would like take tonight’s slot. Otherwise, you are SOL.
~Dominatrix Alexandra Sadista
Tour dates:
ATLANTA: Tuesday, June 21 — Thursday, June 23
NEW ORLEANS: Saturday, June 25 — Monday, June 27
HOUSTON: Tuesday, June 28 — Thursday, June 30 (might extend 1-2 days)
Atlanta, it’s been several years since My last time! I’ve only two days available to book sessions, as I will be shooting BDSM videos on Thursday with Goddess Cheyenne. Sessions will be taking place at Her opulent dungeon, and 1-on-1 sessions or Doubles are available shall you feel brave.
New Orleans, home of some of the dirtiest boys in the South! I’ve engaged in fun full toilet play in NOLA, and plan to do so once again! I will be seeing slaves and submissives in My hotel room in the French Quarter, as well as long time friend Mistress Genevieve‘s dungeon in the Marigny/Bywater area. Care to see Us both? Inquire within!
Houston was My hometown for over two decades! It is where I received My initial training in the art of BDSM. Time is limited here as well, but I might extend My trip until Friday or Saturday. I will be playing at The Vault belonging to Domina Shannon. She and I play very well together as We are both Sadists at heart. We are available for double bookings as well.
Serious, genuine inquiries can be sent by email (preferred method of contact) or by phone. Deposits are required while traveling, and impeccable references are a plus! Advanced notice is ALWAYS preferred, however on occasion I will take same day bookings.
Most sessions will be taking place in very well equipped dungeons. That doesn’t deter Me from bringing some of My favorite tools of the trade such as:
• Folsom box and several fun attachments
• implements for corporal punishment (floggers, canes, single tail)
• medical fetish accoutrement (needles, caths, sutures, enema)
• predicament bondage (rope, nose and anal hook, clamps, weights)
…and of course exquisite leather-n-latex attire beautiful boots and stilettos to match! And lingerie… because it is HOT in the South!
In New Orleans and Houston, I will consider lunch or dinner requests with subtle or perhaps not so subtle public play or humiliation involved. I know Houston very well, so the possibilities are definitely endless for a gay bar or strip club outing, especially with a couple of My fellow Dominant Colleagues joining along!
If you can offer chauffeur services in Atlanta or Houston, email Me with CHAUFFEUR – ATL or HOU in the subject line.
For more info visit My website, www.IamyourFetish.com.
~Dominatrix Alexandra Sadista
Iamyourfetish@gmail.com
www.IamyourFetish.com
312-203-4535 OR 713-705-8487
Chicago: Booking appointments until Monday, June 6th
Las Vegas:
June 7th, Tuesday — 11th, Saturday
Doubles with Miss Victoria Cayne on June 7 & 8 ONLY
Chicago: June 12th, Sunday — June 20th, Monday
Atlanta: June 21st, Tuesday — 23rd, Thursday (Shooting BDSM videos on Thursday with Goddess Cheyenne)
New Orleans: June 25th, Saturday — 27th, Monday
Houston: June 28th, Tuesday — 30th, Thursday
TO BOOK A SESSION EMAIL:
IamyourFetish@gmail.com
(EMAIL PREFERRED)
OR CALL:
C: 713-705-8487
C: 312-203-4535
Hello, fellow kinksters! It’s been a minute, and I hope you all have been well! It has been a very good year in the way of travel, new clients, and new toys, thus far! I am excited to visit NYC this weekend for a vacation. Yep, no work, but not totally kink-free, because it would be unfair do deny Myself a visit to a kink-party in NYC!
I am definitely planning on visiting LA again soon, as the time I spent there in early February was way too short. For a few days I soaked in the beautiful weather LA has to offer, and I did quite a bit of sightseeing as well. The highlight, I would say, was hanging out with Isabella Sinclaire and seeing the Ivy Manor and the gorgeous rooms set up perfectly for kinky good times! I got so caught up in the moment that I completely forgot to check out the DeMask showroom She has at that location. Yep, next time! I also was able to visit and get a tour of the Stockroom, thanks to Bella Bathory. And, shopped for latex. Now I need to return for that set of whips I was drooling over in that upstairs area…
Unfortunately I came down with something on My last day there, and it stuck with Me through the first TWO days in Denver! Plans and sessions had to be moved rescheduled, but it all worked out in the end. I had a great time with new, well-behaved clients, and I even got to get a full day of snowboarding in! Definitely another city I will return to when the next snowboarding season kicks in.
Next up is NYC, and Las Vegas is following shortly after!
I am in beautiful, sunny Denver, and booking appointments until the evening of Wednesday, Feb. 10th in the downtown Denver area.
I’ve a handful of tools to engage in the following BDSM games in My hotel room:
• electro torture – Folsom
• impact play
• CBT / NT
• play piercing
• sensory play – mummification, leather hood
• boot/foot worship
Respectfully suggest a scenario for Me to consider, and I will respond if it piques My interest. Send all inquiries to Iamyourfetish@gmail.com. Upon making contact, be prepared to include the following information:
• name
• interests and experience level
• hard limits
• availability
• any additional, pertinent information about yourself
~Alexandra Sadista
They remind you that in every situation, something can be learned, enjoyed, and appreciated.
My princess and I were celebrating our two year anniversary of her service to Me. We started by engaging in a ritual that included the placing of adornments I selected for her… a “Princess” necklace, pink ribbon, a #2 candle, and multiple needles through her torso and corona. We had a lovely time together, and were going to follow it up with a “Birthday” dinner. We went to a restaurant, she dressed in a pink turtleneck, a white denim skirt, and pink knit socks and I in a black ensemble (surprise, surprise). she also wore her Princess necklace and her tiara. I had made arrangements prior to arriving at the restaurant as to what My princess would be eating, regardless of the order that she placed. We started off by sharing a delicious appetizer, while being entertained by drag queens, then ordered our entrees. I stuck to My usual, Filet Mignon, and she ordered a chicken entree. When our dinner arrived, she was served a well presented plate of two different kinds of baby food. her eyes lit up, and I knew she would enjoy the meal I arranged for her more than what she had ordered. We then had dessert, topped with a #2 candle.I am uncertain of at which point she drank My piss during that celebration, as it was a very regular occurrence for her to do so. After we were finished, she went to the restroom and was stopped on the way back by patrons who asked what she was celebrating. Proudly, she pointed to her necklace and stated, “I am celebrating being a princess for two years!”
It is interactions such as these that warm My black, sadistic heart. It is a memory I will forever cherish, despite the ending the relationship endured.
If you would like to serve Us and have an interest in BDSM, sensual sadism, and exploring your fetishes at the hands of two experts in the BDSM arts, then email/phone Us at Iamyourfetish@gmail.com — 312-203-4535 or MissVictoriaCayne@gmail.com — 773-615-7598.
When contacting Us include the following:
We are VERY selective who We play with so be respectful, courteous, and make yourself stand out when contacting Us.
www.VictoriaCayne.com / www.IamyourFetish.com
The Sadista Headquarters are relocating this weekend. I am available for sessions as follows:
Friday, September 25th: 10AM until 7PM
Monday, September 28th: 10AM until 4PM
Tuesday, September 29th: 10AM until 6:30PM
Wednesday, September 30th: 10AM until 3PM
During the next week, 90 minutes is the shortest length I will be booking, unless I have seen you before. Those who know Me as a marathon sessioner know that is the best experience, 3HR+. Also, if I have seen you before, you will receive a discount if booked in the next 7 days. I will update this page with My availability next week.
Refer to My website for more information: www.Iamyourfetish.com
Do not forget the ClubFEM event on Saturday, October 3rd.
Come celebrate and play others who live and share your interest in the female dominant/male submissive dynamic. Chicago ClubFem is dedicated to upholding the ideals of Female Domme/Male sub D/s life or if ya just wanna come play with hot ladies and serve! Ladies ,this is an ideal setting to meet a submissive you might mesh with. Party begins at 9pm, ends promptly at 1am. RSVPs MUST be sent to chicagomistress@gmail.com by the day before the party at midnight. ALL RSVPS will receive a reply that day.
VESPERTINE: The Play Party for Women will be held on Sunday, May 24th over IML and Memorial Day weekend from 10PM—3AM.
You MUST RSVP with your legal name which matches your state issued ID, Date of Birth, and your valid e-mail. Address to Skyvespertinechgo@yahoo.com. party particulars sent upon RSVP. NO RSVP/NO ENTRY/NO EXCEPTIONS.
VESPERTINE CHICAGO is open to all women and transfolk 18 years of age or older. If you are a woman, or you identify as a woman and live your daily life as a woman or are a female-born transgender person who feels they have a connection with and love of the kinky/leather/fetish women’s community, YOU ARE WELCOME!!
VESPERTINE CHICAGO encourages education in the fine fetish arts and interactive, hands on role playing, safe and consensual scene play and a person’s right to explore new and exciting ways to express themselves in a sexual manner, safely.
Our event May 24th at The Studio will feature Demos by Daddy Sky, Dominatrix Alexandra Sadista (aka Candyxxx) and Miss Ammunition.
Bring your own toy bag.
$20 PER PERSON/ CASH ONLY
FETISH ATTIRE REQUIRED:
Leather/Latex/Uniform/PVC/Rubber/Goth/Lingerie/Suit and tie/Dress to impress!
NO JEANS, T-SHIRTS, SNEAKERS OR BALL CAPS
VESPERTINE CHICAGO RIGIDLY UPHOLDS MEMBER CONFIDENTIALITY. CLUB EVENTS ARE PRIVATE AND OPEN TO VETTED/QUALIFIED MEMBERS ONLY. NO CROSS DRESSING CIS GENDERED MEN ALLOWED.
