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So what have I been up to since quarantine regulations began? In addition to filming clips and taking lots of gorgeous photos, I have started filming custom videos for My loyal boys as well as aspiring submissives.

My custom videos cater to the fetish desires clearly specified by you. I will address you by the name you submit, if you choose this option, and discuss in great detail the topic or fetish that interests you most. So far the themes have ranged from full toilet instructions for an aspiring toilet, cbt techniques used to overpower My submissive, techniques for improving your cock-sucking abilities, an introduction by Moi so you may get to know Me better, and how I will transform you into My sissy and make you My bitch. Oh, and My personal favorite of course, CEI. you may also customize your video with a wardrobe request featuring a specific outfit and pair of boots or heels. I suggest you browse My look over My list of interests and this news page for inspiration, if needed.

At this time, all videos will only be of Me. Normally, you would have the option to include a male submissive or one of My gorgeous Dominant and/or submissive Female friends I regularly play with.

If you would like to order a custom video, email Me the following information:

• your name and if you would like Me to use it in the video
• the content you wish to see
• wardrobe request, if any
• if you wish for exclusivity (will only be seen by you) – extra cost
• if you wish for rush delivery – extra cost

What you may NOT ask for:

• nudity
• submissive behavior
• to follow a long, detailed script

Custom videos begin at $100. The length of the video clip will determine the tribute amount. The turnaround for custom videos will depend on My workload. I will give be more specific over email. The average wait time is one week to a month.

Now, I am off to pack My bags for My trip to the Dungeon tomorrow to shoot content for My clips4sale store! Sweet dreams, slaves.

And not the kind of lockdown that comes to mind… the kind you would much rather think about as well. Whether it means locked in a chastity device, and having your sex controlled by Me indefinitely, or locked in an overnight cage until I am ready to use you. Locked in a leather sleep sack and sensory deprivation hood, catheter in place, for an indefinite amount of time. Restrained in heavy bondage, on My bondage bed or leather sling, inescapably, the weight of the chains reminding you will not go anywhere, as I run My fingernails over your skin, over the leather, teasing your exposed flesh…

No, not the fun kind. Such a shame, as I was looking forward to playing after a long six weeks away.

As these days turn into weeks and inevitably months, I encourage you to take even better care of yourselves. Formulate a plan to stay active, eat well. Get some fresh air every now and then! Take the necessary precautions if you absolutely must go out to run errands. If you live in IL, we will be taking shelter-in-place as of tonight. Who knows how long this will last…

The good news is that you can begin or continue to be trained, controlled, and used by Me. I’ve really only offered certain submissives and loyal slaves these options over the years, especially out-of-towners. But seeing as our world has been flipped upside down and inside out, these options are available to ALL of you now…

VIRTUAL SESSIONS!
This is the next best thing to seeing Me in the flesh. Tease & Denial, JOI mixed with Sadism, CEI (a personal fave!), Golden Showers, Mommy role play, POV worship (body, cock, fetish high heels and boots, leather and latex, gloves), and more. Tribute can be sent via CashApp at $alexsadista and sessions must be scheduled in advance.
AVAILABILITY: Weekends from noon until midnight and weekdays after 7PM.

SEXTPANTHER!
Text domination- task assignments – chastity control. you may be required to send pics of your locked up cock, ass in panties, mouth filled with your own cum. Get naked, assume the proper position, and confess your deepest desires!
LINK: https://www.sextpanther.com/Alexandra-Sadista
AVAILABILITY: Check My Twitter feed for availability. If you wish to chat at a specific time, simply send a request via email with the day and time: Iamyourfetish@gmail.com

Let’s stay healthy, let’s stay connected. I know you need it.
~Goddess, slave-owner and slave-trainer, Sadist Alexandra Sadista

I’ve a bit of upcoming travel from now until the end of March. When in Chicago, I am available every day of the week. My travel dates and availability as of Friday, January 17th is as follows:

Sunday, 1/26: FemDom Event, unavailable
Monday, 1/27*
Tuesday, 1/28 after 9PM
Thursday, 1/30*
January 31 until February 2 in Detroit – FULLY BOOKED!
Monday, 2/3 after 9:30PM
Tuesday, 2/4 after 9PM
Wednesday, 2/5*
February 7 until 12 in Miami
February 12 until March 16 in South America

*preferably after 7PM but daytime available with 48+ hours notice
I will update this as My schedule changes.

Next weekend is My FemDom Event, the second one of its kind. I will soon post about the nature of the party, and how you may apply to be considered. For now, know that I am only considering submissives who have played with the Dominas that are attending, or have IMPECCABLE references.

In two weeks I will be arriving in Detroit for a weekend with My devoted boys. I am particularly excited about reconnecting with a toilet I have not fed in years who is as nasty as they come! he reminds Me of the toilets I have played with in the South… they get durrrrrty! Anyway, the following weekend, I leave for Miami for five days, staying a block away from the beach and the Atlantic Ocean. I’ve only made time for a hot play date with one of My favorites, otherwise I will be spending time relaxing and soaking up the warmth and sun that My body desperately needs. Following that, I will be traveling to South America for almost a month. Why so long? Well, it’s a fact I have a very hard time with bitterly cold winters. The only way to get through it will be to take annual trips to warmer climates. Since I have family in South America, I will be traveling there once a year when winter is at its peak.

Per usual, I will always announce My travel dates with ample notice and have them posted on My website as well. Houston and Detroit will stay in regular rotation, and I will possibly add one more city to the mix. The goal is to travel one weekend per month in 2020.

There you have it. Plan accordingly!

DATES CONFIRMED FOR MY 1ST TRIP TO DETROIT IN 2020!
Sessions are being booked for the evening of Friday, January 31st until Sunday, February 2nd (check out is flexible, could extend until 4PM).  I will once again be staying in the Royal Oak area. I always book My appointments in advance and am usually booked solid before My arrival. In order to book an appointment, read the information I have provided for you on this website. Be prepared to state your interests and areas of BDSM you wish to explore, and your hard limits. Fill out the application form, and we shall discuss! www.Iamyourfetish.com/contact

See you in a month, Detroit!
~DAS

I am returning to Houston and have limited time available on all three days to see new clients in the East Downtown area. I absolutely love playing at the very well equipped Vault belonging to friend and colleague Domina Shannon. As always, I will bring My preferred toys such as extensive estim collection, whips and floggers, and favorite implements for CBT and NT. Medical fetish or heavy rubber bondage sessions MUST be booked before I arrive in Houston.

Available times include:
Friday after 7PM
Saturday after 6PM
Sunday between 10AM and noon, 5PM and 7PM

Be sure to read My website before filling out the application: www.IamyourFetish.com
Deposits made easily and anonymously are required.

I always love visiting My hometown, and have enjoyed getting to know the people I regularly play with. For those seeking ongoing training, I will be visiting 4 to 5 times in 2020.

See you soon, H-Town boys.

Delicious Electro Torture. Electrode pads, and watching muscles twitch. Using butt plugs in interrogation scenes. Manipulating the effect of electrical currents as the urethral sound slides in and out quickly, then very slowly. Watching the anal probe penetrate with deliberate thrusts, turning it up, watching it move faster. Crushing your scrotum between two conductive plates, and just when the pressure becomes too much, sending shocks through your flattened balls to distract you. Let’s just call it what it is, My obsession.

It began in 1996 when a Dominatrix used a violet wand on Me during My first visit to a Dungeon. Anticipating the shock as She introduced Me to these brand new sensations was exhilarating. I was fascinated with how it felt on My skin. I was just beginning to explore several areas of lighter BDSM play, so it would be many years before I would be exposed to electrical play on a whole other level – tens units, power boxes, various attachments and insertables of all kinds. Fast forward to now, I cannot get My hands on enough toys!

So which toys have I procured in the last few years to feed My obsession?

One of My personal favorites is the electro ball crusher with electrical strips on the bottom AND top plate. This device allows for heavy duty cbt as it leaves the cock available for urethral penetration, stimulation to the glans and shaft, and/or estim clamps all while the balls are being crushed (for My pleasure) with intense currents flowing from all directions.

Another popular device that gets a lot of requests is the depth charge butt probe. On the right setting, it causes you to feel as if you are being penetrated as it causes thrusting sensations while stimulating you electrically, directly on your prostate.

The items below were also purchased and (most) have been enjoyed thoroughly in the last several years:

• ElectraStim Electro Urethra Sound
• ErosTek Cock Cap
• MyStim EStim Vibrator (see pic)
• ElectraStim Electro Sex Stroker / Jack Socket (see pic)
• ElectraStim Exreme Electro Butt Plug (see pic)
• ElectraStim Silicone Noir Sirius Electro Prostate Massager
• EStim Systems Torpedo Butt Plug Small (Length: 5.1″ x Diameter: 1.5″)
• MyStim Electro Cock Cage 2.0 with Urethral Sound (see pic)
• Various Nipple/CBT clamps, parachutes, electrodes of several shapes and sizes

I am in process of researching new toys to add to My collection and have a couple of urethral toys in sight. I admit I have a tendency to go big when it comes to My toys rather than purchasing the one-size-fits-all toys. Do you have a favorite estim toy? Email Me at Iamyourfetish@gmail.com if you own one you absolutely love or have experienced that has blown your mind (or wad). I would like to hear from you, electro-sluts!

Oh, Montreal, what a joy to cavort about your streets donning Our slippery latex ensembles, putting our fetishes on display for the people on the streets to admire, and with four other Chicagoans in tow… MFW, you did not disappoint!

The weekend was a whirlwind and was over before we knew it, yet each and every moment was savored. We arrived late on Thursday night just in time to crawl into bed in order to be well rested for the remainder of the weekend. I left my hotel-mates in bed on Friday morning to shoot videos with a local submissive with a penchant for gloves, particularly leather. We shot a few scenes involving CBT, light bondage, and of course glove worship. I may have been too much for him to handle, as his request for the last clip was for it to be tickling.

Anyway, I returned to the host hotel just in time to attend Vicky Devika’s Breath Play class. I always find there is something to learn when I attend a class regardless of the knowledge and experience I’ve acquired during My years in professional domination. In recent months I have been enthralled with free divers, their training methods, and the capabilities of the human body when placed in certain situations such as lack of oxygen for an extended period of time. As it turns out, Vicky is a trained free diver. She incorporated the knowledge she gained from her diving experiences into exploring her fetish of (what some may consider extreme) erotic asphyxiation. Her class was very informative, and her demonstrations left several of us hot and bothered — I mean, a very attractive being in a latex catsuit with head in plastic bag and later gas mask, cutting off their own oxygen, lots of heavy breathing…. OOOF.

Later we ventured out to one of the events knowing I would be calling it an early night. I had a long run planned for the next day as part of My marathon training. I was not able to run the distance I hoped to, but I did manage an 11.5 mile/18.5 km run through Old Montreal, over to Mount Royal and through the Notre Dame des Neiges cemeteries, downtown and then back to Old Montreal. After some rest, we geared up for the evening’s festivities which included dinner with four other latex-clad kinksters in what seemed like a touristy area. It really is a very (kink) friendly city. We turned lots of heads however no one was rude or inappropriate, much to My pleasant surprise. We then headed to the weekend’s largest event, the LateXtacy Ball. Oh My, what rubber-y goodness! Latex clad beauties wherever in sight, some pretty hot SM performances, lots of visual stimulation to take in. My cohorts and I did a fair share of gawking and mingling before piling into the back of a school bus that took us back to our hotel.

The next day we crammed in a visit the Museum of Fine Arts for the GORGEOUS Thierry Mugler exhibit, shopping at a Polymorphe pop-up store, then the Fetish Walk. The Fetish Walk may have been My favorite part of the trip! Over a hundred people in fetish gear, mostly latex, made a spectacle as we took the train together, walked through touristy areas, played in a water fountain, and then returned to our hotel on the same train. Of course we stopped to take pictures at every location! To be out and about in gorgeous, latex regalia and to be found fascinating by both locals and tourists alike, pleasantly welcomed in every area we went to, was a very unique experience.

I am pretty sure we will be returning next year. Who can say no to a weekend with My Chicago cohorts and friendly kinksters from around the world in a beautiful, welcoming city like Montreal?

You’ve been longing for a play party of this nature. After all, it’s been years since Chicago has offered kinksters and hedonists the opportunity to socialize, learn, and play among each other in an elegant BDSM Dungeon. This is your opportunity. We hope you will join us for our first ever eXplicit Play Party.

The eXplicit Party is on Saturday, September 7th from 9PM-2AM at the Studio. Our evening will feature BDSM and Fetish Demonstrations by Dominatrix Alexandra Sadista, Miss Ammunition, and Queerella Fistalot.

Play is encouraged! BYOT [please bring your own toys]. The Studio is well equipped with a variety of furniture conducive to a variety of BDSM scenarios including a St. Andrew’s Cross, a large bondage bed, a mummification/bondage table, a medical exam/gynecological table, a bondage wall, a wooden rack for suspension, multiple spanking benches, a metal standing cell, and more.

Complimentary Hors D’euvres and light beverages will be served. 

An RSVP is required from each individual attending in order to be added to the list, and to receive the pertinent information including door donation and rules for the event:
IamyourFetish@gmail.com

All proceeds from this event will be donated to the AIDS Foundation of Chicago. If you cannot attend and would like to make a donation, go to: http://events.aidschicago.org/goto/runlikehellchicago

UPDATE: Available time slots remaining include Friday the 9th from 7PM til 2AM, Saturday the 10th from 7PM til midnight, and Sunday the 11th from 4-6PM

I am booking appointments now for My upcoming trip at Domina Shannon’s very well equipped Dungeon in East Downtown. I am booking appointments for one-on-one BDSM / fetish sessions, D/s dinner outing and public play (Dungeon time required prior to outing), shopping. Tribute applies for all interactions with exception of shopping. Fill out the form to apply for a session: www.IamyourFetish.com/contact

Medical scenes and fetishes requiring specific toys, wardrobe requests, and FTT appointments must be made in advance and secured with a deposit. I will only consider wardrobe requests that include latex, leather, lingerie, and fetish boots specifically seen in My photos.

Be on your best behavior when contacting Me. Do make sure you include all the information requested when filling out My form. Deposits required to confirm our time. It is more efficient for you to provide your exact availability rather than ask for Mine. If you are providing verifiable references, be sure to inform the Pro-Domina so She knows She will be contacted. Include pertinent information such as Her website URL or link to Her ad, phone, email, date of session, memorable details.

See you very soon, Houston slaves and fetishists!

Our meeting left him a bit speechless and in shock. My boy found himself in a similar predicament for a third time, and the fantasy he dreamt about for decades was REALLY about to happen. I showed My boy a photo of the young, supple male adorned with a cock ring who would soon arrive. The eager participant arrived, and I immediately arranged their bodies so My boy could take the forbidden fruit into his hands and guide it into his mouth. The scene continued, and bodies were repositioned, groans filling the air. It was a wonderfully orchestrated, perverse scenario I will soon not forget.

On his way out, I instructed My boy to orgasm by masturbation when he returned home. No instruction was needed as he knows how I prefer he dispose of the mess.

“How did it taste this time?” I asked.

“Not much taste. And i was surprised it was not gooey but watery.  i fantasized Your Voice calling me a cock slut, whore, and filthy. I reimagined lightly stroking his thighs and Your hand on the back of my head.  i returned to the sensation of You taking off my blind fold to force me to come to grips with what i was doing.  And i came feeling the table top against my cheek, the weight pinning me down, and the violation.  You are VERY good at what You do Master.  Thank You.”