Yes, it has been months since I’ve logged into My blog. So much has occurred.. I moved out of My apartment where I had a part-time live-in slave into a loft with My lover/kinky partner. After four months of dealing with a less than pleasant situation we have decided to move elsewhere at the end of November. It is a shame, but I at least hope to shoot a handful of videos in the play space I created.

That is the only part of My fabulous life that has been hell.
I was recently in Atlanta for DomCon. I travelled with Domina Natalya Sadici and slave-pee, stayed in a beautiful condo Downtown, and had a twelve hour day of shooting videos wit Goddess Cheyenne and multiple video sluts! Coincidentally, it was Gay Pride weekend, and the parade was fabulous. What a whirlwind of a trip.
The classes I attended were presented with very knowledgable people. I especially enjoyed the first one involving a demonstration of a saline infusion. The demo sub had to cancel last minute, so I offered slave-pee to fill in. After being explained how to properly administer an infusion three times (twice privately), I am ready to do one on My own. There are so many parts of the body I am dying to experiment with!
I am now in Houston, about to get dolled up in My new latex dress to do a photoshoot with My rubba-boy at the Eros Boutique. In My 22 years of living in H-town, I never visited that store. No time like the present.
Here are the GRAND news… this time of year has always been My favorite for many reasons; the transition into fall, the Halloween festivities, followed by My birthday. This year is extremely special in that it falls on 11/11/11. I will be celebrating in Kink in the Caribbean November 3-10, and flying home in time to celebrate with loved ones! If you’re feeling generous, you should go to My wish list on Amazon (search Alexandra Sadista), or visit My website for suggestions (www.IamyourFetish.com/tributes). Happy Birthday to Me!
More updates later… and I do have much more to tell. And yes, I am accepting appointments until I leave Houston on Wednesday, the 19th at Domina Shannon’s fabulous Dungeon. And we offer doubles, triples if you’re daring enough, with Mistress Lilly (www.MissLillyForever.com)!

My New Blog Home

Welcome to My new blog. Over the course of the next few weeks I will be posting new blogs about recent adventures, as well as re-posting from a previous blogging site.


I am Mistress Alexandra “I am your Fetish” Sadista. I am the Mistress formerly known as Mz Candyxxx.

I am an Independent Professional Dominatrix. I am a Lifestyle Perv and a Lover of Sadism, with a deep appreciation for Female Dominance. I am instinctive and intuitive, a playful pervette, a stern sadist, a curious cat, a kinky scientist, a nurturing Mother Dearest, an animated being saturated with richness.

My perverted tendencies date back to age 5, when I discovered My sexuality. I was introduced to a kinky lifestyle at age 19. Soon after, I began performing extensively and organizing fetish events, thus solidifying My involvement in the Texas fetish community. I moved to Chicago in 2004 and fell into a very similar, yet more mature way of life. In 2008, I made the natural transition into the realm of professional domination. Years later, I find Myself physically, psychically and spiritually connected to various aspects of BDSM.