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“…when a slave begins to operate too much on his own without instruction to do so, to entertain questions or to engage in significant behaviors outside of the realm of obedience, the Master may not be able to protect his slave. It is only the slave’s obedience that enables a Master to control and, therefore protect, a slave against the most damaging threat possible, the slave’s thoughts” ~ a grateful slave

Forced Bi Fiasco

A little over a year ago, I was invited to an event being held at The Studio. The event was to be filmed, and multiple local Dominas were to attend along with a few hand-selected male submissives. The evening would mostly consist of forced-bi scenarios, and lots of heckling and humiliation from the Ladies.

My pet was to arrive the day of the party, and being the exhibitionist that he is, I decided to push a few of his boundaries and his commitment to Me. I informed him that our agenda for the evening was to attend an exclusive play party at the Studio, that it was going to be filmed, and that he was to serve Me and follow My every instruction for the evening. Upon our arrival, he was instructed to change into a leather thong and sit on the floor waiting further instruction. It was then that I let the other gals in on the secret that My pet thought this would be a play party similar to previous ones we had attended , and that he had no clue he would be sucking real cock/s for the very first time. I tried My best to contain My mischievous laughter. Until… Myself and the Ladies were receiving dildo worship by My pet and another submissive, then suddenly an in-the-flesh penis replaced a silicone dildo in front of My pet’s face, and he was ordered to out his lips around it and suck. I must admit, the look of sheer terror on his pale face gave Me an erection. The night was filled with a handful of humiliating scenes, mostly including unattractive, over weight males in embarrassing sexual positions (some of it was quite hard to watch), but the scenes that made a lasting impression were watching My pet suck his first cock, and his facial expressions while bringing a man to orgasm.

My pet’s recollection of the event:
i was of course, looking forward to visiting chicago for a few days and serving in person, when i got a text from Her saying that on the day i arrive, She is invited to an exclusive play party, and wished to take me with Her. fantastic! i would arrive in town and be immersed in the culture almost immediately. on O/our way over to the party, Miss told me i was to obey all the Ladies in attendance, and that it was also a video shoot. 
W/we arrived at The Studio, and i waited at the door while Miss said hello to the Ladies. i was soon naked on my knees, encircled by these beautiful Women, and being poked, prodded and slapped by 6 strap-ons. i was unaware of anything else in the room, but then the circle got bigger and anoth …. wait a minute! that ‘s a real penis!! there have been many conversations about ‘forced bi’ scenarios, and i know a lot of men harbor this fantasy. i too have made mention of it. there have been discussions about how it could realistically be a forced situation. well, let me tell You that when Miss leaned over and whispered into my ear ‘that’s right, put it in your mouth and start sucking’, it was officially ‘forced bi’. i couldn’t turn back, say no, or walk away. my duty is to obey Her, and She wanted to watch me suck a cock. She and the other ladies cheered me on, threw insults at me, scratched me, groped me and generally used and abused me while this went on. my mind was racing. this was ll new territory for me. 
there were soon 5 boys in the room, and every combination possible was tried out. i was forced (there’s that word again) to suck two other cocks – i even brought one guy to orgasm, what a strange feeling that was! at one point i was having my cock sucked by a masked boy as he lay on the table and the Ladies took turns in his ass with Their strap ons, and fingers. the other boys seemed to be at home with all that was going on, and they took the brunt of the humiliation. there was some 69 between two of the boys, rimming, mutual masturbation, making out, fondling and anything else the Ladies could think of to amuse themselves. at one point i was locked in a cage with another boy and made to rub cocks with him while we played with each other’s nipples. 
an experience, that’s for sure. Miss once again pushed me, and Mistress Xena created the opportunity for it to happen. reminds me of an old saying – build one house, you’re not a carpenter. paint one wall, you’re not a painter. suck one cock …. 

The video of this Forced-Bi Fiasco is available for purchase in My C4S Store.

What turns Me on.

Being asked to pierce you with xxx-number of needles.
Hearing you want to wear My mark, hand-made by Me.
you bleeding for Me.
boys that wear lace lingerie under regular clothing.
Double-handed fisting.
Penetration using unorthodox metal objects.
Anything medical.
Public Golden showers.
Head-to-toe latex.
Wearing obscenely sexy shoes.
Puppy eyes.
Crying eyes.
My oral fixation.
Lean, muscular backs.
A filthy cock sucker. 

Being a voyeur.
Long massages. 

Documenting all of the above.

To be continued, when My body temperature returns to normal. 

~Rubber Erotica~

RUBBER EROTICA presented by BondageNightChicago

BondagenightChicago presents: 
~ Rubber Erotica ~ 
A Kinky Dungeon Party

Saturday, May 19, 2012

With your Hostesses Slavegirl Mara Moon, Mistress Xena and Guest Mistress Mistress Alexandra Sadista (L-R)

This is a great event for Rubber Fetishists, or people curious about the Rubber Lifestyle

Bring your rubber bondage, wear your sexy rubber outfits, rubber gasmasks is an item to not forget…. And… The vacbed will be present, so you may enjoy the ultimate restrictive bondage experience.

– Where: The Studio, located 10mins Southwest of Downtown Chicago.
– Saturday, May 19th (3rd Saturday of every month).
– 10pm-3am.
– 18+. You must bring your ID. Without an ID, you will NOT enter. -$20 Admission.
– NO LIQUOR or SMOKING ALLOWED. There will be snacks & beverages provided.
– Bring your own toys. The toys @ The Studio is not for public use. The guests may use the dungeon furniture. After your play-scene, you must clean up after yourself.
– No cameras are allowed in the dungeon.
– Street Parking is available. Or, you may park in the back of The Studio (in the CTA lot). The fee: $4.

Attire: Latex, Rubber Catsuits, Rubber Thongs, Rubber Dollies, Rubber slave, Rubber Mistress. There will be no entry, if you wear street clothes. Street clothes such as: Baseball cap, t-shirt, blue jeans. A nice shirt/pants are acceptable.


The address will be given to you, once you RSVP. You must RSVP, using your full name. RSVP’s after 5pm on May 19 will not be accepted. Make sure you mention ‘Bondage Night 05/19’ in the email subject line.


Alexandra’s Clips4Sale Store #50845

After much deliberation, My clips4sale store is active and ready for downloads. Check back for regular updates.

www (dot) clips4sale (dot) com / 50845

If you are interested in being a participant in My videos, send an introductory note. At this time My associate and I are prioritizing and saving open slots for more experienced applicants who play on a higher, harder level. If you are a masochist, enjoy medical scenes, and have fisting experience, contact Me asap. All levels are welcome to apply, but know that this is not “free play” and you will abide by My rules. A small donation and/or gift is required for the experience. In your application, include your experience level, description of videos you have been in, and a head shot. Unless you have body modifications or surgically altered body parts, I do not care to see you from the waist down.

Applications can be sent to

Returning to Atlanta March 15—19

We are two of Chicago’s notorious sadists. We relish in taking our submissive and/or fetishist charges on intense and fulfilling journeys. Both of us take our craft very seriously and seek knowledge on the SM arts wherever we can find it. Having honed our crafts in a multitude of key areas, we have become guides, teachers, mothers to some, and the most delicious dream to all those we encounter.

An experience with Domina Natalya Sadici or Mistress Alexandra Sadista is unforgettable, however, now you have the opportunity to serve us together with Goddess Cheyenne in Atlanta! Solo, double, and even triple sessions are available. Make sure you follow all our instructions for both contact and booking to reserve your time with us. We can be contacted by email or by phone. Phone hours are 10am until 10pm. Be prepared to discuss your interests, limits, any health issues or medications you’re on, and when you can session.

We share the following interests:

Corporal punishment
CBT-including ball busting and NT
Foot, boot, and high heel worship

We will be taking appointments in Atlanta the afternoon of March 15th through the afternoon of the 19th. Double and triple Domme sessions are available with Goddess Cheyenne in Her Opulent Dungeon.

Inquiries may be sent to or you may phone 312-203-4535

~Mistress Alexandra


A Presentation on Enema Play

On the evening of Friday, February 24th The Studio presents a Class / Play Party

Topic for the month of February at The Studio:
ENEMA PLAY presented by Mistress Alexandra

Join us for a discussion on anal play and enema fetish. Topics to be discussed will include:
• eroticizing enemas during ass play
• enemas during scenes i.e. humiliation, medical fetish, age play
• formulas and health benefits

Friday, Feb 24, 2012
Class begins at 8PM / Play Party from 9pm-12am
$10 admission / 21+
BYOT (bring your own toys)
Free parking on the street, or $4 behind the Studio’s space.

Your RSVP’s shall include your full name

Starting off the New Year right!!!

I am blessed (and sometimes pretty damn spoiled) to be in the position I am in, and I have much love from/for My friends and chosen family, My colleagues, devotees and new friends!

Thank Y/you to those that show their devotion in various ways. Thank you to those that made My birthday on 11/11/11 one to remember for a lifetime!!!

I am starting off the New Year with:

• Multiple visits to Space Time Tanks for a float in their isolation tanks – so relaxing!
• Two new very tall and shiny stiletto fetish shoes
• A fun shoot wearing Polymorphe at The Studio (photos posted soon)
• A shipment of 500 needles (because that’s the way I like it)
• A new slave-training manual – for very stubborn slave who is hanging on by a thread!
• A 10-day cleansing fast (because that’s how I roll – annual ritual)
• 2 tix to the BlackHawks
• A trip to Vancouver for Westward Bound Conference (and snowboarding)
• A trip to ATL with Domina Natalya Sadici in March

I’ll keep the rest of this post short and sweet. I want more electro-torture devices this year. I will be making a series of rubber full-body restraints. And would like more travel to exotic locations (or anywhere warm near the ocean), especially for kinky events!

Love Me.
~Mistress Alexandra

Triple Threat in Atlanta (Archived post — 1/28/11)


Three red hot Dommes greet you at the door and take you to the Medical room where We will determine your fate. you are immediately stripped of your identity and integrity. We all light up a Djarum clove cigarette and begin to shove the smoke up your nose and in your eyes. you squirm yet try your best to save face. We take turns scolding and mocking you and what’s left of your manhood. We then proceed to bend you over, displaying the hole to your soul that you have offered Us. One by one, we insert various objects of Our choice, all the while your face is shoved, face down so you may see nothing but the corner of the room. you didn’t know you were in for this… such a treat. We decide to take you down to the lowest level you could reach, and you eagerly beg for it. you are guided into an area where you are to lay on your back.

Remember when I treated you to this over a year ago? I was your first, and now you will take it from all three of Us. I enter the room and proceed to fill your mouth with My abundant meal. I cannot help but to scoff at your weak attempts to satisfy Me and My colleagues. We all enjoyed a good laugh afterward thanks to this Southern toilet slave!

I look forward to My next visit to Atlanta. Undoubtedly he’s hungry for more….