Category: Kink Event

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True Desires – Saturday, February 1st — Sunday, February 2nd

I am honored and very excited to be attending True Desires in Dallas with Mistress Simone, owner of the Studio. Those that would like to attend and experience an overnight FemDom event, you must contact Maitresse Renee directly at

“True Desires was created so that Mistresses and slaves can live out their fantasies, much like the movie Exit to Eden and similar to the Other World Kingdom. Fantasies come in all forms, Mine being having a stable of boys locked away in My dungeon for my use, like a harem and many slaves have the desire to live in a TRUE 24/7 FemDom setting. True Desires allows exactly that! The focus of the event is to “TRAIN” the boys attending. True Desires is just as much about growing as a submissive mentally as it is about playing with many of the most sought after Dominatrices there are.” — Maitresse Renee

Save the date:
Vespertine – The Play Party for Women
Saturday, February 8th from 10PM until 3AM

February is a time for lovers… so let’s do this RIGHT!! The Family at Team Vespertine Chicago invite you to join us for another evening of fun, frolic and fetish adventures while we celebrate the ARTS OF LOVING, in ALL the glorious forms!

Daddy Sky, Mistress Alexandra Sadista and Sophia Asphyxia look forward to guiding your evening of erotic discovery!


You will be given the address upon proper RSVP with your FULL GOVERNMENT NAME and date of birth sent to before the guest list is closed. If you have not attended before, please include a note as to how you were referred.



Water, soda and light snacks are provided.
You must bring your own personal toy bag.


VESPERTINE CHICAGO is open to all women and transfolk 18 years of age or older. If you are a woman, you identify as a woman and live your daily life as a woman or are a female-born transgender person who feels they have a connection with and love of the kinky/leather/fetish women’s community, YOU ARE WELCOME!!

VESPERTINE CHICAGO encourages education in the fine fetish arts and interactive, hands on role playing, safe and consensual scene play and a person’s right to explore new and exciting ways to express themselves in a sexual manner, safely.


I am Mistress Alexandra la Sadista, a Chicago-based Dominatrix. Stern, demanding, and deviously perverted.

I am traveling with Mistress Simone of Chicago to Dallas, Texas for the True Desires event hosted by Maitresse Renee. Sessions are being scheduled for Saturday, February 1st through Tuesday February 4th in Her massive 7K square foot Dungeon.

Scenes involving bondage, mummification, sensory deprivation, needle play, corporal punishment/discipline, CBT/NT, select types of worship (E.G. foot, boot), and many more are an option. Players of all experience levels are welcome, but must follow proper booking procedures (instructions below). Refer to My website ( for the complete list of My preferred activities before making contact. Compatibility is a must!

For those wishing to indulge even further, you may inquire about Double or Triple-Domme session.

Inquiries can be sent to Mention “Dallas” in the subject line, and in your email include your interests, level of experience, hard limits, and any other pertinent details, such as current medical conditions. My time is limited, and I understand yours might be as well. Ample advance notice is preferred. A small deposit is required, otherwise our time will not be reserved in My book.

In the case you would like to make contact via Interweb, you may choose to do so using one of the following methods:

Gchat: Alexandra Sadista
Tweet: MsAlexandraS
Amazon: Or simply send a token of your admiration

Once again, Texas, I will be penetrating you very soon.

Alexandra's spit

~Mistress Alexandra la Sadista

Chicago ClubFEM Meet and Greet

2014 marks our 10 year anniversary as a group, one of the first in the nation. To increase awareness of our dynamic and help facilitate introductions, we will be adding a bi-monthly meet-n-greet to our calendar. The first of 2014 will occur on January 18th from 4pm to 7pm.

This is a casual gathering so people are welcome to drift in and out, but we will be closing entry at 630pm for ending at 7pm to get ready for evening’s play party. 7pm will require all to leave and enjoy rest of their evening or return and join us for that evening’s play party. Males may stay dressed for this gathering. This is not a play party. Conversation and socialization will be the focus. If light play occurs between parties, that is fine. Some meet-n-greets may contain lectures, demos or discussions. For both novices and experienced, this is a good opportunity to meet others interested in exploring female dominance.

Light refreshments will be provided. Please feel free to bring something to share.
Please send your RVSP to
RSVPS will be sent out the day prior to munch. Emails sent after noon day of event will not be answered.
DO NOT call Mistress Simone’s business phone nor message her here for information or RSVP. Send all correspondence to the above email address. Thank you.




Mid-Winter’s Tails Play party!

Tired of the cold? Snow? Ice?
Come heat things up at The Studio’s all -inclusive, pansexual play party on Saturday, January 18th, from 9PM-2AM. If you are itching to play, now is the perfect time. Bring those toy bags and beat some ass.

Light nibbles and beverages will be provided. 
As with all the Studio functions, no alcohol or drugs will be tolerated. Please be respectful of the space and clean up after yourselves. Normal Dungeon Etiquette should be followed.

You must RSVP to
Do not call any of the Studio ladies on their business phones. All who RSVP will be sent party details the day PRIOR to the party. Any RSVPS sent after NOON the day of party will not be answered so please make sure you get yours in on time.

We hope you will join us in putting some good energy into the Studio for the coming year.

Saturday, December 21, 2013 – Chicago ClubFEM Meet and Greet from 4pm-7pm

For many just getting started in the lifestyle, a play party can be a bit daunting. Even more so when faced with the MISTRESSES! So, come meet and mingle during the day light hours and see if the group is for you. This casual gathering will feature a short discussion facilitated by Head Mistress Simone, geared towards beginning protocol, party manners and rules of conduct. You do not have to attend the whole meet and greet but can come and go as desire. BNC (details below) is later that night so some of you might consider coming back for that.

Entrance fee is $10. No alcohol ,drugs or illegal activities ever take place at the Studio gatherings.

RSVP is the same as it is for parties. Please send to with name.


Saturday, Dec 21st – BONDAGE NIGHT CHICAGO’S ANNUAL XMAS PARTY from 10pm-3am
With your Hostess: Mistress Xena Special Guests for the night:
Mistress Simone & Mistress Alexandra Sadista

This is an Annual X-Mas Party ! Yes, once more, X-Mas is upon us. The stores, the shopping, the madness. But tonight, we get a break from all that. We get to unwind in a playful way. This is the night for a kinky Christmas. And what a better way than to have a contest for the best dressed Santa, the sexiest Mrs.Claus, the sleaziest Elves and the Horniest Reindeers. Prizes will include sex toys, gift cards, and pornography.

Age: 18+. Entrance fee: $10 for Ladies / $20 for Gents.
It is a sober and Smoke free environment! Smoking and alcohol are forbidden on the premises.

We urge you to Dress-to-Impress. Feel free & bring a holiday snack / festive dish for the party, if you would like. No cameras are allowed in the dungeon. Street Parking is available. Or, you may park in the back of The Studio (in the CTA lot) for $5.

RSVP: The address will be given to you, once you RSVP. You must RSVP, using your full name.

Don’t be fooled by other parties!
This is the best and longest running party, since 1998.


Hosted By: Phil-latio-Foot, Mistress Alexandra Sadista (formerly Mz CandyX), and Chicago’s hottest feet hostesses.

Worship the sexiest feet in Chicago ( Pro Dommes, Fetish Models, Burlesque performers, Dancers, Waitresses, Flight Attendants, Hot Moms, and the Girl next door).

• Date: Saturday November 9th at 8pm
• Time: 8:00 pm – ?
• Location: Must RSVP


From Alexandra:

Welcome to Chicago’s premier party for foot fetishists! My lovely girlfriends and I look forward to having our pedicured feet worshipped at Phil and I’s Foot Fetish Extravaganza. Do not feel left out, trampling enthusiasts… there will be plenty of feet to go around!

I am also excited to be sharing My birthday celebration with you all, at the Studio. For those of you gentlemen that feel so inclined to celebrate with Me, and share their generosity and devotion, you may find suggestions on My Amazon Wishlist or by visiting Ladies, hugs and kisses are welcome and appreciated!!!

Do not forget to RSVP for this event:


From Phillatio-Foot:

Hello Footsluts,

There is a great atmosphere, music, and the hottest feet in Chicago. I will expect that gentlemen act and dress like gentlemen (you don’t have dress fetish at our parties just business casual or nice evening attire) and email me to RSVP for further instructions (birthday gift , donation, and address).

Drinks and snacks will be provided plus 20-30 of the hottest Foot-Dommes and models in the Midwest will be there to trample, tickle, stomp, kick, and make you massage, kiss, lick, sniff, and suck on their toes.

If you are interested in attending please e-mail:

Alexandra Was Here.


I pierced photodog with 55 needles (20-25 gauge) at the ClubFEM Party held at The Studio last weekend. Elaborate piercing scenes have such a calming effect on Me. It was as if no one else was in the room. All focus was on My hands working on his back. 55 is his new record.


My lovely family of Kinksters will be dishing out the spanks this Thursday at Bondage A GoGo. Join Miss Sophia Asphyxia, Miss Ammunition, Daddy Sky and yours truly — also known as Team Vespertine! Whether you are curious about getting spanked, interested in being placed in bondage, or you are devoted to serving divine Goddesses, this is the night for you. Daddy Sky is a fierce member of Chicago’s own leather community. Daddy and babygrl Ammunition will be doing a BDSM demonstration – more details to be announced.

This is a rare opportunity to publicly play with Team V. Boys, take advantage of the occasion, as biological males are not allowed to attend the private parties Vespertine holds regularly. you may might not ever have a chance to play with these four again. Ladies, come play with Us… or rather, let Us play with you.

Thursday, June 27th at Exit Nightclub. 11PM—4AM, no cover.

About Team Vespertine…

Vespertine encourages education in the fine fetish arts and interactive, hands on role playing, safe and consensual scene play and a person’s right to explore new and exciting ways to express themselves in a sexual manner, safely. Vespertine is a private play party open to all women and transfolk. If you are a woman, you identify as a woman and live your daily life as a woman or are a female-born transgender person who feels they have a connection with and love of the kinky/leather/fetish women’s community, you are welcome at our private events.

On Saturday, November 24th, I am celebrating My Birthday Party, as well as My 5 year Anniversary of Pro-Domination.

Enjoy the Bewitching Convergence celebrating Mistress Alexandra’s Birthday and the Anniversary of 5 years of Pro-Domination.

8PM to 9PM ~ Absinthe Hour (Special Guests will be notified via email — no slaves/submissives allowed)
9PM til 1AM ~ The Soiree

I have updated My Wish List just in time for My Birthday! It can be found on under the email address If you will not be attending and wish to send a token of your devotion via mail, please send gift to the following address:

Alexandra Sadista
PO Box 221565
Chicago, IL 60622

More info on the event:
This is a social, kink-friendly gathering for My friends, as well as those in the BDSM lifestyle. Secondly, this is a Play Party. Play is encouraged, but not required. Please bring your own toys. Musical soundtrack by Alexandra featuring her favorites of the New Wave, Industrial, Dark and Ambient genres.
submissives are required to bring a snack… something sweet.. something savory. Email Me at if you are preparing a special dish or bringing a dessert to avoid repetition, and to respect My dietary preferences. Non-alcoholic beverages will be provided. BYOB (wine only please). Smoking is not allowed at the Studio.Y/you must RSVP for you and your guest to for the address of the location.
If you have not been invited and wish to attend, submit a sincere request via email for My consideration :
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