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Thank you, Phoenix + LA!

Hello, all! It’s been a few weeks now since I returned from My West Coast travels, and I am happy to say any trace of the nasty virus I caught in LA has finally left My body. Being sick four out of the six days I spent in LA put quite a damper on the trip. I pride Myself on being a trooper, but even this one took Me down. Regardless, I managed to participate in several BDSM scenes with some of the hottest and fiercest Women in FemDom, some of which ended up on film.*

In Phoenix, I spent time with the gracious Goddess Sadie at Her Secret Shangri-La. She and I met during Her last visit to Chicago a couple of years ago, so it was a pleasure to spend more time getting to know Her and spend time in Her domain. It has always been important to Me to surround Myself with those that inspire Me, those who will expand and inspire My passion and devotion in life and in this lifestyle. Goddess Sadie, being a strong, devoted Woman, fits that description well.

With Goddess Sadie in sunny Phoenix.

And as luck would have it, a retired Chicago Domina and NYC/Milwaukee-based Domina Myrina Douleur were in the city as well. An afternoon was spent in the company of these Women, and it was quite delightful to be in like minded company!

Once I arrived in LA, I went straight to Venice Beach where I spent the first two days enjoying time to Myself.  On the third day, the whirlwind began.  I attended and played at Isabella Sinclaire’s Domme Collective party where some heavy, delicious sadism occurred alongside former Chicago resident Mistress Bella Bathory and a slew of Dominas from the group.  Images shall forever remain in My memory bank of blood droplets splattering beautifully on the white tile floor of the medical room from the many needles penetrating a masochist’s flesh from his nipples to (quite literally) his toes! Unfortunately I was simply too busy having fun to browse the DeMask showroom at Isabella’s play space during the party. Next time…

With Mistresses An Li, Bettie Burns, Bella Bathory, and Lola Vahl and Our masochist.

I was completely out of commission the next couple of days, save for a couple of rides in a convertible while wrapped in a blanket. At least I was able to do a very slight bit of sight-seeing on the days the sun did decide to make an appearance.

Mulholland Drive.

The trip did end on a high note. Mistress Bella and I filmed a few scenes on a set that is perfect for sadism! I normally shoot clips in dungeons or dungeon-like settings, so this was a great change of pace! Not to mention working with a professional bottom, that was a treat. Many thanks to Bella and Dee at Severe Society, and Brandon aka Blackula and Hannah (videographers), for an absolutely wonderful time filming with Our bottom, Dee Arclyte.

With Mistress Bella Bathory and Dee Arclyte on set.

Really, the purpose of this ten day trip was to connect with strong, like-minded Women that inspire, enjoy time outdoors in the sun (doesn’t NORMALLY happen in Chicago during February), and expand My network of kinky individuals to engage in play with.Sure, being sick sucked, and I would have liked to have played more in both cities, but the time I spent was spent very well. Aside from that, and LA having unusual amounts of rain, I got exactly what I wanted.

I won’t be traveling for a while, as the beautiful summers in Chicago are what Chicagoans live for. I don’t anticipate traveling much aside from a few regional trips (Detroit, Milwaukee, Indy perhaps) until early next year. Which gives you more reason to travel here to to get your dose of BDSM from Me.

~Dominatrix Alexandra Sadista

* The videos that were filmed in both cities will soon be available for purchase on My clips4sale store #50845 as well as severesexfilms.com.

Visiting Detroit and St Louis in January

TRAVEL DATES:
Detroit:
Evening of Wednesday, January 11th until afternoon of Saturday the 14th

St. Louis, Evening of Thursday, January 19th until afternoon of Sunday the 22nd

If you missed Me in Detroit last September, NOW is your chance to see Me, boys! My schedule was booked solid then, and this trip is already almost 1/2 way booked. Do not wait until the last minute!
 
St. Louis, this is My first time visiting with intention to engage in BDSM and fetish scenes. I will be playing at Mistress Simone’s beautiful dungeon. She and I have many similarities in how We play, and We are both medical fetishists and extreme sadists at heart. Do not feel intimidated, as both She and I equally enjoy boys who genuinely love to serve and, I encourage you to book a double Domme session with Us.
 
A few activities I particularly enjoy (visit www.Iamyourfetish.com for complete list)
 
erotic electro stimulation
CBT – cock and ball bondage and torture
medical and invasive procedures
single tail whipping, caning, over the knee spankings
BONDAGE light to heavy and predicament
sensory play
 
Do not feel limited or intimidated by the kinks and fetishes listed above. Genuine foot worshippers and Goddess pamperers hold a special place in My dark heart. It’s not always about pain. Respectfully suggest a scenario for Me to consider, and I will respond if it piques My interest.
 
– Deposits are required
– Advance booking strongly recommended
– Verifiable references are a plus
 
To book a session, visit My website first, then send an introductory email to:
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Travel News: Spain! 10/8-15

That’s right, I am heading to Barcelona, Spain in just a few hours and will be out of the country until next Saturday. I will be taking a million photos and enjoying some time away, of course! My laptop will be coming with Me, and I will be answering emails intermittently during the trip. Be patient, it may not be until Monday the 17th that I respond to your email, provided it is not time sensitive.

Be well, and enjoy life!

Sadista in Detroit until this Saturday

I am in Detroit until Saturday afternoon and have a very full schedule. In fact, the only human interaction I will be having is with clients and the occasional barista, waitress, and salesperson.

So far, I’ve broken in two submissives who were nervous novices when they walked in, and certainly felt like different people when they walked out. While fear is quite the aphrodisiac in My world, I do My best to not scare or overwhelm inexperienced clients as they can be quite sensitive, all the while firmly pushing their boundaries beyond their own expectations and self-imposed limitations. In one way or another, I blow their minds. And surely it is My own comfort with those activities that are considered taboo in many societies and cultures that allows My boys to completely let go and feel no shame.

My first client yesterday wrote Me after he had time to process our time together:

“I just wanted to thank you again for your time and guidance. You made me feel very comfortable, taking away my fear and embarrassment.”

Fan-fucking-tastic.

Detroit: I’ve one slot left open tonight at or after 10PM. Deposits are required. Email Me at Iamyourfetish@gmail.com if you would like take tonight’s slot. Otherwise, you are SOL.

~Dominatrix Alexandra Sadista

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Sadista on Tour at the end of June!

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Tour dates:

ATLANTA: Tuesday, June 21 — Thursday, June 23
NEW ORLEANS: Saturday, June 25 — Monday, June 27
HOUSTON: Tuesday, June 28 — Thursday, June 30 (might extend 1-2 days)

Atlanta, it’s been several years since My last time! I’ve only two days available to book sessions, as I will be shooting BDSM videos on Thursday with Goddess Cheyenne. Sessions will be taking place at Her opulent dungeon, and 1-on-1 sessions or Doubles are available shall you feel brave.

New Orleans, home of some of the dirtiest boys in the South! I’ve engaged in fun full toilet play in NOLA, and plan to do so once again! I will be seeing slaves and submissives in My hotel room in the French Quarter, as well as long time friend Mistress Genevieve‘s dungeon in the Marigny/Bywater area. Care to see Us both? Inquire within!

Houston was My hometown for over two decades! It is where I received My initial training in the art of BDSM. Time is limited here as well, but I might extend My trip until Friday or Saturday. I will be playing at The Vault belonging to Domina Shannon. She and I play very well together as We are both Sadists at heart. We are available for double bookings as well.

Serious, genuine inquiries can be sent by email (preferred method of contact) or by phone. Deposits are required while traveling, and impeccable references are a plus! Advanced notice is ALWAYS preferred, however on occasion I will take same day bookings.

Most sessions will be taking place in very well equipped dungeons. That doesn’t deter Me from bringing some of My favorite tools of the trade such as:

• Folsom box and several fun attachments
• implements for corporal punishment (floggers, canes, single tail)
• medical fetish accoutrement (needles, caths, sutures, enema)
• predicament bondage (rope, nose and anal hook, clamps, weights)

…and of course exquisite leather-n-latex attire beautiful boots and stilettos to match! And lingerie… because it is HOT in the South!

In New Orleans and Houston, I will consider lunch or dinner requests with subtle or perhaps not so subtle public play or humiliation involved. I know Houston very well, so the possibilities are definitely endless for a gay bar or strip club outing, especially with a couple of My fellow Dominant Colleagues joining along!

If you can offer chauffeur services in Atlanta or Houston, email Me with CHAUFFEUR – ATL or HOU in the subject line.

For more info visit My website, www.IamyourFetish.com.

~Dominatrix Alexandra Sadista
Iamyourfetish@gmail.com
www.IamyourFetish.com
312-203-4535 OR 713-705-8487

Travel News: Update!


Chicago: Booking appointments until Monday, June 6th

Las Vegas:
June 7th, Tuesday — 11th, Saturday
Doubles with Miss Victoria Cayne on June 7 & 8 ONLY

Chicago: June 12th, Sunday — June 20th, Monday

Atlanta: June 21st, Tuesday — 23rd, Thursday (Shooting BDSM videos on Thursday with Goddess Cheyenne)
New Orleans: June 25th, Saturday — 27th, Monday
Houston: June 28th, Tuesday — 30th, Thursday

TO BOOK A SESSION EMAIL:
IamyourFetish@gmail.com
(EMAIL PREFERRED)
OR CALL:
C: 713-705-8487
C: 312-203-4535

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NYC next, Vegas in June. Where else?

Hello, fellow kinksters! It’s been a minute, and I hope you all have been well! It has been a very good year in the way of travel, new clients, and new toys, thus far! I am excited to visit NYC this weekend for a vacation. Yep, no work, but not totally kink-free, because it would be unfair do deny Myself a visit to a kink-party in NYC!

I am definitely planning on visiting LA again soon, as the time I spent there in early February was way too short. For a few days I soaked in the beautiful weather LA has to offer, and I did quite a bit of sightseeing as well. The highlight, I would say, was hanging out with Isabella Sinclaire and seeing the Ivy Manor and the gorgeous rooms set up perfectly for kinky good times! I got so caught up in the moment that I completely forgot to check out the DeMask showroom She has at that location. Yep, next time! I also was able to visit and get a tour of the Stockroom, thanks to Bella Bathory. And, shopped for latex. Now I need to return for that set of whips I was drooling over in that upstairs area…

Unfortunately I came down with something on My last day there, and it stuck with Me through the first TWO days in Denver! Plans and sessions had to be moved rescheduled, but it all worked out in the end. I had a great time with new, well-behaved clients, and I even got to get a full day of snowboarding in! Definitely another city I will return to when the next snowboarding season kicks in.

Next up is NYC, and Las Vegas is following shortly after!

Sadista in Denver, now through Wednesday, Feb. 10th

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I am in beautiful, sunny Denver, and booking appointments until the evening of Wednesday, Feb. 10th in the downtown Denver area.

I’ve a handful of tools to engage in the following BDSM games in My hotel room:
• electro torture – Folsom
• impact play
• CBT / NT
• play piercing
• sensory play – mummification, leather hood
• boot/foot worship

Respectfully suggest a scenario for Me to consider, and I will respond if it piques My interest.  Send all inquiries to Iamyourfetish@gmail.com.  Upon making contact, be prepared to include the following information:

• name
• interests and experience level
• hard limits
• availability
• any additional, pertinent information about yourself

~Alexandra Sadista

Memories…

They remind you that in every situation, something can be learned, enjoyed, and appreciated.

My princess and I were celebrating our two year anniversary of her service to Me. We started by engaging in a ritual that included the placing of adornments I selected for her… a “Princess” necklace, pink ribbon, a #2 candle, and multiple needles through her torso and corona. We had a lovely time together, and were going to follow it up with a “Birthday” dinner. We went to a restaurant, she dressed in a pink turtleneck, a white denim skirt, and pink knit socks and I in a black ensemble (surprise, surprise). she also wore her Princess necklace and her tiara. I had made arrangements prior to arriving at the restaurant as to what My princess would be eating, regardless of the order that she placed. We started off by sharing a delicious appetizer, while being entertained by drag queens, then ordered our entrees. I stuck to My usual, Filet Mignon, and she ordered a chicken entree. When our dinner arrived, she was served a well presented plate of two different kinds of baby food. her eyes lit up, and I knew she would enjoy the meal I arranged for her more than what she had ordered. We then had dessert, topped with a #2 candle.I am uncertain of at which point she drank My piss during that celebration, as it was a very regular occurrence for her to do so. After we were finished, she went to the restroom and was stopped on the way back by patrons who asked what she was celebrating. Proudly, she pointed to her necklace and stated, “I am celebrating being a princess for two years!”

It is interactions such as these that warm My black, sadistic heart. It is a memory I will forever cherish, despite the ending the relationship endured.

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