Author: AlexandraSadista

eXplicit Play Party

You’ve been longing for a play party of this nature. After all, it’s been years since Chicago has offered kinksters and hedonists the opportunity to socialize, learn, and play among each other in an elegant BDSM Dungeon. This is your opportunity. We hope you will join us for our first ever eXplicit Play Party.

The eXplicit Party is on Saturday, September 7th from 9PM-2AM at the Studio. Our evening will feature BDSM and Fetish Demonstrations by Dominatrix Alexandra Sadista, Miss Ammunition, and Queerella Fistalot.

Play is encouraged! BYOT [please bring your own toys]. The Studio is well equipped with a variety of furniture conducive to a variety of BDSM scenarios including a St. Andrew’s Cross, a large bondage bed, a mummification/bondage table, a medical exam/gynecological table, a bondage wall, a wooden rack for suspension, multiple spanking benches, a metal standing cell, and more.

Complimentary Hors D’euvres and light beverages will be served. 

An RSVP is required from each individual attending in order to be added to the list, and to receive the pertinent information including door donation and rules for the event:

All proceeds from this event will be donated to the AIDS Foundation of Chicago. If you cannot attend and would like to make a donation, go to:

UPDATE: Available time slots remaining include Friday the 9th from 7PM til 2AM, Saturday the 10th from 7PM til midnight, and Sunday the 11th from 4-6PM

I am booking appointments now for My upcoming trip at Domina Shannon’s very well equipped Dungeon in East Downtown. I am booking appointments for one-on-one BDSM / fetish sessions, D/s dinner outing and public play (Dungeon time required prior to outing), shopping. Tribute applies for all interactions with exception of shopping. Fill out the form to apply for a session:

Medical scenes and fetishes requiring specific toys, wardrobe requests, and FTT appointments must be made in advance and secured with a deposit. I will only consider wardrobe requests that include latex, leather, lingerie, and fetish boots specifically seen in My photos.

Be on your best behavior when contacting Me. Do make sure you include all the information requested when filling out My form. Deposits required to confirm our time. It is more efficient for you to provide your exact availability rather than ask for Mine. If you are providing verifiable references, be sure to inform the Pro-Domina so She knows She will be contacted. Include pertinent information such as Her website URL or link to Her ad, phone, email, date of session, memorable details.

See you very soon, Houston slaves and fetishists!

Fantasy Made Flesh

Our meeting left him a bit speechless and in shock. My boy found himself in a similar predicament for a third time, and the fantasy he dreamt about for decades was REALLY about to happen. I showed My boy a photo of the young, supple male adorned with a cock ring who would soon arrive. The eager participant arrived, and I immediately arranged their bodies so My boy could take the forbidden fruit into his hands and guide it into his mouth. The scene continued, and bodies were repositioned, groans filling the air. It was a wonderfully orchestrated, perverse scenario I will soon not forget.

On his way out, I instructed My boy to orgasm by masturbation when he returned home. No instruction was needed as he knows how I prefer he dispose of the mess.

“How did it taste this time?” I asked.

“Not much taste. And i was surprised it was not gooey but watery.  i fantasized Your Voice calling me a cock slut, whore, and filthy. I reimagined lightly stroking his thighs and Your hand on the back of my head.  i returned to the sensation of You taking off my blind fold to force me to come to grips with what i was doing.  And i came feeling the table top against my cheek, the weight pinning me down, and the violation.  You are VERY good at what You do Master.  Thank You.”

IML + Vespertine

IML/ Vespertine weekend never disappoints. I have been actively involved with both events for 13 years, and look forward to it every year. I always feel as I am in My natural habitat, which is because I probably was a gay leather man in a previous life. I normally only attend the Vendor’s Market at the host hotel which places Me immediately in the kid-in-a-candy-store mindset as I window shop for a few hours, then make another round to make My purchases. Then, I return another day to purchase more!

Mr. S Leather took most of My money (and slave’s), and as a result I’ve several new toys & power box to add to My collection. I finally upgraded to an ErosTek ET312B after using the ET232 and Folsom power box for years. I also picked up a Fleshjack Electro Stroker, a unique cordless silicone e-stim vibe, the extreme electro sex butt plug, and the small torpedo butt plug. And adapters, electrodes, leads, bands… things you can’t have enough of in your e-stim kit. I also made sure to show some of My favorite vendors support by purchasing a few impact toys and tools for the medical fetishist (ME).

The weekend ended at Vespertine, a Play Party for Queer Women founded and organized by My beloved Sister in Kink Daddy Sky. I have seen this gathering evolve into such a beautifully diverse event since its inception. It is an all inclusive, safe environment for Queer Women to play and enjoy. I personally had the pleasure of suspending and playing with My cohort Queerella aka Mistress Katrina. Her marks are blooming and are quite colorful! I also watched two very intense fisting scenes, one anal and one vaginal. I have fisted both in various ways, however I have yet to go elbow deep so it remains a goal! The night ended in pure bliss. Intense, sensual, invasive play in every direction My head turned. There is nothing quite like the symphony of moans, groans, whimpers, whispers, grunts, giggles, slaps, whacks, cracks, buzzzzzzzzz, zaps… not to mention the visuals!

Now that the weekend is behind Me I can continue My regularly scheduled program, and tackle a few projects I’ve been working on. This will include a few major purchases that will allow Me to resume shooting videos with better quality and lighting, as well as contribute to the Sadista Klinik I am in the process of assembling. Stay tuned!

Sessions are being booked for Friday evening after 7PM until Sunday 11AM (flexible, could extend until 4PM).  My time is always reserved in advance as booking protocol must be followed. It is quite simple, just read ALl the info and follow ALL the instructions on My website, and let’s discuss!

WHY, YES, THAT IS AN ENEMA BAG IN THE PIC!  As many of you know, I am a medical fetishist. This means I do offer enema cleansings, retention, punishments while traveling.  All enema fetish sessions MUST be booked in advance and require at least two hours of play.

~Dominatrix Alexandra Sadista

PhillatioFoot and I hope you can join us on Saturday, May 11th for our Kinky Boots Foot Fetish Party. The party will begin at 8PM and goes until 1AM. There will be a performance by Miss Ammunition and a sexiest boot presentation/contest (Women only!).

If it is your first time… Welcome!  Some of you have asked about the rules.  Basically, have fun and keep it classy.   Play should only include foot worship, tickling, massages, trampling, and any wonderful activity revolving around and catering to foot fetishists.  Any play outside of the foot fetish realm and nudity is not allowed, nor inappropriate requests.  We have seven private/semi-private areas available along with several areas in the main room for you to play in.  Again, nudity is not allowed.  No sex acts, period.  If someone makes an inappropriate or offensive request, please let me know and either Phil or I will handle the situation.  These parties have a good reputation, let’s keep it that way!

This is the longest running party of its kind in Chicago – 17+ yrs!  We strive to create a safe and classy event to bring together admirers of feet and the Women that enjoy being pampered.

Women do not have to pay a donation at the door, however men are asked to do so and bring a bottle of wine for the Ladies to enjoy.  Evening wear / cocktail dresses and festive looks are welcome.  We will have hors d’oeuvres and light beverages for you to enjoy.

RSVP:  If you have any additional questions, do not hesitate to ask.  Let me know if you would like to attend, and if you plan on bringing a guest.  We will need his/her name for the RSVP list.  If we do not have your full name or your guest’s for the RSVP list, you will not be allowed entry.  The address and parking information will be sent on the day of the event.

~Goddess Alexandra

UPDATE: Available time slots remaining are Friday the 19th from 9PM til 2AM and Sunday the 21st from 4:30PM til 8PM.

I have already started booking appointments in Houston, TX! I lived in the Montrose area and other parts of town for the majority of My childhood and young adult life. I am excited to return to see dear friends which will make My play time limited.

That said, be on your best behavior when contacting Me. Do make sure you include all the information requested when filling out My form. Do expect to send a deposit to confirm our time. It is more efficient for you to provide your exact availability rather than ask for Mine. If you are providing verifiable references, be sure to inform the ProDomina so She knows She will be contacted. Include pertinent information such as Her website URL or link to Her ad, phone, email, date of session, memorable details.

I will be conducting sessions at Domina Shannon’s Dungeon which is very well equipped and discreetly located near Downtown Houston and the Minute Maid Park. Bondage lovers, the furniture in this studio is perfect for you. The St. Catherine’s Wheel and metal cbt chair (see photo) has endless possibilities. I will be bringing My favorite personal items such as My electro torture kit, favorite whips and cbt/nt toys, and supplies for medical fetish scenes.

Medical fetish sessions are required to book in advance. I will not bring play piercing needles, catheters, sutures, medical staplers, enema supplies, etc unless you have arranged a scene with Me and sent a deposit.

FTT – I will only be seeing one FT while in town. Our appointment must take place in the morning on Saturday ending by 1PM or on Sunday afternoon after 1PM. I have been training new and experienced Ts for over a decade. Do not expect any physical contact or “t.p. service” as I do not allow it. your sole purpose is to be a toilet, and nothing else.

I will consider wardrobe requests that include latex, leather, lingerie, and fetish boots specifically seen in My photos, otherwise you are welcome to make a specific request and purchase (allow time for delivery).

you’ve a few weeks until I invade your city. Start making plans now.
~Dominatrix Alexandra Sadista

On a dark night with the moon and stars being our only source of light, we found just the right spot to do it. We wore only robes, as part of the thrill was to share this experience completely in the nude. he disrobed and got on all fours, without any direction from Me, and said “I am ready”. I smiled the wickedest of smiles (and My first of countless to come) and threw My robe off to the side. I straddled him, and without hesitation gave My first ever Golden Shower. I began pissing a ferocious piss on his back that splattered all over him, all over My legs, all over the grass around us. I stopped before I finished, as I wanted his position to change. “Now, you need to turn around and lower your body, tilt your head back, and open your mouth,” and before I finished My sentence, he was in position for Me to piss into his mouth. I repositioned Myself, this time using one hand to ensure My stream would be aimed towards his mouth. The other hand grabbed his shoulder length hair and moved his mouth into place. I continued to piss on him, until I was empty. But was I ever SO satisfied.

One never forgets their first time. Mine took place on an island when I was a minor, and they continue to occur with regular frequency and as much fervor and enthusiasm as the first.

Chicago, My brief hiatus is almost over. Did you miss Me? Of course you did. And I missed you.

What have I been up to? It seems I always have a few projects going on in the world of FemDom. This time most of My attention was on a very important and personal endeavor, so I decided to take a break from working. I won’t go into all the details, but I will let you know what is relevant to you. I will be back in the dungeon seeing new clients again very soon, and I will be seeing My regulars even sooner.  For those of you who I have not met, be forewarned… I have an even lower tolerance for discourteous and lazy email introductions. I will be quick to favor those who are respectful, honest, and articulate about the experience they seek to engage in with Me, and quick to deny and ignore those who fail to acknowledge and follow the booking procedures clearly stated on My website (

I will be available for sessions Monday through Friday in the evenings only and all day on Saturday and Sunday. If your only availability is in the daytime weekday hours, we can try to work something out provided you are in good standings with Me and can follow My booking instructions to a tee.It is highly encouraged you book with at least 48 hours advance notice. I will no longer offer same-day sessions, no exceptions.

Video shoots will resume in September, and until then you may purchase the clips that are available on My C4S store #50845. If you wish to be in a video shoot, scroll down to My blog entry with the requirements, and follow the instructions.

Travel will resume soon. I will more than likely visit Detroit first, followed by New Orleans in late fall, Madison WI in January, Houston and Austin in February.

Now for the good stuff… I’ve acquired a few new toys that I wish to add to My scenes of the electrical torture and breath control nature. I’ve also been away from the dungeon the longest time ever in My 11 years of domination. That said – I am very thirsty. My claws are sharpened. My big black cock is lubed up. My play piercing needle supply has been restocked. I long to hear the crack of My whip and the sting of My cane on your bare flesh, your whimpers and cries and pleas for mercy. I will put your tongue to use as you lick the bottoms of My leather boots clean, maybe I will allow you to kiss the leather or to suck on My heel. I am ready for you, slaves and fetishists and kinksters, to hand over your body and mind to utilize and manipulate in ways you never imagined.

Email Me to inquire about a session with Me starting in late August:

Miss Ammunition has Her slave hooded, locked in metal chastity, and wrapped tightly to a wooden post. She begins a series of delicious tortures, after all he is there for Her amusement. She uses Her fingernails, a leather quirt, and various implements of Her choosing. Moans that express gratitude escape Her slave’s gagged mouth as She teases Her locked cock and tears through the plastic with Her long, sharp claws.

Category: FemDom, chastity, mummification, fingernail fetish, whipping, nipple play, scratching, long nails, bondage, gagging, nipple clamps
Length: 10 mins

This clip is available at www (dot) clips4sale (dot) com / 50845