Author: AlexandraSadista

Another year will soon be behind us. It’s hard to believe so much has happened both behind the doors of the Dungeon and in My personal life. My life is abundant in the realm of BDSM, kink and fetish exploration, slave training (and more!) and for that I am grateful!

I am very grateful for the devoted submissives that serve Me. We strive to achieve deeper connections, a more profound understanding of their role in My life, and a deeper appreciation of themselves. We indulge in these urges and desires that live in the dark corners of our mind, as I provide a safe space for you to experience them. I consider this space to be sacred, where our rituals can be performed repeatedly but no two occasions are alike because with each encounter we grow and access a part of ourselves we couldn’t before. This is due to your focus, your determination, your adherence to My rules and discipline. If we are aligned perfectly, provides freedom and a release beyond just the physical response. you will feel it in your soul… the acceptance, the nurture, and protection. Rewards come in many different forms, isn’t that right?

Thank you to My lovely devoted boys. May the new year bring you more opportunities to serve, more time spent exploring bondage, sadism, your deepest fantasies, and of course… more filth!

~DAS

I look forward to reconnecting with My boys in Michigan! Booking in advance is always preferred.

Haven’t met Me yet? Read My website. Familiarize yourself with Me, what I enjoy, and My limits. Then communicate your desires. Apply to serve by filling out My application in its entirety.

I am returning to Houston after a year! I’ve limited time available. Monday after 3PM and Tuesday between 3PM-6PM. As usual, I will be playing at the fabulous Vault in East Downtown which has a winch for suspension. Do you know all of the wonderful things that can happen to you while in suspension bondage? The studio is also very well equippped with a CBT chair that will expose every bit of you, a St. Catherine’s wheel, a few cages, and a bondage bed for you to be strictly secured to while I have My way with you. Sounds delightful, yes?

Apply to book your appointment!

ATTN DETROIT! I am packing My toy bags & heading your way this weekend! Do you wish to serve & suffer for Me? Only these appointment times remain:

—SAT, April 26 10PM-Midnight & MON, April 28 9PM-11PM—
Requests with deposits must be submitted by April 24th.

Fill out My form to book an appointment! See you soon.

I am returning to Michigan! I will arrive in Detroit the evening of Friday, January 17th and depart on Monday afternoon of the 20th. Potential submissives are encouraged to book ahead of time as My schedule does fill up each time I visit.

When I think about the scenes I’ve had the most fun executing in Detroit, I would say heavy bondage w/sensory play and estim, MedFet, and watersports/humiliation rank high. I always travel with My favorite impact toys, as well as phalluses for depth and endurance training. And My fetish wardrobe is not without the appropriately sized stilettos, as well as leather and latex for the fetishists.

Fill out My application to submit your request to serve and play. Inquiries and deposits must be submitted by January 15th so that I may pack accordingly with your scene in mind.

See you soon!
~DAS

We have officially entered My favorite time of year. In October I celebrate My Domme anniversary, followed by My favorite holiday, Halloween. And then I celebrate My 11/11 Scorpio birthday shortly after.

This year is a milestone birthday. Those who know, know! To all else, the number is unimportant. However it is a BIG ONE – one to be celebrated in all the ways I desire.

In the past I’ve announced wanting suspension gear or a variety of items for the Dungeon to use on you. This year it is ABOUT ME. I am making it super easy and only requesting one thing:

A Gift Certificate for latex clothing & fetish accessories by HW-Design!* For many years I have admired this company’s fetish wear. It’s time I start My HW clothing collection! They have amazing latex fashion (see samples below) and also have some pretty sexy bondage pieces as well. Who knows, if I have enough left over after buying what I want I may buy something for you bondage sluts out there.

Again, I am making it super easy for you. you don’t even have to THINK about it. No surprises, no thoughtful gifts, JUST RUBBER to feed My rubber fetish desires!

For those who wish to celebrate in person, know that I will be traveling November 1-8 and My time will grow to be quite limited the rest of the month as we get closer. Contact Me now to plan a one-on-one celebration of epic proportions!

~DAS

* The HW GC is also available via My Throne link: https://throne.com/alexandrasadista/item/fadaccef-60e4-4b4e-aa3b-0adaf3970fa5

[Pic from 2007. Photos taken prior belong to the commercial space I worked for so unfortunately I’ve no copies of those]

October marks 18 years working in professional Dominatrix. What a journey it’s been! It’s been a pleasure to meet the people who I’ve played with, traveled with, shared discussions, blood, sweat, and their tears. I’ve created memories to last a lifetime.

I remember My first session quite well. I tagged along with another Domme and watched Her work the hell out of Her submissive. The entire scene consisted of him on his knees being berated, teased, slapped, and lightly tortured by way of nipple pinching. I remember being in awe of Her demeanor and his puppy eyes staring into Hers and Mine. It was a look I craved to see again and again. But despite the thrill and excitement of it, I thought it lacked what I was seeking to explore and engage in, and this begun My journey of exploration in professional BDSM.

Coming from an eight year stint with an audacious band who featured Women in Leather performing a wide variety of fetish and circus acts, I had a very good idea of the direction I wanted to go in. I had extensive experience with piercing and cutting, basic flogging and impact play, fire play, role play (mostly student/Teacher and military), simple suspension and bondage. One could say I entered this profession with a full-steam-ahead attitude and lots of creative energy and inspiration.

I acquired My first slave only seven months in and immersed Myself in a style of play and interaction that helped Me develop an understanding of the submissive mindset. This wasn’t a performance, this was the real thing with real people. Many placed their minds and bodies in My care, trusting Me to guide them carefully and thoughtfully through their BDSM experience. What an honor it was, and still is!

I can honestly say that the connection I have with FemDom and BDSM is deeper than it ever has been. My desire to provide a sacred space for every person who entrusts Me with their lives is something I take very seriously. My passion for play is strong. This is not only a creative outlet, it is an opportunity to challenge Myself and My submissives to grow, expand their capabilities, and be rewarded in ways they never imagined before.

So… Happy FemDom anniversary to Me! Thank you to all who’ve supported Me, served in any capacity, and who’ve stuck by Me at My feet throughout all the years.

~DAS

If you wish to send a gift, I am currently desiring Gift Certificates to HW-Design

For a limited time, this beauty and I will be offering double Domme sessions. Our availability begins on Tuesday, September 24th and ends on Thursday the 26th. If you are not already, familiarize yourself with Domina Ara Lee by viewing Her website.

We are especially interested in turning you into Our helpless, feeding off your vulnerability and desperate desire to please Us. Expect to be seduced, deprived, and exploited for Our pleasure.

Prioritizing bondage exploration, feminization, tease and denial, sadism, and the like.

Now gather your thoughts and wipe the sweat off your brow, and surrender to Us. you may apply to serve Us by filling out My form HERE.

A slave, a Milker, and a Beast Tongue.

I recently spent some time familiarizing Myself with the new attachments for My SK MM with a slave who offers himself to Me as a lab rat and piece of meat to use as I see fit. The mono-polar scrotal suction tube and the bi-polar nipple cylinders were the focus. What a horrible life, no? Just imagine the sensations running through his body as the scrotum, penis, and nipples were sucked into the tubes. The constant suction and pulsation working his tender parts and causing loads of frustration. And to think, we didn’t even hook up the electrics for an even deeper level of torment.

[To read the entire entry about this slave’s training with the kit and the tongue, and to view uncensored pics, subscribe to My Loyal Fans]

I am delighted to announce My return to Detroit and Houston. Loyalty, respectful devotion, and the open minds of the ones that serve Me will keep Me returning to your city.

If we have not played, browse My website and familiarize yourself with the activities I engage in as well as My limits. Boundaries are to be respected, and inappropriate requests will be ignored.

If we have met, then let’s discuss what we shall explore during this trip. Will it be simple but effective or very elaborate bondage? Immobilization? Sensory deprivation and overload, with E-Stim, perhaps while wearing a restrictive leather or inflatable latex hood? Perhaps you enjoy a little breath play as well. Or – if you are a medical fetishist as I am, you may enjoy being emptied by an enema, then stretched beyond your limits in order to please Me. Play piercing (non-permanent), cuttings (semi or permanent), suturing, stapling are high on My list of favorites as well. The rest of the activities I favor are listed here. Of course, you may respectfully inquire if your interest is not included as long as you are mindful of My limits.

We will meet at a location inner ring suburb of Detroit. I cater each scene to the unique individual I am playing with, and I pack My favorite tools, implements, and fetish wear accordingly. For this reason and due to the high number of returning clients in the area, it is best to inquire and book in advance. Parking and shower facility available.

In Houston, sessions will take place in a very well equipped private Studio just east of Downtown. It is the Dungeon I play in every time I visit Houston, I know it very well. Parking and shower facility available.

Deposits are required anytime I travel, unless you have been a returning client for over five years and do not have any cancellations on your record. Screening is required for new clients, no exceptions.

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