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Hot and Steamy in New Orleans 8/27 — 9/2

Not a morning goes by that I do not turn off the AC, open the windows, and allow the waves of heat to enter My apartment. Since the temperatures have lingered at 80+ degrees, I’ve been My happiest. I am enjoying consecutive days of being scantily clad, wearing bikinis under My casual clothing just in case I pop over to the beach on the way home. And in the spirit of summer, My session attire options lean towards bare legs instead of stockings, ass revealing skirts, leather or latex bras with matching thongs. I like it HOT. And it’s a good thing I do, because…

NEW ORLEANS, I AM HEADING YOUR WAY.

My arrival date is Saturday, August 29th. My departure date will either be Wednesday, September 2nd OR Saturday, the 5th.

Toys from My personal box will be traveling with Me for the following scenes:
• e-stim (electro-stimulation/torture)
• restrictive and predicament bondage, mummification
• corporal punishment and discipline
• CBT/NT
• play piercing
• medical/invasive procedures

For a complete list of the activities I engage in, go to www.Iamyourfetish.com/interests.
Email inquiries: IamyourFetish@gmail.com

~Domina Alexandra Sadista

 

Seeking Bottoms for BDSM Videos

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I am currently seeking male bottoms, pain-sluts, masochists, extreme kinksters for upcoming video shoots. Experience is preferred. you must be able to provide a government issued ID and sign a model release form. It is My preference that you wear a hood. It is also My preference that you be hooded and immobilized in heavy bondage while I rape your every hole, but let’s be real… most of you cannot handle that.
Below is the list of activities I will be filming:
CBT and NT – Not on the lighter side of the spectrum.
Ball busting – If you have any doubts, then you will not be able to handle it
Heavy/predicament bondage/sensory deprivation – Not for beginners
Electrical torture
Strap/on – No beginners. If you want training, schedule a session.
Deep throat/gagging – No gag reflex? Definitely a plus.
Heavy Corporal scenes – If you cannot have visible remnants the next day, this is not for you.
Bastinado
Extensive play piercing
Objectification – this position has been filled.
If you are able to participate in one or more than one of these categories, email Me with an introduction with “Video Shoot” in the subject line. State the activities you are interested in participating in, your limitations, and availability. If you have verifiable references, include that information as well.
If you are interested in filming with Me, but do not have experience in a certain area of interest, schedule a session with Me. We will explore the activity/s.
I welcome suggestions, particularly if there is an activity you are well-versed in as a bottom.
Email: IamyourFetish@gmail.com. Shooting will begin in June.
~Dominatrix Alexandra Sadista

Review.

Not every client I see gets tortured, belittled, harassed, stuffed, bitch-slapped, poked, slapped, drained, and so forth. Each one is as unique as the other. And some require a touch of nurturing, along with their serving of delicious sadism.

3/21/15 — I wanted to thank You again for Thursday evening. You helped ease me into my first session with a Pro-Domme, while still managing to push my boundaries within my limits. I have to admit i was quite nervous beforehand, not knowing exactly what to expect. This is something that causes me great anxiety, and one of the reasons why I have a hard time going out to larger social events to meet new people. But it didn’t take long for me to feel at ease in sub space, kneeling at Your feet. It felt where i belonged, able to simply be myself without the usual mask i have to wear to blend into society. The entire experience was highly enjoyable, and felt very therapeutic for me. Submission is a natural aspect of myself, and one i truly enjoy being able to explore and share with others. For as long as i can remember, i have always viewed women as deserving admiration and worship. i’m glad i was able to share this positive experience with You, and hope to have a session again in the future.

Also, you are not alone in your thoughts.

New Orleans, April 3rd—8th

The charming Big Easy beckons and I am happy to oblige! This is My first visit to New Orleans with the primary focus being on engaging in genuine BDSM scenes.

I am scheduling appointments in Mistress Genevieve’s Dungeon near in the Bywater area, approximately two miles east of the French Quarter. Four full days (Saturday 4 through Tuesday 7) are reserved for sessions, video shoots, and kink-related activities. Those who dare may inquire about doubles with Genevieve and I. Let’s make obscene memories, New Orleans!!!

There are a plethora of activities that I enjoy incorporating into a scene, ranging from edge play to humiliation scenes to sensual sadism, and beyond. The most important element, however, is the power exchange; your desire to submit. your desire to be taken over. your desire to relinquish control of life as you know it. your submission and your suffering is My kink, and the varying degrees you display will determine My mood during our time together.

Of course the activities we engage in must be ones that I have a hard-on for. Lucky for you, the list is abundant.  The following are examples of the types of scenes I am currently enjoying (the most):
• heavy bondage and restricted mobility, anal hooks
• verbal humiliation associated with slut training, toilets, ball busting/cbt
• medical scenes – sharps, enemas, invasive procedures, at, role-play
• over-stimulation of your senses/sensory play
• impact play
• foot domination, foot fetish scenes
I suggest you take a look at the Interests section on My website. I do not list/offer activities if I do not highly enjoy them.

Please peruse My website prior to emailing:
http://www.IamyourFetish.com

Deposits required.
E: Iamyourfetish@gmail.com
P: 312-203-4535

~Dominatrix Alexandra Sadista

 

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New FemDom Clips in My C4S store.

Last night, Goddess Lily Hex and I shot a couple of videos that made Us laugh. It’s been a while since a submissive has made Me laugh that much merely by singing… The dong being forced down his mouth had a bit to do with it. That video will be available next week, the two new videos below can be purchased by you now.

No Mercy for Mr Toughguy (25 minutes) featuring a shiny, latex-catsuit clad Alexandra, Her slave in a leather hood, in bondage, caning, paddling, cbt, cbb, cock and ball parachute, metal cane, nylon cane, dragon tail whip, rubber paddle, and a stapler.

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Pathetic Pig Ridiculed by Women – Parts 1 & 2 (19 & 21 minutes) This video features Mistress Alexandra and Mistress Xena, girl-next-door Miss Mea, and Miss Philly. Humiliation, verbal abuse, ashtray, spittoon, kicking, slapping, cigarette burning, and forced feeding are among the activities the poor pathetic pig is forced to endure.

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New Orleans beckons!

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Hello, My dears. I hope you are all starting off your new year on the right foot, or for some, under My beautiful, leather boot. I have kicked ass so far this year, and plan on continuing full steam ahead. It started off well with fun sessions that were right up My alley (heavy medical, torturous tease and denial, enemas and showers!), a tickle torture video shoot, and of course My annual fast. Currently I am planning travel for one, possibly two, trips to New Orleans in February and/or March to escape this god-awful Mid-West climate.

During this trip I will be accepting sessions for the very first time in the Big Easy. Mistress Genevieve’s dungeon in the Bywater area, which is located two miles away from the French Quarter, is where My sessions will be conducted. It’s funny to think that Her dungeon in Houston was the first I EVER stepped foot in when I was only 19 years old. My travel dates will be announced soon.

My Clips4Sale store will grow as new videos are currently being edited. The newest video in the store is “No Mercy for Mr Toughguy”, at 25 minutes in length, which means 25 minutes of smoking hot Alexandra in neck to toe, skintight latex abusing a wimpy slave until he almost passes out. I decided to not split it up into two parts as I felt the flow of the scene should not be interrupted. Purchase it now: www.Clips4Sale.com/50845

I am currently seeking a submissive boy to serve in a very specific manner in Chicago. I will be posting My requirements shortly. It is not for a live-in slave, nor a house slave, nor one that is in need of enduring My training process. More on that in the next couple of days.

Lastly, I am on day #7 of My seventh annual cleansing fast, which includes a salt water flush every morning. One day, I will have a human toilet on the receiving end of that flush.

More soon.
~Alexandra the Sadist

* For session inquiries in New Orleans, email Me at Iamyourfetish@gmail.com. Dates are flexible, and two trips will be planned for February and also in the second week of March. Review My website before making contact: www.IamyourFetish.com. Sessions with Me, and double Domme sessions with Mistress Genevieve will be offered.

Vespertine, Play Party for Women

Our event November 22nd at The Studio will feature Demos by Daddy Sky, Mistress Alexandra Sadista and Miss Ammunition. And, it will officially be Alexandra’s final birthday celebration for the month!

Bring your own toy bag. $20 per person cash only

FETISH ATTIRE REQUIRED/NO JEANS, T-SHIRTS, SNEAKERS OR BALL CAPS
Leather/Latex/Uniform/PVC/Rubber/Goth/Lingerie/Suit and tie

VESPERTINE CHICAGO RIGIDLY UPHOLDS MEMBER CONFIDENTIALITY.
CLUB EVENTS ARE PRIVATE AND OPEN TO VETTED/QUALIFIED MEMBERS ONLY

You MUST RSVP with your legal name which matches your state issued ID and valid e-mail. Address sent upon RSVP. NO RSVP/NO ENTRY/NO EXCEPTIONS

NO CROSS DRESSING CIS GENDERED MEN ALLOWED

Make your RSVP goes to Skyvespertinechgo@yahoo.com. Your legal name, date of birth, and how you were referred is required if you are new.
VESPERTINE CHICAGO is open to all women and transfolk 18 years of age or older. If you are a woman, you identify as a woman and live your daily life as a woman or are a female-born transgender person who feels they have a connection with and love of the kinky/leather/fetish women’s community, YOU ARE WELCOME!!

 

VESPERTINE CHICAGO encourages education in the fine fetish arts and interactive, hands on role playing, safe and consensual scene play and a person’s right to explore new and exciting ways to express themselves in a sexual manner, safely.

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Sessions available with Ms Sophia Asphyxia through the end of October

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SPECIAL ANNOUNCEMENT:

Ms Sophia Asphyxia is giving you the rare opportunity to serve Her during Her third trimester or Her pregnancy. That’s right, Sophia is glowing with a bun in the over, and is accepting inquiries for sessions including, but not limited to, the following activities:

• Bare handed spankings
• Corporal punishment and discipline
• Tease and Denial
• Golden showers
• Smothering (with protective barrier)
• Foot worship
• Trampling
• Body worship
• Age play
• Shaving scenes: I will elaborate on the shaving scene and stress the fact that this is a once in a lifetime chance to serve Sophia by devoting your gentle touch to making Her life easier during these last couple of months. Sophia will be allowing a small number of carefully selected clients to shave Her. you must have experience with either shaving your own private area or the private area of another.

Sophia and I are also offering Double Domme sessions at a discounted tribute (email for info) at the fully equipped Studio. Keep in mind that if you do not have any experience with shaving, this would be the perfect opportunity to have Me as your teacher, so to perform the task without any mishaps. AB and age regression scenes are recommended between the two of Us, as well as the activities listed above and those on My website, with exception of heavy medical scenes.

 

you may email Me at Iamyourfetish@gmail.com to book an appointment. Verifiable references and/or a deposit will be required.

If you are smart and know an amazing opportunity when you see one, you will not waste any time and book your time with Sophia Asphyxia for a solo or double Domme session.

Visiting San Francisco 9/18 — 9/22

NEWS/TRAVEL UPDATE:
San Francisco: Friday, September 19th — Monday, September 22nd (FOLSOM)

I am visiting San Francisco and taking appointments for the first time ever in California. Below are the only days/times you may book your time with Me. Send a polite introduction via email. Include your name, a description of your fantasy/scene, the activities you enjoy that correlate with Mine, and any additional, pertinent information. you will be required to submit a deposit to reserve your appointment.

Friday, September 19th — Saturday, September 20th — Monday, September 22nd

My website: www.IamyourFetish.com
Contact info: IamyourFetish@gmail.com

Queerella Fistalot will be joining Me, and We are offering double Domme sessions for a very low tribute. Why? Because We want to give you the opportunity to suffer for Us. Below is a photo of Queerella.

All emails are welcome. I would love to connect with people in the area, but time will more than likely not allow. My schedule is filling up quickly, with Friday, Saturday, and part of Monday reserved for play with new clients. The Armory of kink(dot)com fame is on the list of places to visit, and possibly one of the events held in conjunction with BondCon. Of course, Sunday is reserved for kinky fun and debauchery at the Folsom Street Fair with My cohorts from Chicago, and the sea of pervs that will be attending.

Additional information regarding  where I will be conducting My sessions will be added momentarily.

~Alexandra the Sadist

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A Good Time Was Had By A/all.

Articulation is sexy. As is devotion displayed through suffering.
Written by My banana-cabana-boy:

Dearest Mistress Alexandra,

   Have you ever had a review where Your sub writes, “i can’t describe how unbelievable my session was” or, “i can’t begin to express how mindblowing it was”? Well get a vocabulary and an imagination bud, because your Mistress deserves an articulate and sincere account of Her time spent with you.

   Here’s mine.

   Right up front, i am honored to have been Your choice to fulfill a personal perversity and happy i was up to the physical challenges.  You seemed very proud and pleased in making me Your “Vase (pronounce “vaaz”) ala Sphincter”. i truly appreciate the thought and time You spent on this. Your humiliations are eeevilly and gleefully played out and i pray to be useful in more of Your cruel and beauteous visions.

     You’ll be happy to know all of Your lovely marks are blooming quite nicely and making me wince at every seating. my birthday was several weeks ago and i consider myself fully spanked and caned in celebration thereof.

   Wow, You sure enjoyed filling me up to my limit with that enema.  The nozzle being inserted, and my bowels and intestines expanding and bloating while You look upon my increasing discomfort is a humiliation i am happy to endure as i see You smile at my helplessness. i’m now dreaming of that milk and molasses enema that was mentioned.

   No matter what is said “in role” piss is PISS. It tastes like piss and that’s undeniable. And You had me drink Yours; the waste that Your body no longer had any use for. Except to feed to me. And i drank it eagerly and obediently.

   As You can tell, and i expressed this before W/we parted, my love of O/our time together Wednesday could not have been more optimally shocking, unexpected and desirable. Certainly, being a man, i have perused other Mistresses web-sites. This having been O/our third session i can definitively say You are a Domme of a singular variety. You define You and all others are riding coach.

   YOU are it!!

   Looking forward to future playtimes with more devilish fun.

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