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Hello, fellow kinksters! It’s been a minute, and I hope you all have been well! It has been a very good year in the way of travel, new clients, and new toys, thus far! I am excited to visit NYC this weekend for a vacation. Yep, no work, but not totally kink-free, because it would be unfair do deny Myself a visit to a kink-party in NYC!

I am definitely planning on visiting LA again soon, as the time I spent there in early February was way too short. For a few days I soaked in the beautiful weather LA has to offer, and I did quite a bit of sightseeing as well. The highlight, I would say, was hanging out with Isabella Sinclaire and seeing the Ivy Manor and the gorgeous rooms set up perfectly for kinky good times! I got so caught up in the moment that I completely forgot to check out the DeMask showroom She has at that location. Yep, next time! I also was able to visit and get a tour of the Stockroom, thanks to Bella Bathory. And, shopped for latex. Now I need to return for that set of whips I was drooling over in that upstairs area…

Unfortunately I came down with something on My last day there, and it stuck with Me through the first TWO days in Denver! Plans and sessions had to be moved rescheduled, but it all worked out in the end. I had a great time with new, well-behaved clients, and I even got to get a full day of snowboarding in! Definitely another city I will return to when the next snowboarding season kicks in.

Next up is NYC, and Las Vegas is following shortly after!

I am in beautiful, sunny Denver, and booking appointments until the evening of Wednesday, Feb. 10th in the downtown Denver area.

I’ve a handful of tools to engage in the following BDSM games in My hotel room:
• electro torture – Folsom
• impact play
• CBT / NT
• play piercing
• sensory play – mummification, leather hood
• boot/foot worship

Respectfully suggest a scenario for Me to consider, and I will respond if it piques My interest.  Send all inquiries to Iamyourfetish@gmail.com.  Upon making contact, be prepared to include the following information:

• name
• interests and experience level
• hard limits
• availability
• any additional, pertinent information about yourself

~Alexandra Sadista

Domina Alexandra Sadista and Miss Victoria Cayne team together for discounted double trouble! Oct 21-23 ONLY. Advance bookings ONLY. Make your Double Domme fantasies come true.

If you would like to serve Us and have an interest in BDSM, sensual sadism, and exploring your fetishes at the hands of two experts in the BDSM arts, then email/phone Us at Iamyourfetish@gmail.com — 312-203-4535 or MissVictoriaCayne@gmail.com — 773-615-7598.

When contacting Us include the following:

• Interests
• Experience
• Availability (Oct 21-23 ONLY)
• Hard limits 

We are VERY selective who We play with so be respectful, courteous, and make yourself stand out when contacting Us. 

www.VictoriaCayne.com / www.IamyourFetish.com

The Sadista Headquarters are relocating this weekend. I am available for sessions as follows:

Friday, September 25th: 10AM until 7PM
Monday, September 28th: 10AM until 4PM
Tuesday, September 29th: 10AM until 6:30PM
Wednesday, September 30th: 10AM until 3PM

During the next week, 90 minutes is the shortest length I will be booking, unless I have seen you before. Those who know Me as a marathon sessioner know that is the best experience, 3HR+. Also, if I have seen you before, you will receive a discount if booked in the next 7 days. I will update this page with My availability next week.

Refer to My website for more information: www.Iamyourfetish.com

Do not forget the ClubFEM event on Saturday, October 3rd.

Come celebrate and play others who live and share your interest in the female dominant/male submissive dynamic. Chicago ClubFem is dedicated to upholding the ideals of Female Domme/Male sub D/s life or if ya just wanna come play with hot ladies and serve! Ladies ,this is an ideal setting to meet a submissive you might mesh with. Party begins at 9pm, ends promptly at 1am. RSVPs MUST be sent to chicagomistress@gmail.com by the day before the party at midnight. ALL RSVPS will receive a reply that day.

VESPERTINE: The Play Party for Women will be held on Sunday, May 24th over IML and Memorial Day weekend from 10PM—3AM.

You MUST RSVP with your legal name which matches your state issued ID, Date of Birth, and your valid e-mail. Address to Skyvespertinechgo@yahoo.com. party particulars sent upon RSVP. NO RSVP/NO ENTRY/NO EXCEPTIONS.

VESPERTINE CHICAGO is open to all women and transfolk 18 years of age or older. If you are a woman, or you identify as a woman and live your daily life as a woman or are a female-born transgender person who feels they have a connection with and love of the kinky/leather/fetish women’s community, YOU ARE WELCOME!!

VESPERTINE CHICAGO encourages education in the fine fetish arts and interactive, hands on role playing, safe and consensual scene play and a person’s right to explore new and exciting ways to express themselves in a sexual manner, safely.

Our event May 24th at The Studio will feature Demos by Daddy Sky, Dominatrix Alexandra Sadista (aka Candyxxx) and Miss Ammunition.

Bring your own toy bag.
$20 PER PERSON/ CASH ONLY
FETISH ATTIRE REQUIRED:
Leather/Latex/Uniform/PVC/Rubber/Goth/Lingerie/Suit and tie/Dress to impress!
NO JEANS, T-SHIRTS, SNEAKERS OR BALL CAPS

VESPERTINE CHICAGO RIGIDLY UPHOLDS MEMBER CONFIDENTIALITY. CLUB EVENTS ARE PRIVATE AND OPEN TO VETTED/QUALIFIED MEMBERS ONLY. NO CROSS DRESSING CIS GENDERED MEN ALLOWED.

I am so thirsty for the marvelous that only the marvelous has power over me. Anything I can not transform into something marvelous, I let go. Reality doesn’t impress me. I only believe in intoxication, in ecstasy, and when ordinary life shackles me, I escape, one way or another. 

~Anais Nin

~Divine Feet for Worship~
An exclusive event catering to those who adore everything about feet hosted by Alexandra Sadista.

Saturday, November 29th from 8PM until 1AM.

This is My last hoorah of birthday celebrations! It’s been a wonderful birthday month, and I am looking forward to the 29th, and lots of foot pampering! I hope to see many of you who attended the last Divine Feet for Worship.

This event features Ladies who enjoy having their feet pampered and worshipped, and enjoy trampling with bare feet, feet covered in silky stockings, or heels. The Ladies attending are not only Dominatrices, but also prominent role models in the Chicago burlesque community, career Ladies, girls next door, and more. This is not your typical dungeon foot fetish event!

Please be aware that the Lovely Ladies are to be compensated for the time you spend worshipping their delectable feet! The Ladies will be accepting foot fetish sessions per your polite request, at their discretion, throughout the evening. The rule is to keep it in the foot fetish realm – no nudity or sex. Foot worship, tickling, massages, trampling, and any wonderful activity revolving around and catering to foot fetishists is allowed.

Our guest performer is Miss Mea (pictured below). She will be performing two dances focusing on the art of the tease!

• Gentlemen are asked to donate $25 for admission. Women enter for free.
• Light drinks and snacks will be provided.
• Select areas of the Studio will be sectioned off to allow for more privacy.
• Evening attire is required. No jeans or T-shirts, no baseball caps allowed.
• Street Parking is available. Or, you may park in the back of The Studio (in the CTA lot) for $5. Do not park in the dirt lot directly behind the building, you WILL be towed.

If you are interested in attending or have any further questions, please e-mail Goddess Alexandra at IamyourFetish@gmail.com.

Feel free to email Me with additional questions.
We hope to see you there!

(Miss Mea is wearing a corset by Corsettiére in Chicago. Photo by Paul Natkin.)

Halloween is just a couple of days away, and shortly after My birthday celebrations will begin! Three years ago, on 11/11/11, it was spent on the beaches of Jamaica at Kink in the Caribbean with My loyal pet (RIP). This year, along with private celebrations with My devoted boys and kinksters, I will be spending time going to Blackhawks games, having a small soiree with My closest friends, and perhaps a couple nights of dancing. And, of course, opening gifts!

For you generous gents out there… I will mention the items at the VERY TOP of My WishList:
• $2000 for a birthday weekend in New Orleans (waived session fee will apply for NOLA residents, dungeon rental fee required)
• Southwest Airlines gift cards ($250+)
• Polymorphe gift card for $1000 – https://www.polymorphe.com/

Below are links to My wish lists. The list was created for the purpose of giving devotees and slaves examples of simple, or extravagant, ways to show this Goddess your admiration & devotion. And, because what Woman does not enjoy being spoiled and pampered!

• http://iamyourfetish.com/tributes.html
• http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/wishlist/ref=nav_youraccount_wl?ie=UTF8&requiresSignIn=1

Also worth mentioning is that I will be celebrating My birthday with the lovely Ladies of Vespertine at the Studio on Saturday, November 22nd (sorry boys, this event is Women only). On the following weekend, I will be celebrating My birthday (one last time) at the Divine Feet for Worship – foot fetish party, also at the Studio, on Saturday, November 29th. And, if you enjoy performance art and comedy, My troupe SS-Triple-X will be performing at the NoTell Motel at Debonair Social Club on Wednesday, November 19th. you may email Me for information on these events: IamyourFetish@gmail.com

Happy Birthday to My Scorpio friends and fiends!

Come get dirty with Eric Pride!

The Studio welcomes renowned educator, Eric Pride to our Windy City for one day only.
Sunday, November 16th

He will be presenting two delightfully wicked topics:

M/s Lifestyle and protocols 330pm-5pm
Protocols and Manners for Play and 24/7

The leather lifestyle has many unwritten rules and protocols. What are they? When are they in effect? How do you learn them?
Eric Pride’s lifestyle household, that he co-heads with Lady Christie, is well-known for their use of classical leather protocols. In this class he will not just talk about them, he will show many of them – from scene manners, formal protocols, to how they can be incorporated into play. In several hands-on demonstrations, he will show how they are used with new submissives and slaves, as well as how they can spice up your scenes.

Heavy Consensual SM 5-7pm
Sadomasochism (S&M) is about the pleasure and enjoyment of inflicting or receiving pain and humiliation. In this class we discuss the heavier aspects of consensual S&M and how to experience it safely, including:
• Safety for tops and bottoms
• Consent, limits, and boundaries
• Subspace and topspace
• Processing and enjoying pain
• The psychological side of S&M
This class contains a few shorter play scenes to illustrate the discussion.
Note: this class contains elements of adult language and intense consensual S&M. Please consider this carefully before attending.

More on Eric Pride can be discovered on his site :
htttp://www.ericpride.com

RSVP Must be sent to:
chicagomistress@gmail.com
RSVP required to attend. No walk-ins.