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Lock Down

And not the kind of lockdown that comes to mind… the kind you would much rather think about as well. Whether it means locked in a chastity device, and having your sex controlled by Me indefinitely, or locked in an overnight cage until I am ready to use you. Locked in a leather sleep sack and sensory deprivation hood, catheter in place, for an indefinite amount of time. Restrained in heavy bondage, on My bondage bed or leather sling, inescapably, the weight of the chains reminding you will not go anywhere, as I run My fingernails over your skin, over the leather, teasing your exposed flesh…

No, not the fun kind. Such a shame, as I was looking forward to playing after a long six weeks away.

As these days turn into weeks and inevitably months, I encourage you to take even better care of yourselves. Formulate a plan to stay active, eat well. Get some fresh air every now and then! Take the necessary precautions if you absolutely must go out to run errands. If you live in IL, we will be taking shelter-in-place as of tonight. Who knows how long this will last…

The good news is that you can begin or continue to be trained, controlled, and used by Me. I’ve really only offered certain submissives and loyal slaves these options over the years, especially out-of-towners. But seeing as our world has been flipped upside down and inside out, these options are available to ALL of you now…

This is the next best thing to seeing Me in the flesh. Tease & Denial, JOI mixed with Sadism, CEI (a personal fave!), Golden Showers, Mommy role play, POV worship (body, cock, fetish high heels and boots, leather and latex, gloves), and more. Tribute can be sent via CashApp at $alexsadista and sessions must be scheduled in advance.
AVAILABILITY: Weekends from noon until midnight and weekdays after 7PM.

Text domination- task assignments – chastity control. you may be required to send pics of your locked up cock, ass in panties, mouth filled with your own cum. Get naked, assume the proper position, and confess your deepest desires!
LINK: https://www.sextpanther.com/Alexandra-Sadista
AVAILABILITY: Check My Twitter feed for availability. If you wish to chat at a specific time, simply send a request via email with the day and time: Iamyourfetish@gmail.com

Let’s stay healthy, let’s stay connected. I know you need it.
~Goddess, slave-owner and slave-trainer, Sadist Alexandra Sadista

I’ve a bit of upcoming travel from now until the end of March. When in Chicago, I am available every day of the week. My travel dates and availability as of Friday, January 17th is as follows:

Sunday, 1/26: FemDom Event, unavailable
Monday, 1/27*
Tuesday, 1/28 after 9PM
Thursday, 1/30*
January 31 until February 2 in Detroit – FULLY BOOKED!
Monday, 2/3 after 9:30PM
Tuesday, 2/4 after 9PM
Wednesday, 2/5*
February 7 until 12 in Miami
February 12 until March 16 in South America

*preferably after 7PM but daytime available with 48+ hours notice
I will update this as My schedule changes.

Next weekend is My FemDom Event, the second one of its kind. I will soon post about the nature of the party, and how you may apply to be considered. For now, know that I am only considering submissives who have played with the Dominas that are attending, or have IMPECCABLE references.

In two weeks I will be arriving in Detroit for a weekend with My devoted boys. I am particularly excited about reconnecting with a toilet I have not fed in years who is as nasty as they come! he reminds Me of the toilets I have played with in the South… they get durrrrrty! Anyway, the following weekend, I leave for Miami for five days, staying a block away from the beach and the Atlantic Ocean. I’ve only made time for a hot play date with one of My favorites, otherwise I will be spending time relaxing and soaking up the warmth and sun that My body desperately needs. Following that, I will be traveling to South America for almost a month. Why so long? Well, it’s a fact I have a very hard time with bitterly cold winters. The only way to get through it will be to take annual trips to warmer climates. Since I have family in South America, I will be traveling there once a year when winter is at its peak.

Per usual, I will always announce My travel dates with ample notice and have them posted on My website as well. Houston and Detroit will stay in regular rotation, and I will possibly add one more city to the mix. The goal is to travel one weekend per month in 2020.

There you have it. Plan accordingly!

Sessions are being booked for the evening of Friday, January 31st until Sunday, February 2nd (check out is flexible, could extend until 4PM).  I will once again be staying in the Royal Oak area. I always book My appointments in advance and am usually booked solid before My arrival. In order to book an appointment, read the information I have provided for you on this website. Be prepared to state your interests and areas of BDSM you wish to explore, and your hard limits. Fill out the application form, and we shall discuss! www.Iamyourfetish.com/contact

See you in a month, Detroit!

Recently I organized a party for My friends and I, and it went very well. sissy-slut tammy and My personal devoted toilet bitch and property were invited to serve and entertain Me and three of My gorgeous friends; Mistress Ammunition/Ammo, Mistress Katrina, and Lady Mynx. My bitch was to serve as the party toilet for all the Women, and sissy tammy was to provide the holes My friends and I would fill.

When My toilet arrived, he greeted each one of Us individually with a kiss to Our boots, then recited a mantra he had specifically written for each. After the brief introduction, he was instructed to get into position in the area I had set up for him on the south end of the Dungeon with a toilet box behind a partition for discretion. We each were ready to put him to use. During the half hour that followed, We each took turns giving him plenty to eat and drink.

After We all used the party toilet, tammy arrived. she was immediately taken into the crossdressing closet on the north end of the Dungeon, and properly dressed and prepped by My cohorts.

In the meantime, I tended to My toilet bitch who had quite the meal to consume sitting in front of him. I took My time chatting and spoon-feeding him Our caviar as I drank My coffee and ate a blueberry muffin (yes, I am that unphased by scat play haha!) until I was ready to join the others. Party toilet was instructed to continue to eat while We were in the other room with Our slut.

sissy tammy was given the task of writing a synopsis of her experience:

What more could a sissy slut ask for??!!  Strap-on Sunday funday sounded like fun!  Upon arriving, i was greeted by Goddess Alexandra and her friends Miss Ammunition, Katrina Black and Lady Mynx. Goddess Alexandra does with me as She pleases, but i was so honored She had mentioned me to Her friends and honored that They wanted a piece of me as well.  🙂  The Ladies walked me back to the dress up area and Goddess Alexandra ordered me to strip naked. She then left me with Her friends as She tended to some other business. Goddess’s friends then debated how They wanted to dress me and the consensus was a trashy slut whose endgame was an ultimate walk of shame.  Their mission was a huge success!  They put me in a sequined dress, sparkly makeup, boobs popping out, fishnet stockings, the works.  About that time, Goddess Alexandra came back and admired the work of the Ladies.  Goddess touched up my lip gloss and helped me select some heels.  i crammed my feet into heels that were likely a size too small, but it did not matter… i would not be walking much, as Goddess pointed out.  Goddess then paraded me into the room with the other ladies.  i stumbled in my heels as the ladies prepared for the “second act”. Miss Ammo was anxious and already had a 7” strapon on. She put one foot up on the spanking bench to which i was being led and gyrated her hips to make her cock flop up and down.  So excited i was, knowing that Goddess had told of my ability to take cock that Her friends wanted to test me out.  Goddess led me to the spanking bench and strapped down my wrists and ankles. At that point,  i would not be able to leave even if i wanted (i would never resist Goddess). Miss Ammo then began to insert her huge cock in my mouth, meanwhile Mistress Katrina started to play with my pussy.  Miss Ammo pushed me to deep throat the whole thing.  When She saw how well i took it, She grabbed my head and forced me to gag on her huge cock. When i gagged, Mistress Katrina squealed with delight as she could feel my back end clench around her fingers.  Once Mistress Katrina had me loosened up, Goddess Alexandra mounted me and led off taking me from behind.  There is something so comforting about Goddess plowing me from behind.  i know She knows my limits but will also push me.  W(w)e really have a wonderful bond.  As Goddess Alexandra started to pump me, i became more relaxed… knowing what lay ahead for me. i did not want to let Goddess down.  Clearly Her friends had shown up expecting a slut that could take a pounding, and i didn’t want to disappoint.  Goddess proceeded to pound me and warm me up as Miss Ammo pumped my mouth full of cock.  All sorts of laughter and lewd comments ensued from the Ladies— how fun to be the center of their attention! From there it was a sweet rotation of beautiful women filling me from both ends. Once Goddess Alexandra had Her fill, Miss Ammo rotated to the back and Mistress Katrina got in front of me.  Miss Ammo had questioned whether i could take Her big cock. It was a challenge at first, but very much worth it.  She fucked me so hard and deep that i was on the verge of cumming multiple times.  i did not want to embarrass Goddess so I fought the urge off with every ounce of restraint. Miss Ammo is incredibly aggressive and bangs with a passion. Several times the spanking bench lifted into the air she was hammering me with such force— what a delight! Next up was Mistress Katrina and she takes the term drilling to another level.  A jackhammer comes to mind when thinking of the experience.  As she drilled me from behind, lady Mynx got in front of me and started force-feeding me her dick. She really enjoyed me deep-throating as my head kept hitting her pelvis with each thrust from Mistress Katrina.  This was sissy slut heaven— but it wasn’t quite over yet. Lady Mynx of course wanted her turn and was not to be outdone by the others. She gave me several minutes of hard pounding and as she was a little taller than the others, able to penetrate me at slightly different angles.  As She was going to town, the other three circled in front of me and wagered whether They could all fit their cocks in my mouth. All three briefly did it! As great as that was, my time was winding down and it was time to conclude the session. The Ladies all helped me to undress and told me to get on my knees once again. Goddess was unsure if She should let me release, but luckily the other three wonderful Ladies voted to allow me to cum. As I kneeled, there was difficulty getting erect. As the Ladies all still had their strap one i leaned forward and began to suck Goddess dildo once again. That immediately gave me an erection as she joked, “well, did you even ask??” I soon came and caught the load in my off hand. Thinking that was the end, i asked for something to clean up with. Goddess shook her head and told me to put some on her cock and clean it up. i did as told and the other Ladies liked the idea… so i had to lick my own cum off each one of their cocks. Such devious minds on these Ladies! With all that said, i had a wonderful afternoon with Goddess and her friends— and i cannot wait until our next encounter!

I need not say more about what went on with sissy slut tammy, but I do need to mention that when I went to check in on My party toilet, he had finished eating EVERYTHING on his plate. This highly pleased Me, and further reassured that My training over the years had really paid off. Of course, his the task was not complete until he licked clean the glass plate and spoon he used to dine on Our exquisite treats!

As My property, My toilet bitch has learned how I like to be pampered and has become somewhat adept at massages. After I instructed him to spend some time at Our feet, he presented Us with four different oils to choose from before massaging the eight feet in front of him.

My devoted toilet bitch did very well. So well, up until the very end when he decided to release without explicit permission after being granted a release! Note to subs, the purpose of asking for permission to cum is defeated if you ask AS you are orgasming! Well, not only did he earn a release, he also earned multiple, hard cane strokes to each inner thigh by each one of Us leaving him with physical reminders of his poorly timed release.

The afternoon was an absolute blast. I decided that it was too much fun for it to be a one-off event. I am currently planning the second rendezvous in January, and already have a masochist and a couple sluts in mind.

As a side note, these two participants were not randomly chosen. they were both selected by Me to entertain Us because I knew they will do their absolute best to serve properly. I knew they wouldn’t be difficult, clumsy, or be easily distracted from their purpose despite being dominated by four Women. My devoted toilet bitch has been in loyal service to Me for almost eight years. he is My property, marked and sex controlled by Me. he is not “a lucky guy” for being allowed to participate. he has worked very hard, followed My orders, been disciplined, generous, and committed to his role and sole purpose in My life of being My toilet bitch. And while sissy tammy is not My personal slave, she has shown a deep desire to please and entertain over the years. she is what every sissy should be; respectful, eager, humble, with a sense of humor, and she walks the talk (meaning she can actually take it like a good little bitch slut).

My devoted toilet bitch’s synopsis coming soon, as well as pics from the event.

OH, and happy holidays to all from this happy Pervert!

I am returning to Houston and have limited time available on all three days to see new clients in the East Downtown area. I absolutely love playing at the very well equipped Vault belonging to friend and colleague Domina Shannon. As always, I will bring My preferred toys such as extensive estim collection, whips and floggers, and favorite implements for CBT and NT. Medical fetish or heavy rubber bondage sessions MUST be booked before I arrive in Houston.

Available times include:
Friday after 7PM
Saturday after 6PM
Sunday between 10AM and noon, 5PM and 7PM

Be sure to read My website before filling out the application: www.IamyourFetish.com
Deposits made easily and anonymously are required.

I always love visiting My hometown, and have enjoyed getting to know the people I regularly play with. For those seeking ongoing training, I will be visiting 4 to 5 times in 2020.

See you soon, H-Town boys.

Current Obsession

Delicious Electro Torture. Electrode pads, and watching muscles twitch. Using butt plugs in interrogation scenes. Manipulating the effect of electrical currents as the urethral sound slides in and out quickly, then very slowly. Watching the anal probe penetrate with deliberate thrusts, turning it up, watching it move faster. Crushing your scrotum between two conductive plates, and just when the pressure becomes too much, sending shocks through your flattened balls to distract you. Let’s just call it what it is, My obsession.

It began in 1996 when a Dominatrix used a violet wand on Me during My first visit to a Dungeon. Anticipating the shock as She introduced Me to these brand new sensations was exhilarating. I was fascinated with how it felt on My skin. I was just beginning to explore several areas of lighter BDSM play, so it would be many years before I would be exposed to electrical play on a whole other level – tens units, power boxes, various attachments and insertables of all kinds. Fast forward to now, I cannot get My hands on enough toys!

So which toys have I procured in the last few years to feed My obsession?

One of My personal favorites is the electro ball crusher with electrical strips on the bottom AND top plate. This device allows for heavy duty cbt as it leaves the cock available for urethral penetration, stimulation to the glans and shaft, and/or estim clamps all while the balls are being crushed (for My pleasure) with intense currents flowing from all directions.

Ball crusher and cock cap at work.

Another popular device that gets a lot of requests is the depth charge butt probe. On the right setting, it causes you to feel as if you are being penetrated as it causes thrusting sensations while stimulating you electrically, directly on your prostate.

Vulnerably bound and anally probed.
Depth Charge Butt Probe
Depth Charge Anal Probe

The items below were also purchased and (most) have been enjoyed thoroughly in the last several years:

• ElectraStim Electro Urethra Sound
• ErosTek Cock Cap
• MyStim EStim Vibrator (see pic)
• ElectraStim Electro Sex Stroker / Jack Socket (see pic)
• ElectraStim Exreme Electro Butt Plug (see pic)
• ElectraStim Silicone Noir Sirius Electro Prostate Massager
• EStim Systems Torpedo Butt Plug Small (Length: 5.1″ x Diameter: 1.5″)
• MyStim Electro Cock Cage 2.0 with Urethral Sound (see pic)
• Various Nipple/CBT clamps, parachutes, electrodes of several shapes and sizes

I am in process of researching new toys to add to My collection and have a couple of urethral toys in sight. I admit I have a tendency to go big when it comes to My toys rather than purchasing the one-size-fits-all toys. Do you have a favorite estim toy? Email Me at Iamyourfetish@gmail.com if you own one you absolutely love or have experienced that has blown your mind (or wad). I would like to hear from you, electro-sluts!

Electric Butt Plug
Extreme Butt Plug
Electro Stroker
Sex Stroker
E-Stim Vibe
EStim Vibe
Electro Cock Cage w/Sound

Montreal Fetish Weekend

Oh, Montreal, what a joy to cavort about your streets donning Our slippery latex ensembles, putting our fetishes on display for the people on the streets to admire, and with four other Chicagoans in tow… MFW, you did not disappoint!

The weekend was a whirlwind and was over before we knew it, yet each and every moment was savored. We arrived late on Thursday night just in time to crawl into bed in order to be well rested for the remainder of the weekend. I left my hotel-mates in bed on Friday morning to shoot videos with a local submissive with a penchant for gloves, particularly leather. We shot a few scenes involving CBT, light bondage, and of course glove worship. I may have been too much for him to handle, as his request for the last clip was for it to be tickling.

Anyway, I returned to the host hotel just in time to attend Vicky Devika’s Breath Play class. I always find there is something to learn when I attend a class regardless of the knowledge and experience I’ve acquired during My years in professional domination. In recent months I have been enthralled with free divers, their training methods, and the capabilities of the human body when placed in certain situations such as lack of oxygen for an extended period of time. As it turns out, Vicky is a trained free diver. She incorporated the knowledge she gained from her diving experiences into exploring her fetish of (what some may consider extreme) erotic asphyxiation. Her class was very informative, and her demonstrations left several of us hot and bothered — I mean, a very attractive being in a latex catsuit with head in plastic bag and later gas mask, cutting off their own oxygen, lots of heavy breathing…. OOOF.

Later we ventured out to one of the events knowing I would be calling it an early night. I had a long run planned for the next day as part of My marathon training. I was not able to run the distance I hoped to, but I did manage an 11.5 mile/18.5 km run through Old Montreal, over to Mount Royal and through the Notre Dame des Neiges cemeteries, downtown and then back to Old Montreal. After some rest, we geared up for the evening’s festivities which included dinner with four other latex-clad kinksters in what seemed like a touristy area. It really is a very (kink) friendly city. We turned lots of heads however no one was rude or inappropriate, much to My pleasant surprise. We then headed to the weekend’s largest event, the LateXtacy Ball. Oh My, what rubber-y goodness! Latex clad beauties wherever in sight, some pretty hot SM performances, lots of visual stimulation to take in. My cohorts and I did a fair share of gawking and mingling before piling into the back of a school bus that took us back to our hotel.

The next day we crammed in a visit the Museum of Fine Arts for the GORGEOUS Thierry Mugler exhibit, shopping at a Polymorphe pop-up store, then the Fetish Walk. The Fetish Walk may have been My favorite part of the trip! Over a hundred people in fetish gear, mostly latex, made a spectacle as we took the train together, walked through touristy areas, played in a water fountain, and then returned to our hotel on the same train. Of course we stopped to take pictures at every location! To be out and about in gorgeous, latex regalia and to be found fascinating by both locals and tourists alike, pleasantly welcomed in every area we went to, was a very unique experience.

I am pretty sure we will be returning next year. Who can say no to a weekend with My Chicago cohorts and friendly kinksters from around the world in a beautiful, welcoming city like Montreal?

eXplicit Play Party

You’ve been longing for a play party of this nature. After all, it’s been years since Chicago has offered kinksters and hedonists the opportunity to socialize, learn, and play among each other in an elegant BDSM Dungeon. This is your opportunity. We hope you will join us for our first ever eXplicit Play Party.

The eXplicit Party is on Saturday, September 7th from 9PM-2AM at the Studio. Our evening will feature BDSM and Fetish Demonstrations by Dominatrix Alexandra Sadista, Miss Ammunition, and Queerella Fistalot.

Play is encouraged! BYOT [please bring your own toys]. The Studio is well equipped with a variety of furniture conducive to a variety of BDSM scenarios including a St. Andrew’s Cross, a large bondage bed, a mummification/bondage table, a medical exam/gynecological table, a bondage wall, a wooden rack for suspension, multiple spanking benches, a metal standing cell, and more.

Complimentary Hors D’euvres and light beverages will be served. 

An RSVP is required from each individual attending in order to be added to the list, and to receive the pertinent information including door donation and rules for the event:

All proceeds from this event will be donated to the AIDS Foundation of Chicago. If you cannot attend and would like to make a donation, go to: http://events.aidschicago.org/goto/runlikehellchicago

UPDATE: Available time slots remaining include Friday the 9th from 7PM til 2AM, Saturday the 10th from 7PM til midnight, and Sunday the 11th from 4-6PM

I am booking appointments now for My upcoming trip at Domina Shannon’s very well equipped Dungeon in East Downtown. I am booking appointments for one-on-one BDSM / fetish sessions, D/s dinner outing and public play (Dungeon time required prior to outing), shopping. Tribute applies for all interactions with exception of shopping. Fill out the form to apply for a session: www.IamyourFetish.com/contact

Medical scenes and fetishes requiring specific toys, wardrobe requests, and FTT appointments must be made in advance and secured with a deposit. I will only consider wardrobe requests that include latex, leather, lingerie, and fetish boots specifically seen in My photos.

Be on your best behavior when contacting Me. Do make sure you include all the information requested when filling out My form. Deposits required to confirm our time. It is more efficient for you to provide your exact availability rather than ask for Mine. If you are providing verifiable references, be sure to inform the Pro-Domina so She knows She will be contacted. Include pertinent information such as Her website URL or link to Her ad, phone, email, date of session, memorable details.

See you very soon, Houston slaves and fetishists!

Fantasy Made Flesh

Our meeting left him a bit speechless and in shock. My boy found himself in a similar predicament for a third time, and the fantasy he dreamt about for decades was REALLY about to happen. I showed My boy a photo of the young, supple male adorned with a cock ring who would soon arrive. The eager participant arrived, and I immediately arranged their bodies so My boy could take the forbidden fruit into his hands and guide it into his mouth. The scene continued, and bodies were repositioned, groans filling the air. It was a wonderfully orchestrated, perverse scenario I will soon not forget.

On his way out, I instructed My boy to orgasm by masturbation when he returned home. No instruction was needed as he knows how I prefer he dispose of the mess.

“How did it taste this time?” I asked.

“Not much taste. And i was surprised it was not gooey but watery.  i fantasized Your Voice calling me a cock slut, whore, and filthy. I reimagined lightly stroking his thighs and Your hand on the back of my head.  i returned to the sensation of You taking off my blind fold to force me to come to grips with what i was doing.  And i came feeling the table top against my cheek, the weight pinning me down, and the violation.  You are VERY good at what You do Master.  Thank You.”