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My Birthday is on November 11th

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Halloween is just a couple of days away, and shortly after My birthday celebrations will begin! Three years ago, on 11/11/11, it was spent on the beaches of Jamaica at Kink in the Caribbean with My loyal pet (RIP). This year, along with private celebrations with My devoted boys and kinksters, I will be spending time going to Blackhawks games, having a small soiree with My closest friends, and perhaps a couple nights of dancing. And, of course, opening gifts!

For you generous gents out there… I will mention the items at the VERY TOP of My WishList:
• $2000 for a birthday weekend in New Orleans (waived session fee will apply for NOLA residents, dungeon rental fee required)
• Southwest Airlines gift cards ($250+)
• Polymorphe gift card for $1000 – https://www.polymorphe.com/

Below are links to My wish lists. The list was created for the purpose of giving devotees and slaves examples of simple, or extravagant, ways to show this Goddess your admiration & devotion. And, because what Woman does not enjoy being spoiled and pampered!

http://iamyourfetish.com/tributes.html
http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/wishlist/ref=nav_youraccount_wl?ie=UTF8&requiresSignIn=1

Also worth mentioning is that I will be celebrating My birthday with the lovely Ladies of Vespertine at the Studio on Saturday, November 22nd (sorry boys, this event is Women only). On the following weekend, I will be celebrating My birthday (one last time) at the Divine Feet for Worship – foot fetish party, also at the Studio, on Saturday, November 29th. And, if you enjoy performance art and comedy, My troupe SS-Triple-X will be performing at the NoTell Motel at Debonair Social Club on Wednesday, November 19th. you may email Me for information on these events: IamyourFetish@gmail.com

Happy Birthday to My Scorpio friends and fiends!

Renowned Educator Eric Pride comes to The Studio – 11/16

Come get dirty with Eric Pride!

The Studio welcomes renowned educator, Eric Pride to our Windy City for one day only.
Sunday, November 16th

He will be presenting two delightfully wicked topics:

M/s Lifestyle and protocols 330pm-5pm
Protocols and Manners for Play and 24/7

The leather lifestyle has many unwritten rules and protocols. What are they? When are they in effect? How do you learn them?
Eric Pride’s lifestyle household, that he co-heads with Lady Christie, is well-known for their use of classical leather protocols. In this class he will not just talk about them, he will show many of them – from scene manners, formal protocols, to how they can be incorporated into play. In several hands-on demonstrations, he will show how they are used with new submissives and slaves, as well as how they can spice up your scenes.

Heavy Consensual SM 5-7pm
Sadomasochism (S&M) is about the pleasure and enjoyment of inflicting or receiving pain and humiliation. In this class we discuss the heavier aspects of consensual S&M and how to experience it safely, including:
• Safety for tops and bottoms
• Consent, limits, and boundaries
• Subspace and topspace
• Processing and enjoying pain
• The psychological side of S&M
This class contains a few shorter play scenes to illustrate the discussion.
Note: this class contains elements of adult language and intense consensual S&M. Please consider this carefully before attending.

More on Eric Pride can be discovered on his site :
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RSVP Must be sent to:
chicagomistress@gmail.com
RSVP required to attend. No walk-ins.

Divine Feet For Worship

Divine Feet for Worship
An event catering to those who adore everything about feet.
Friday, September 26th at the Studio.
This event is hosted by Ladies who enjoy having their feet pampered and worshipped, and enjoy trampling with bare feet, feet covered in silky stockings, or heels. The Ladies attending are not only Dominatrices, but also prominent role models in the Chicago burlesque community, career Ladies, girls next door, and more. This is not your typical dungeon foot fetish event.
Miss Ammunition is our featured burlesque dancer, and will be performing twice for your viewing pleasure. She has been perfecting the art of the tease for over five years, and is a former Professional Dominatrix.
• Light drinks and snacks will be provided.
• Select areas of the Studio will be sectioned off to allow for more privacy.
• Street Parking is available. Or, you may park just West of The Studio (in the CTA lot) for $5.
• Dress code: Evening attire is required. No jeans or T-shirts, no baseball caps allowed.
If you are interested in attending or have any further questions, please e-mail Goddess Alexandra at IamyourFetish@gmail.com. RSVPs must be received by 3PM on Friday, September 26th in order to attend.
**THOSE WHO ARE ATTENDING PLEASE TAKE NOTE**

Do NOT park behind the building, the dirt lot. You will be towed (I found out the hard way that it is a private lot now)! Park in the paved CTA lot which is directly across the street from the Orange Line Station at Archer and Halsted.

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Sessions available with Ms Sophia Asphyxia through the end of October

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SPECIAL ANNOUNCEMENT:

Ms Sophia Asphyxia is giving you the rare opportunity to serve Her during Her third trimester or Her pregnancy. That’s right, Sophia is glowing with a bun in the over, and is accepting inquiries for sessions including, but not limited to, the following activities:

• Bare handed spankings
• Corporal punishment and discipline
• Tease and Denial
• Golden showers
• Smothering (with protective barrier)
• Foot worship
• Trampling
• Body worship
• Age play
• Shaving scenes: I will elaborate on the shaving scene and stress the fact that this is a once in a lifetime chance to serve Sophia by devoting your gentle touch to making Her life easier during these last couple of months. Sophia will be allowing a small number of carefully selected clients to shave Her. you must have experience with either shaving your own private area or the private area of another.

Sophia and I are also offering Double Domme sessions at a discounted tribute (email for info) at the fully equipped Studio. Keep in mind that if you do not have any experience with shaving, this would be the perfect opportunity to have Me as your teacher, so to perform the task without any mishaps. AB and age regression scenes are recommended between the two of Us, as well as the activities listed above and those on My website, with exception of heavy medical scenes.

 

you may email Me at Iamyourfetish@gmail.com to book an appointment. Verifiable references and/or a deposit will be required.

If you are smart and know an amazing opportunity when you see one, you will not waste any time and book your time with Sophia Asphyxia for a solo or double Domme session.

Visiting San Francisco 9/18 — 9/22

NEWS/TRAVEL UPDATE:
San Francisco: Friday, September 19th — Monday, September 22nd (FOLSOM)

I am visiting San Francisco and taking appointments for the first time ever in California. Below are the only days/times you may book your time with Me. Send a polite introduction via email. Include your name, a description of your fantasy/scene, the activities you enjoy that correlate with Mine, and any additional, pertinent information. you will be required to submit a deposit to reserve your appointment.

Friday, September 19th — Saturday, September 20th — Monday, September 22nd

My website: www.IamyourFetish.com
Contact info: IamyourFetish@gmail.com

Queerella Fistalot will be joining Me, and We are offering double Domme sessions for a very low tribute. Why? Because We want to give you the opportunity to suffer for Us. Below is a photo of Queerella.

All emails are welcome. I would love to connect with people in the area, but time will more than likely not allow. My schedule is filling up quickly, with Friday, Saturday, and part of Monday reserved for play with new clients. The Armory of kink(dot)com fame is on the list of places to visit, and possibly one of the events held in conjunction with BondCon. Of course, Sunday is reserved for kinky fun and debauchery at the Folsom Street Fair with My cohorts from Chicago, and the sea of pervs that will be attending.

Additional information regarding  where I will be conducting My sessions will be added momentarily.

~Alexandra the Sadist

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A Good Time Was Had By A/all.

Articulation is sexy. As is devotion displayed through suffering.
Written by My banana-cabana-boy:

Dearest Mistress Alexandra,

   Have you ever had a review where Your sub writes, “i can’t describe how unbelievable my session was” or, “i can’t begin to express how mindblowing it was”? Well get a vocabulary and an imagination bud, because your Mistress deserves an articulate and sincere account of Her time spent with you.

   Here’s mine.

   Right up front, i am honored to have been Your choice to fulfill a personal perversity and happy i was up to the physical challenges.  You seemed very proud and pleased in making me Your “Vase (pronounce “vaaz”) ala Sphincter”. i truly appreciate the thought and time You spent on this. Your humiliations are eeevilly and gleefully played out and i pray to be useful in more of Your cruel and beauteous visions.

     You’ll be happy to know all of Your lovely marks are blooming quite nicely and making me wince at every seating. my birthday was several weeks ago and i consider myself fully spanked and caned in celebration thereof.

   Wow, You sure enjoyed filling me up to my limit with that enema.  The nozzle being inserted, and my bowels and intestines expanding and bloating while You look upon my increasing discomfort is a humiliation i am happy to endure as i see You smile at my helplessness. i’m now dreaming of that milk and molasses enema that was mentioned.

   No matter what is said “in role” piss is PISS. It tastes like piss and that’s undeniable. And You had me drink Yours; the waste that Your body no longer had any use for. Except to feed to me. And i drank it eagerly and obediently.

   As You can tell, and i expressed this before W/we parted, my love of O/our time together Wednesday could not have been more optimally shocking, unexpected and desirable. Certainly, being a man, i have perused other Mistresses web-sites. This having been O/our third session i can definitively say You are a Domme of a singular variety. You define You and all others are riding coach.

   YOU are it!!

   Looking forward to future playtimes with more devilish fun.

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A portrait of a toilet bitch.

WARNING: NSFY!
(not safe for you – if you are faint of heart, weak in the knees, or have a fragile stomach. Brown shower talk ahead, enter at your own risk!)

MY DEVOTED TOILET BITCH

When My toilet-bitch and I met for the first time in May of 2012, I certainly did not anticipate he would earn a place in My stable. he came to Me for guidance, committed to serving Me to his best abilities, willing to face the many challenges this type of service involves. There have been moments of near-success and some of not-so-near, moments when punishment was a necessary action, and rewards were rightfully earned. Through it all, I always knew in his heart he wanted nothing more than to be the best toilet that he can be.

My most memorable training session to date was when he suggested a scenario that was a long time fantasy of Mine. he suggested he be My toilet, in My home (as he has been allowed in many times due to the nature of the scene). he wanted to be placed in a spot I designated for him, in a box that did not allow him to see much. he would be in this position for 5-6 hours, and would be used whenever nature called. This was a scene I read about happening mostly in commercial Dungeons, and I found the idea to be highly arousing. We began the scene, and without going into too much detail, it had to be cut short.

Moving on to our most recent, successful meeting with My T-Bitch… Once again, he suggested a scenario I fantasized about enacting ever since My first experience, during which My boy would consume a mixture that would provide for him to eat, to be served in a bowl. When it was time for the scene, My TB was inspired to bring a plate and utensils to consume everything as, literally, a full meal on a plate. My preparations went perfectly according to plan, and he was indeed served one of the largest meals in our history together. Much to My surprise, he pleased Me by not only finishing every bit, but also licking his utensils clean… Down to every last drop! he was rewarded with a couple of activities where he finds a great deal of pleasure, and I too, knowing the rewards well very well earned. A job very well done, toilet-bitch!

One of the most enjoyable aspects of our play is how inspired he is with every challenge, overzealous at times, but always wanting to out do himself. he is as devoted as I am pleased to push his boundaries and have him serve Me in this fashion. With so many wonderful experiences with him, I look forward to how we can continue to out do each of our training sessions. I’ve a few ideas….

IN HIS WORDS:

i have served my incredible and beautiful Goddess, Mistress Alexandra Sadista, for a couple years.  During that time, She has guided my training as Her toilet.  Our mutual goal has been for me to become Her fully consuming toilet, taking in all Her divine wastes. As she puts it, “you are My toilet to use as I see fit.”  She is my Goddess and it is my ultimate way of worshiping Her, showing my complete submission and devotion to Her.  i have had my successes and failures.    She has sternly pushed me to become a better toilet for Her.

Prior to my most recent service, She firmly advised me that i would receive “a generous, proper feeding.”  She instructed me “Be prepared!  I will have a full meal ready for you, My toilet, and you must clean your plate otherwise you cannot leave the table.  Every little morsel.  I won’t take no for an answer!”   i agreed to bring a plate, knife and fork to help me with my task.  With great nervousness but also great determination to achieve my goal and please my Goddess, i arrived at Her door.

When She opened the door, She was amazingly beautiful as always, luxurious dark hair, flawless olive toned skin and a wicked smile.  i knelt down and kissed each of Her boots. As i met Her stern gaze, She asked “Are you ready today, My toilet?  Are you hungry for a full meal?”  i mumbled “Yes, Mistress,” trying to sound confident.  She replied,  “Good,  you better be! Don’t disappoint Me, toilet!”. She then proceeded to tie up my cock and balls and commanded me to put on a diaper.  Next, She sat down, instructed me to lie over Her lap and pulled down my diaper and gave me many hard spankings, each one stinging smartly and each one harder than the other.   She warned me, “Remember, there will be much harder spankings if you do not clean your plate today!  I might have to use a harsher implement as well!”  i mumbled “Yes, Mistress,” knowing She was serious.  When She was satisfied with the redness of my bottom, She announced,  “It is time for your meal, toilet! I am ready to use you.  Assume your proper toilet position!”.  She then slipped off Her underwear and sat above me on Her toilet throne.  Entranced, i gazed admiringly up at Her feminine flower and Her beautiful rosebud framed by a perfectly shaped muscular derriere, aware that i would soon be receiving my fresh drink and meal directly from my Goddess.  i waited with nervous anticipation.  She then commanded “Open your mouth, toilet, I am ready to give you My golden!”  i obeyed and my mouth was filled to the brim with heavy streams of Her delicious golden piss.  She commanded “Keep your mouth open and drink every drop, toilet!” as i gulped vigorously.  She fully emptied Her bladder into my toilet mouth, then told me to “ keep your mouth wide open, toilet!”  i was mesmerized by the glorious sight of Her beautiful rosebud puckering and Her brown slowly emerging.  As She had warned me, several firm brown caviar logs came out of Her one by one and landed in my mouth.  But they were too big to swallow and fell to the side.  She stood up, looked down and saw that they were beside me.  She mischievously smiled while observing, “That is quite a large load! you have a big meal today, toilet!”  She then ordered me to sit up.  She handed me the plate, knife and fork i had brought with me that day.  She placed all Her brown logs on the plat,  handed me the knife and fork, then sat down in front of me and looked directly into my eyes to remind me of my task.  “It’s time to for you to eat, toilet.  Now be a good toilet and clean your plate.  Every morsel.  If you do not completely clean your plate, you will be severely punished!”  i gradually ate my meal, piece by piece, chewing and swallowing every bite.  Each piece was still warm and fresh, firm but still moist and chewy.  The taste was strong and bitter but also delicious since it was Her divine waste.   As i did so, She looked into my eyes and firmly encouraged me with Her words. i eventually finished all the logs, a full load.  She smiled and said “Wonderful, toilet! But, you’re not quite done yet. Here, let Me help you.”  She drooled a large serving of spit onto the plate and mixed it with Her remaining brown.   She then said, “There you go.  Now finish cleaning your plate, toilet. Eat every little bit.  I want the plate spotless.”  As She ordered, i licked it completely clean and spotless to Her satisfaction.  Still not satisfied, She inspected the knife and fork, noticed some of Her brown still clinging to them and commented, “Oh, these aren’t quite clean yet toilet!  Lick them clean too!”   Soon, i had licked these spotless too.  She inspected the utensils, flashed Her wicked smile again, patted me on the head and said “Good job, toilet!”   She then gave me a chance to clean off in the shower. 

When i emerged again, She told me it was time for my reward.  She inserted a butt plug in my ass.  Then, She lay down and gave me the honor of massaging Her gorgeous feet and legs.   Her long lithe legs and petite feet are as perfectly shaped as Her Goddess bottom and it was a delight to serve Her in this way.  i was also rewarded with the sight of Her amazingly beautiful derriere as i massaged Her.  When i had completed this task, She advised me that She felt like She might have dessert for me!  i was so full from the earlier meal i had to reluctantly and graciously decline.  She was disappointed but realized i might back up if i ate more.  She used my ass some more and then had one final task for me, announcing “you will have dessert anyway, My toilet!”   She commanded me to assume a position on all fours and to masturbate.  As i did so, She placed the plate underneath me and commanded me “Come on the plate!  Don’t miss!”  When i was done, She told me to sit down once again, handed me the plate and instructed me, “Lick up every drop, I want the plate clean and spotless again.”  As She watched, i obediently did so.  She inspected the plate and announced “Perfect!  Every last drop!”   i was then allowed to dress and present myself to Her once again.  She asked me “How do you feel, toilet?”  i told Her i felt full and also happy after fulfilling my purpose as Her toilet.   With a satisfied smirk, She said, ” you should feel full! you served Me well and did an excellent job today, My toilet, consuming every drop and morsel of My gifts, not letting anything go to waste, your best job yet.  I am very pleased.  Now you may go.”  Before departing, i knelt and kissed Her boots again while She gave me another gentle pat on the head.  As i left, i felt deep satisfaction knowing that i had pleased my Goddess by fulfilling my sole purpose in life as Her toilet, Her shit and piss receptacle, Her “shit and piss pig.” i felt content knowing that the shit and piss of my Goddess were deep inside me, Her toilet.

Watersports VS Water Sports

Hello, Chicago, I am back (and still recovering from mild jet lag). My vacation could not have been lovelier, and it was the perfect length of time under the Caribbean sun, moon, and hundreds of visible stars. I returned with a deep tan, lots of sand in My suitcase, and enough memories to last Me through next winter. This was a much anticipated trip as it was a true vacation during which anything resembling work did not occur. Hooray for suitcases that do not exceed the weight limit due to leather, latex, and toys!

The only mention of anything that instantly made Me think dirty thoughts was the mention of water sports and which ones we would be engaging in that day. I couldn’t help but to giggle to Myself, as only three years back I engaged in MY version of WaterSports with a fun boy-toy… at the resort, at the pool, near the beach, under the Caribbean sun. Another Hooray, this time for public Golden Showers! This IS an acceptable way to show affection towards a slave, in My book.

I want to thank each of you for sending Me off with warm wishes, and for your patience as I catch up on My updates, emails, and things of that nature. That said, in a few days you can look for updates to My Clips4Sale store #50845 and see what has been going on behind the closed doors of The Studio. Looking forward, My pets!

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Travel Dates and Smut.

Hello, My pets. Alexandra has been a busy little Domina and has decided it is time for a VACATION. That’s right… No work, All play. My lover and I will be traversing through sandy beaches, bioluminescent bays, rain forests, soaking in all the culture the country has to offer, and swimming with the fishies in the paradise that is the Caribbean.

I will be out of reach, off the grid, and disconnected from June 22nd until June 29th.

THAT SAID:

Devotion is displayed in a number of ways! BOOK your session now, as time is limited before My trip. And if distance and time is not in your favor, show your lust and desire to pamper Me by visiting My Wish List on Amazon.com (search Wish List – Iamyourfetish@gmail.com).

In other news, My video with My slave-whore-f-lover will be re-edited and available for purchase shortly. Urethral sounding, catheterization, ball crushing, piss play, and fisting. NSFC4S!

~Alexandra the Sadist

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Divine Feet for Worship — Saturday, June 14th

~Divine Feet for Worship~
A new bi-monthly event catering to those who adore everything about feet.

Saturday, June 14th at 8PM until 1AM, at the Studio:

This event is hosted by Ladies who enjoy having their feet pampered and worshipped, and enjoy trampling with bare feet, feet covered in silky stockings, or heels. The Ladies attending are not only Dominatrices, but also prominent role models in the Chicago burlesque community, career Ladies, girls next door, and more. This is not your typical dungeon foot fetish event.

In addition, the lovely Miss Shirley Knot will be performing two acts of classic burlesque, for your viewing pleasure!

• Light drinks and snacks will be provided.
• Select areas of the Studio will be sectioned off to allow for more privacy.
• Evening attire is required. No jeans or T-shirts, no baseball caps allowed.
• Street Parking is available. Or, you may park in the back of The Studio (in the CTA lot) for $5.
• Dress code: Evening attire is required. No jeans or T-shirts, no baseball caps allowed.

If you are interested in attending or have any further questions, please e-mail Goddess Alexandra at IamyourFetish@gmail.com. RSVPs must be received by 3PM on June 14th in order to attend.

We hope to see you there!

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