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Vespertine, The Play Party for Women 5/24

VESPERTINE: The Play Party for Women will be held on Sunday, May 24th over IML and Memorial Day weekend from 10PM—3AM.

You MUST RSVP with your legal name which matches your state issued ID, Date of Birth, and your valid e-mail. Address to Skyvespertinechgo@yahoo.com. party particulars sent upon RSVP. NO RSVP/NO ENTRY/NO EXCEPTIONS.

VESPERTINE CHICAGO is open to all women and transfolk 18 years of age or older. If you are a woman, or you identify as a woman and live your daily life as a woman or are a female-born transgender person who feels they have a connection with and love of the kinky/leather/fetish women’s community, YOU ARE WELCOME!!

VESPERTINE CHICAGO encourages education in the fine fetish arts and interactive, hands on role playing, safe and consensual scene play and a person’s right to explore new and exciting ways to express themselves in a sexual manner, safely.

Our event May 24th at The Studio will feature Demos by Daddy Sky, Dominatrix Alexandra Sadista (aka Candyxxx) and Miss Ammunition.

Bring your own toy bag.
$20 PER PERSON/ CASH ONLY
FETISH ATTIRE REQUIRED:
Leather/Latex/Uniform/PVC/Rubber/Goth/Lingerie/Suit and tie/Dress to impress!
NO JEANS, T-SHIRTS, SNEAKERS OR BALL CAPS

VESPERTINE CHICAGO RIGIDLY UPHOLDS MEMBER CONFIDENTIALITY. CLUB EVENTS ARE PRIVATE AND OPEN TO VETTED/QUALIFIED MEMBERS ONLY. NO CROSS DRESSING CIS GENDERED MEN ALLOWED.

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Seeking Bottoms for BDSM Videos

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I am currently seeking male bottoms, pain-sluts, masochists, extreme kinksters for upcoming video shoots. Experience is preferred. you must be able to provide a government issued ID and sign a model release form. It is My preference that you wear a hood. It is also My preference that you be hooded and immobilized in heavy bondage while I rape your every hole, but let’s be real… most of you cannot handle that.
Below is the list of activities I will be filming:
CBT and NT – Not on the lighter side of the spectrum.
Ball busting – If you have any doubts, then you will not be able to handle it
Heavy/predicament bondage/sensory deprivation – Not for beginners
Electrical torture
Strap/on – No beginners. If you want training, schedule a session.
Deep throat/gagging – No gag reflex? Definitely a plus.
Heavy Corporal scenes – If you cannot have visible remnants the next day, this is not for you.
Bastinado
Extensive play piercing
Objectification – this position has been filled.
If you are able to participate in one or more than one of these categories, email Me with an introduction with “Video Shoot” in the subject line. State the activities you are interested in participating in, your limitations, and availability. If you have verifiable references, include that information as well.
If you are interested in filming with Me, but do not have experience in a certain area of interest, schedule a session with Me. We will explore the activity/s.
I welcome suggestions, particularly if there is an activity you are well-versed in as a bottom.
Email: IamyourFetish@gmail.com. Shooting will begin in June.
~Dominatrix Alexandra Sadista

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I am so thirsty for the marvelous that only the marvelous has power over me. Anything I can not transform into something marvelous, I let go. Reality doesn’t impress me. I only believe in intoxication, in ecstasy, and when ordinary life shackles me, I escape, one way or another. 

~Anais Nin

 

 

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Review.

Not every client I see gets tortured, belittled, harassed, stuffed, bitch-slapped, poked, slapped, drained, and so forth. Each one is as unique as the other. And some require a touch of nurturing, along with their serving of delicious sadism.

3/21/15 — I wanted to thank You again for Thursday evening. You helped ease me into my first session with a Pro-Domme, while still managing to push my boundaries within my limits. I have to admit i was quite nervous beforehand, not knowing exactly what to expect. This is something that causes me great anxiety, and one of the reasons why I have a hard time going out to larger social events to meet new people. But it didn’t take long for me to feel at ease in sub space, kneeling at Your feet. It felt where i belonged, able to simply be myself without the usual mask i have to wear to blend into society. The entire experience was highly enjoyable, and felt very therapeutic for me. Submission is a natural aspect of myself, and one i truly enjoy being able to explore and share with others. For as long as i can remember, i have always viewed women as deserving admiration and worship. i’m glad i was able to share this positive experience with You, and hope to have a session again in the future.

Also, you are not alone in your thoughts.

New Orleans, April 3rd—8th

The charming Big Easy beckons and I am happy to oblige! This is My first visit to New Orleans with the primary focus being on engaging in genuine BDSM scenes.

I am scheduling appointments in Mistress Genevieve’s Dungeon near in the Bywater area, approximately two miles east of the French Quarter. Four full days (Saturday 4 through Tuesday 7) are reserved for sessions, video shoots, and kink-related activities. Those who dare may inquire about doubles with Genevieve and I. Let’s make obscene memories, New Orleans!!!

There are a plethora of activities that I enjoy incorporating into a scene, ranging from edge play to humiliation scenes to sensual sadism, and beyond. The most important element, however, is the power exchange; your desire to submit. your desire to be taken over. your desire to relinquish control of life as you know it. your submission and your suffering is My kink, and the varying degrees you display will determine My mood during our time together.

Of course the activities we engage in must be ones that I have a hard-on for. Lucky for you, the list is abundant.  The following are examples of the types of scenes I am currently enjoying (the most):
• heavy bondage and restricted mobility, anal hooks
• verbal humiliation associated with slut training, toilets, ball busting/cbt
• medical scenes – sharps, enemas, invasive procedures, at, role-play
• over-stimulation of your senses/sensory play
• impact play
• foot domination, foot fetish scenes
I suggest you take a look at the Interests section on My website. I do not list/offer activities if I do not highly enjoy them.

Please peruse My website prior to emailing:
http://www.IamyourFetish.com

Deposits required.
E: Iamyourfetish@gmail.com
P: 312-203-4535

~Dominatrix Alexandra Sadista

 

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Divine Feet for Worship, March 28th

~Divine Feet for Worship~
An exclusive event catering to those who adore everything about feet hosted by Alexandra Sadista.

Saturday, March 28th from 8PM until 1AM.

Ladies who enjoy having their feet pampered and worshipped will be attending, along with the men who love them! The Ladies are available for foot fetish sessions, at their discretion, all evening. Foot worship, tickling, massages, trampling, and any wonderful activity revolving around and catering to foot fetishists is allowed.

Special guest burlesque performer to be announced!

• Gentlemen are asked to donate $40 and a bottle of nice red wine, white wine, or champagne.
• Light drinks and snacks will be provided.
• Select areas of the Studio will be sectioned off to allow for more privacy.
• Evening attire is required. No jeans or T-shirts, no baseball caps allowed!
• Street Parking is available. Or, you may park in the back of The Studio (in the CTA lot) for $5. Do not park in the dirt lot directly behind the building, you WILL be towed.

Email Goddess Alexandra at Iamyourfetish@gmail.com for you are interested in attending this event held at the Studio.

 

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New FemDom Clips in My C4S store.

Last night, Goddess Lily Hex and I shot a couple of videos that made Us laugh. It’s been a while since a submissive has made Me laugh that much merely by singing… The dong being forced down his mouth had a bit to do with it. That video will be available next week, the two new videos below can be purchased by you now.

No Mercy for Mr Toughguy (25 minutes) featuring a shiny, latex-catsuit clad Alexandra, Her slave in a leather hood, in bondage, caning, paddling, cbt, cbb, cock and ball parachute, metal cane, nylon cane, dragon tail whip, rubber paddle, and a stapler.

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Pathetic Pig Ridiculed by Women – Parts 1 & 2 (19 & 21 minutes) This video features Mistress Alexandra and Mistress Xena, girl-next-door Miss Mea, and Miss Philly. Humiliation, verbal abuse, ashtray, spittoon, kicking, slapping, cigarette burning, and forced feeding are among the activities the poor pathetic pig is forced to endure.

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New Orleans beckons!

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Hello, My dears. I hope you are all starting off your new year on the right foot, or for some, under My beautiful, leather boot. I have kicked ass so far this year, and plan on continuing full steam ahead. It started off well with fun sessions that were right up My alley (heavy medical, torturous tease and denial, enemas and showers!), a tickle torture video shoot, and of course My annual fast. Currently I am planning travel for one, possibly two, trips to New Orleans in February and/or March to escape this god-awful Mid-West climate.

During this trip I will be accepting sessions for the very first time in the Big Easy. Mistress Genevieve’s dungeon in the Bywater area, which is located two miles away from the French Quarter, is where My sessions will be conducted. It’s funny to think that Her dungeon in Houston was the first I EVER stepped foot in when I was only 19 years old. My travel dates will be announced soon.

My Clips4Sale store will grow as new videos are currently being edited. The newest video in the store is “No Mercy for Mr Toughguy”, at 25 minutes in length, which means 25 minutes of smoking hot Alexandra in neck to toe, skintight latex abusing a wimpy slave until he almost passes out. I decided to not split it up into two parts as I felt the flow of the scene should not be interrupted. Purchase it now: www.Clips4Sale.com/50845

I am currently seeking a submissive boy to serve in a very specific manner in Chicago. I will be posting My requirements shortly. It is not for a live-in slave, nor a house slave, nor one that is in need of enduring My training process. More on that in the next couple of days.

Lastly, I am on day #7 of My seventh annual cleansing fast, which includes a salt water flush every morning. One day, I will have a human toilet on the receiving end of that flush.

More soon.
~Alexandra the Sadist

* For session inquiries in New Orleans, email Me at Iamyourfetish@gmail.com. Dates are flexible, and two trips will be planned for February and also in the second week of March. Review My website before making contact: www.IamyourFetish.com. Sessions with Me, and double Domme sessions with Mistress Genevieve will be offered.

~Divine Feet for Worship~ Saturday, November 29th


~Divine Feet for Worship~

An exclusive event catering to those who adore everything about feet hosted by Alexandra Sadista.

Saturday, November 29th from 8PM until 1AM.

This is My last hoorah of birthday celebrations! It’s been a wonderful birthday month, and I am looking forward to the 29th, and lots of foot pampering! I hope to see many of you who attended the last Divine Feet for Worship.

This event features Ladies who enjoy having their feet pampered and worshipped, and enjoy trampling with bare feet, feet covered in silky stockings, or heels. The Ladies attending are not only Dominatrices, but also prominent role models in the Chicago burlesque community, career Ladies, girls next door, and more. This is not your typical dungeon foot fetish event!

Please be aware that the Lovely Ladies are to be compensated for the time you spend worshipping their delectable feet! The Ladies will be accepting foot fetish sessions per your polite request, at their discretion, throughout the evening. The rule is to keep it in the foot fetish realm – no nudity or sex. Foot worship, tickling, massages, trampling, and any wonderful activity revolving around and catering to foot fetishists is allowed.

Our guest performer is Miss Mea (pictured below). She will be performing two dances focusing on the art of the tease!

• Gentlemen are asked to donate $25 for admission. Women enter for free.
• Light drinks and snacks will be provided.
• Select areas of the Studio will be sectioned off to allow for more privacy.
• Evening attire is required. No jeans or T-shirts, no baseball caps allowed.
• Street Parking is available. Or, you may park in the back of The Studio (in the CTA lot) for $5. Do not park in the dirt lot directly behind the building, you WILL be towed.

If you are interested in attending or have any further questions, please e-mail Goddess Alexandra at IamyourFetish@gmail.com.

Feel free to email Me with additional questions.
We hope to see you there!

(Miss Mea is wearing a corset by Corsettiére in Chicago. Photo by Paul Natkin.)

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Vespertine, Play Party for Women

Our event November 22nd at The Studio will feature Demos by Daddy Sky, Mistress Alexandra Sadista and Miss Ammunition. And, it will officially be Alexandra’s final birthday celebration for the month!

Bring your own toy bag. $20 per person cash only

FETISH ATTIRE REQUIRED/NO JEANS, T-SHIRTS, SNEAKERS OR BALL CAPS
Leather/Latex/Uniform/PVC/Rubber/Goth/Lingerie/Suit and tie

VESPERTINE CHICAGO RIGIDLY UPHOLDS MEMBER CONFIDENTIALITY.
CLUB EVENTS ARE PRIVATE AND OPEN TO VETTED/QUALIFIED MEMBERS ONLY

You MUST RSVP with your legal name which matches your state issued ID and valid e-mail. Address sent upon RSVP. NO RSVP/NO ENTRY/NO EXCEPTIONS

NO CROSS DRESSING CIS GENDERED MEN ALLOWED

Make your RSVP goes to Skyvespertinechgo@yahoo.com. Your legal name, date of birth, and how you were referred is required if you are new.
VESPERTINE CHICAGO is open to all women and transfolk 18 years of age or older. If you are a woman, you identify as a woman and live your daily life as a woman or are a female-born transgender person who feels they have a connection with and love of the kinky/leather/fetish women’s community, YOU ARE WELCOME!!

 

VESPERTINE CHICAGO encourages education in the fine fetish arts and interactive, hands on role playing, safe and consensual scene play and a person’s right to explore new and exciting ways to express themselves in a sexual manner, safely.

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