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Sadista in Denver, now through Wednesday, Feb. 10th

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I am in beautiful, sunny Denver, and booking appointments until the evening of Wednesday, Feb. 10th in the downtown Denver area.

I’ve a handful of tools to engage in the following BDSM games in My hotel room:
• electro torture – Folsom
• impact play
• CBT / NT
• play piercing
• sensory play – mummification, leather hood
• boot/foot worship

Respectfully suggest a scenario for Me to consider, and I will respond if it piques My interest.  Send all inquiries to Iamyourfetish@gmail.com.  Upon making contact, be prepared to include the following information:

• name
• interests and experience level
• hard limits
• availability
• any additional, pertinent information about yourself

~Alexandra Sadista

Memories…

They remind you that in every situation, something can be learned, enjoyed, and appreciated.

My princess and I were celebrating our two year anniversary of her service to Me. We started by engaging in a ritual that included the placing of adornments I selected for her… a “Princess” necklace, pink ribbon, a #2 candle, and multiple needles through her torso and corona. We had a lovely time together, and were going to follow it up with a “Birthday” dinner. We went to a restaurant, she dressed in a pink turtleneck, a white denim skirt, and pink knit socks and I in a black ensemble (surprise, surprise). she also wore her Princess necklace and her tiara. I had made arrangements prior to arriving at the restaurant as to what My princess would be eating, regardless of the order that she placed. We started off by sharing a delicious appetizer, while being entertained by drag queens, then ordered our entrees. I stuck to My usual, Filet Mignon, and she ordered a chicken entree. When our dinner arrived, she was served a well presented plate of two different kinds of baby food. her eyes lit up, and I knew she would enjoy the meal I arranged for her more than what she had ordered. We then had dessert, topped with a #2 candle.I am uncertain of at which point she drank My piss during that celebration, as it was a very regular occurrence for her to do so. After we were finished, she went to the restroom and was stopped on the way back by patrons who asked what she was celebrating. Proudly, she pointed to her necklace and stated, “I am celebrating being a princess for two years!”

It is interactions such as these that warm My black, sadistic heart. It is a memory I will forever cherish, despite the ending the relationship endured.

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Miss Victoria Cayne and Alexandra Sadista Join Forces

Domina Alexandra Sadista and Miss Victoria Cayne team together for discounted double trouble! Oct 21-23 ONLY. Advance bookings ONLY. Make your Double Domme fantasies come true.

If you would like to serve Us and have an interest in BDSM, sensual sadism, and exploring your fetishes at the hands of two experts in the BDSM arts, then email/phone Us at Iamyourfetish@gmail.com — 312-203-4535 or MissVictoriaCayne@gmail.com — 773-615-7598.

When contacting Us include the following:

  • Interests
  • Experience
  • Availability (Oct 21-23 ONLY)
  • Hard limits 

We are VERY selective who We play with so be respectful, courteous, and make yourself stand out when contacting Us. 

www.VictoriaCayne.com / www.IamyourFetish.com

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Our Halloween Foot Fetish Party Extravaganza

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Save the date! Alexandra Sadista and Phil-latio-Foot’s Halloween Foot Fetish Party Extravaganza on Saturday, October 24th begins at 8PM.

Don’t be fooled by other parties, there is only the best running the last 15 years!!! The sexiest feet in Chicago are always in attendance. The Ladies will be there to trample, tickle, stomp, kick, and make you massage, kiss, lick, sniff, and suck on their toes.

There will be a costume contest, as well as a pumpkin pie eating contest . You must RSVP for location and gift instruction:
phillatiofoot@yahoo.com OR Iamyourfetish@gmail.com

Hello Footsluts,
There is a great atmosphere, music, and the hottest feet in
Chicago. I will expect that gentlemen act and dress like gentlemen (you don’t have dress fetish at my parties just business casual or nice evening attire) and email me to RSVP for further instructions (donation, address).
~Phil

Hello, Ladies and Gents! Phil and I invite you to our Divine Foot Fetish Event, and we urge you to arrive in your favorite, sexiest costume! It will be a foot fetishist’s delight! We hope to see you there.
~Alexandra Sadista

Hosted By: Dominatrix Alexandra Sadista, Phil-latio-Foot, and Chicago’s hottest feet hostesses
Date: Saturday, October24th 8pm
Time: 8PM – ?AM
Location: “The Studio” Near Archer and Halsted

Drinks and snacks will be provided.

 

Availability 9/24-9/30

The Sadista Headquarters are relocating this weekend. I am available for sessions as follows:

Friday, September 25th: 10AM until 7PM
Monday, September 28th: 10AM until 4PM
Tuesday, September 29th: 10AM until 6:30PM
Wednesday, September 30th: 10AM until 3PM

During the next week, 90 minutes is the shortest length I will be booking, unless I have seen you before. Those who know Me as a marathon sessioner know that is the best experience, 3HR+. Also, if I have seen you before, you will receive a discount if booked in the next 7 days. I will update this page with My availability next week.

Refer to My website for more information: www.Iamyourfetish.com

Do not forget the ClubFEM event on Saturday, October 3rd.

Come celebrate and play others who live and share your interest in the female dominant/male submissive dynamic. Chicago ClubFem is dedicated to upholding the ideals of Female Domme/Male sub D/s life or if ya just wanna come play with hot ladies and serve! Ladies ,this is an ideal setting to meet a submissive you might mesh with. Party begins at 9pm, ends promptly at 1am. RSVPs MUST be sent to chicagomistress@gmail.com by the day before the party at midnight. ALL RSVPS will receive a reply that day.

Hot and Steamy in New Orleans 8/27 — 9/2

Not a morning goes by that I do not turn off the AC, open the windows, and allow the waves of heat to enter My apartment. Since the temperatures have lingered at 80+ degrees, I’ve been My happiest. I am enjoying consecutive days of being scantily clad, wearing bikinis under My casual clothing just in case I pop over to the beach on the way home. And in the spirit of summer, My session attire options lean towards bare legs instead of stockings, ass revealing skirts, leather or latex bras with matching thongs. I like it HOT. And it’s a good thing I do, because…

NEW ORLEANS, I AM HEADING YOUR WAY.

My arrival date is Saturday, August 29th. My departure date will either be Wednesday, September 2nd OR Saturday, the 5th.

Toys from My personal box will be traveling with Me for the following scenes:
• e-stim (electro-stimulation/torture)
• restrictive and predicament bondage, mummification
• corporal punishment and discipline
• CBT/NT
• play piercing
• medical/invasive procedures

For a complete list of the activities I engage in, go to www.Iamyourfetish.com/interests.
Email inquiries: IamyourFetish@gmail.com

~Domina Alexandra Sadista

 

Vespertine, The Play Party for Women 5/24

VESPERTINE: The Play Party for Women will be held on Sunday, May 24th over IML and Memorial Day weekend from 10PM—3AM.

You MUST RSVP with your legal name which matches your state issued ID, Date of Birth, and your valid e-mail. Address to Skyvespertinechgo@yahoo.com. party particulars sent upon RSVP. NO RSVP/NO ENTRY/NO EXCEPTIONS.

VESPERTINE CHICAGO is open to all women and transfolk 18 years of age or older. If you are a woman, or you identify as a woman and live your daily life as a woman or are a female-born transgender person who feels they have a connection with and love of the kinky/leather/fetish women’s community, YOU ARE WELCOME!!

VESPERTINE CHICAGO encourages education in the fine fetish arts and interactive, hands on role playing, safe and consensual scene play and a person’s right to explore new and exciting ways to express themselves in a sexual manner, safely.

Our event May 24th at The Studio will feature Demos by Daddy Sky, Dominatrix Alexandra Sadista (aka Candyxxx) and Miss Ammunition.

Bring your own toy bag.
$20 PER PERSON/ CASH ONLY
FETISH ATTIRE REQUIRED:
Leather/Latex/Uniform/PVC/Rubber/Goth/Lingerie/Suit and tie/Dress to impress!
NO JEANS, T-SHIRTS, SNEAKERS OR BALL CAPS

VESPERTINE CHICAGO RIGIDLY UPHOLDS MEMBER CONFIDENTIALITY. CLUB EVENTS ARE PRIVATE AND OPEN TO VETTED/QUALIFIED MEMBERS ONLY. NO CROSS DRESSING CIS GENDERED MEN ALLOWED.

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Seeking Bottoms for BDSM Videos

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I am currently seeking male bottoms, pain-sluts, masochists, extreme kinksters for upcoming video shoots. Experience is preferred. you must be able to provide a government issued ID and sign a model release form. It is My preference that you wear a hood. It is also My preference that you be hooded and immobilized in heavy bondage while I rape your every hole, but let’s be real… most of you cannot handle that.
Below is the list of activities I will be filming:
CBT and NT – Not on the lighter side of the spectrum.
Ball busting – If you have any doubts, then you will not be able to handle it
Heavy/predicament bondage/sensory deprivation – Not for beginners
Electrical torture
Strap/on – No beginners. If you want training, schedule a session.
Deep throat/gagging – No gag reflex? Definitely a plus.
Heavy Corporal scenes – If you cannot have visible remnants the next day, this is not for you.
Bastinado
Extensive play piercing
Objectification – this position has been filled.
If you are able to participate in one or more than one of these categories, email Me with an introduction with “Video Shoot” in the subject line. State the activities you are interested in participating in, your limitations, and availability. If you have verifiable references, include that information as well.
If you are interested in filming with Me, but do not have experience in a certain area of interest, schedule a session with Me. We will explore the activity/s.
I welcome suggestions, particularly if there is an activity you are well-versed in as a bottom.
Email: IamyourFetish@gmail.com. Shooting will begin in June.
~Dominatrix Alexandra Sadista

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I am so thirsty for the marvelous that only the marvelous has power over me. Anything I can not transform into something marvelous, I let go. Reality doesn’t impress me. I only believe in intoxication, in ecstasy, and when ordinary life shackles me, I escape, one way or another. 

~Anais Nin

 

 

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Review.

Not every client I see gets tortured, belittled, harassed, stuffed, bitch-slapped, poked, slapped, drained, and so forth. Each one is as unique as the other. And some require a touch of nurturing, along with their serving of delicious sadism.

3/21/15 — I wanted to thank You again for Thursday evening. You helped ease me into my first session with a Pro-Domme, while still managing to push my boundaries within my limits. I have to admit i was quite nervous beforehand, not knowing exactly what to expect. This is something that causes me great anxiety, and one of the reasons why I have a hard time going out to larger social events to meet new people. But it didn’t take long for me to feel at ease in sub space, kneeling at Your feet. It felt where i belonged, able to simply be myself without the usual mask i have to wear to blend into society. The entire experience was highly enjoyable, and felt very therapeutic for me. Submission is a natural aspect of myself, and one i truly enjoy being able to explore and share with others. For as long as i can remember, i have always viewed women as deserving admiration and worship. i’m glad i was able to share this positive experience with You, and hope to have a session again in the future.

Also, you are not alone in your thoughts.