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New Orleans beckons!

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Hello, My dears. I hope you are all starting off your new year on the right foot, or for some, under My beautiful, leather boot. I have kicked ass so far this year, and plan on continuing full steam ahead. It started off well with fun sessions that were right up My alley (heavy medical, torturous tease and denial, enemas and showers!), a tickle torture video shoot, and of course My annual fast. Currently I am planning travel for one, possibly two, trips to New Orleans in February and/or March to escape this god-awful Mid-West climate.

During this trip I will be accepting sessions for the very first time in the Big Easy. Mistress Genevieve’s dungeon in the Bywater area, which is located two miles away from the French Quarter, is where My sessions will be conducted. It’s funny to think that Her dungeon in Houston was the first I EVER stepped foot in when I was only 19 years old. My travel dates will be announced soon.

My Clips4Sale store will grow as new videos are currently being edited. The newest video in the store is “No Mercy for Mr Toughguy”, at 25 minutes in length, which means 25 minutes of smoking hot Alexandra in neck to toe, skintight latex abusing a wimpy slave until he almost passes out. I decided to not split it up into two parts as I felt the flow of the scene should not be interrupted. Purchase it now: www.Clips4Sale.com/50845

I am currently seeking a submissive boy to serve in a very specific manner in Chicago. I will be posting My requirements shortly. It is not for a live-in slave, nor a house slave, nor one that is in need of enduring My training process. More on that in the next couple of days.

Lastly, I am on day #7 of My seventh annual cleansing fast, which includes a salt water flush every morning. One day, I will have a human toilet on the receiving end of that flush.

More soon.
~Alexandra the Sadist

* For session inquiries in New Orleans, email Me at Iamyourfetish@gmail.com. Dates are flexible, and two trips will be planned for February and also in the second week of March. Review My website before making contact: www.IamyourFetish.com. Sessions with Me, and double Domme sessions with Mistress Genevieve will be offered.

~Divine Feet for Worship~ Saturday, November 29th


~Divine Feet for Worship~

An exclusive event catering to those who adore everything about feet hosted by Alexandra Sadista.

Saturday, November 29th from 8PM until 1AM.

This is My last hoorah of birthday celebrations! It’s been a wonderful birthday month, and I am looking forward to the 29th, and lots of foot pampering! I hope to see many of you who attended the last Divine Feet for Worship.

This event features Ladies who enjoy having their feet pampered and worshipped, and enjoy trampling with bare feet, feet covered in silky stockings, or heels. The Ladies attending are not only Dominatrices, but also prominent role models in the Chicago burlesque community, career Ladies, girls next door, and more. This is not your typical dungeon foot fetish event!

Please be aware that the Lovely Ladies are to be compensated for the time you spend worshipping their delectable feet! The Ladies will be accepting foot fetish sessions per your polite request, at their discretion, throughout the evening. The rule is to keep it in the foot fetish realm – no nudity or sex. Foot worship, tickling, massages, trampling, and any wonderful activity revolving around and catering to foot fetishists is allowed.

Our guest performer is Miss Mea (pictured below). She will be performing two dances focusing on the art of the tease!

• Gentlemen are asked to donate $25 for admission. Women enter for free.
• Light drinks and snacks will be provided.
• Select areas of the Studio will be sectioned off to allow for more privacy.
• Evening attire is required. No jeans or T-shirts, no baseball caps allowed.
• Street Parking is available. Or, you may park in the back of The Studio (in the CTA lot) for $5. Do not park in the dirt lot directly behind the building, you WILL be towed.

If you are interested in attending or have any further questions, please e-mail Goddess Alexandra at IamyourFetish@gmail.com.

Feel free to email Me with additional questions.
We hope to see you there!

(Miss Mea is wearing a corset by Corsettiére in Chicago. Photo by Paul Natkin.)

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Vespertine, Play Party for Women

Our event November 22nd at The Studio will feature Demos by Daddy Sky, Mistress Alexandra Sadista and Miss Ammunition. And, it will officially be Alexandra’s final birthday celebration for the month!

Bring your own toy bag. $20 per person cash only

FETISH ATTIRE REQUIRED/NO JEANS, T-SHIRTS, SNEAKERS OR BALL CAPS
Leather/Latex/Uniform/PVC/Rubber/Goth/Lingerie/Suit and tie

VESPERTINE CHICAGO RIGIDLY UPHOLDS MEMBER CONFIDENTIALITY.
CLUB EVENTS ARE PRIVATE AND OPEN TO VETTED/QUALIFIED MEMBERS ONLY

You MUST RSVP with your legal name which matches your state issued ID and valid e-mail. Address sent upon RSVP. NO RSVP/NO ENTRY/NO EXCEPTIONS

NO CROSS DRESSING CIS GENDERED MEN ALLOWED

Make your RSVP goes to Skyvespertinechgo@yahoo.com. Your legal name, date of birth, and how you were referred is required if you are new.
VESPERTINE CHICAGO is open to all women and transfolk 18 years of age or older. If you are a woman, you identify as a woman and live your daily life as a woman or are a female-born transgender person who feels they have a connection with and love of the kinky/leather/fetish women’s community, YOU ARE WELCOME!!

 

VESPERTINE CHICAGO encourages education in the fine fetish arts and interactive, hands on role playing, safe and consensual scene play and a person’s right to explore new and exciting ways to express themselves in a sexual manner, safely.

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My Birthday is on November 11th

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Halloween is just a couple of days away, and shortly after My birthday celebrations will begin! Three years ago, on 11/11/11, it was spent on the beaches of Jamaica at Kink in the Caribbean with My loyal pet (RIP). This year, along with private celebrations with My devoted boys and kinksters, I will be spending time going to Blackhawks games, having a small soiree with My closest friends, and perhaps a couple nights of dancing. And, of course, opening gifts!

For you generous gents out there… I will mention the items at the VERY TOP of My WishList:
• $2000 for a birthday weekend in New Orleans (waived session fee will apply for NOLA residents, dungeon rental fee required)
• Southwest Airlines gift cards ($250+)
• Polymorphe gift card for $1000 – https://www.polymorphe.com/

Below are links to My wish lists. The list was created for the purpose of giving devotees and slaves examples of simple, or extravagant, ways to show this Goddess your admiration & devotion. And, because what Woman does not enjoy being spoiled and pampered!

http://iamyourfetish.com/tributes.html
http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/wishlist/ref=nav_youraccount_wl?ie=UTF8&requiresSignIn=1

Also worth mentioning is that I will be celebrating My birthday with the lovely Ladies of Vespertine at the Studio on Saturday, November 22nd (sorry boys, this event is Women only). On the following weekend, I will be celebrating My birthday (one last time) at the Divine Feet for Worship – foot fetish party, also at the Studio, on Saturday, November 29th. And, if you enjoy performance art and comedy, My troupe SS-Triple-X will be performing at the NoTell Motel at Debonair Social Club on Wednesday, November 19th. you may email Me for information on these events: IamyourFetish@gmail.com

Happy Birthday to My Scorpio friends and fiends!

Renowned Educator Eric Pride comes to The Studio – 11/16

Come get dirty with Eric Pride!

The Studio welcomes renowned educator, Eric Pride to our Windy City for one day only.
Sunday, November 16th

He will be presenting two delightfully wicked topics:

M/s Lifestyle and protocols 330pm-5pm
Protocols and Manners for Play and 24/7

The leather lifestyle has many unwritten rules and protocols. What are they? When are they in effect? How do you learn them?
Eric Pride’s lifestyle household, that he co-heads with Lady Christie, is well-known for their use of classical leather protocols. In this class he will not just talk about them, he will show many of them – from scene manners, formal protocols, to how they can be incorporated into play. In several hands-on demonstrations, he will show how they are used with new submissives and slaves, as well as how they can spice up your scenes.

Heavy Consensual SM 5-7pm
Sadomasochism (S&M) is about the pleasure and enjoyment of inflicting or receiving pain and humiliation. In this class we discuss the heavier aspects of consensual S&M and how to experience it safely, including:
• Safety for tops and bottoms
• Consent, limits, and boundaries
• Subspace and topspace
• Processing and enjoying pain
• The psychological side of S&M
This class contains a few shorter play scenes to illustrate the discussion.
Note: this class contains elements of adult language and intense consensual S&M. Please consider this carefully before attending.

More on Eric Pride can be discovered on his site :
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RSVP Must be sent to:
chicagomistress@gmail.com
RSVP required to attend. No walk-ins.

Divine Feet For Worship

Divine Feet for Worship
An event catering to those who adore everything about feet.
Friday, September 26th at the Studio.
This event is hosted by Ladies who enjoy having their feet pampered and worshipped, and enjoy trampling with bare feet, feet covered in silky stockings, or heels. The Ladies attending are not only Dominatrices, but also prominent role models in the Chicago burlesque community, career Ladies, girls next door, and more. This is not your typical dungeon foot fetish event.
Miss Ammunition is our featured burlesque dancer, and will be performing twice for your viewing pleasure. She has been perfecting the art of the tease for over five years, and is a former Professional Dominatrix.
• Light drinks and snacks will be provided.
• Select areas of the Studio will be sectioned off to allow for more privacy.
• Street Parking is available. Or, you may park just West of The Studio (in the CTA lot) for $5.
• Dress code: Evening attire is required. No jeans or T-shirts, no baseball caps allowed.
If you are interested in attending or have any further questions, please e-mail Goddess Alexandra at IamyourFetish@gmail.com. RSVPs must be received by 3PM on Friday, September 26th in order to attend.
**THOSE WHO ARE ATTENDING PLEASE TAKE NOTE**

Do NOT park behind the building, the dirt lot. You will be towed (I found out the hard way that it is a private lot now)! Park in the paved CTA lot which is directly across the street from the Orange Line Station at Archer and Halsted.

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Sessions available with Ms Sophia Asphyxia through the end of October

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SPECIAL ANNOUNCEMENT:

Ms Sophia Asphyxia is giving you the rare opportunity to serve Her during Her third trimester or Her pregnancy. That’s right, Sophia is glowing with a bun in the over, and is accepting inquiries for sessions including, but not limited to, the following activities:

• Bare handed spankings
• Corporal punishment and discipline
• Tease and Denial
• Golden showers
• Smothering (with protective barrier)
• Foot worship
• Trampling
• Body worship
• Age play
• Shaving scenes: I will elaborate on the shaving scene and stress the fact that this is a once in a lifetime chance to serve Sophia by devoting your gentle touch to making Her life easier during these last couple of months. Sophia will be allowing a small number of carefully selected clients to shave Her. you must have experience with either shaving your own private area or the private area of another.

Sophia and I are also offering Double Domme sessions at a discounted tribute (email for info) at the fully equipped Studio. Keep in mind that if you do not have any experience with shaving, this would be the perfect opportunity to have Me as your teacher, so to perform the task without any mishaps. AB and age regression scenes are recommended between the two of Us, as well as the activities listed above and those on My website, with exception of heavy medical scenes.

 

you may email Me at Iamyourfetish@gmail.com to book an appointment. Verifiable references and/or a deposit will be required.

If you are smart and know an amazing opportunity when you see one, you will not waste any time and book your time with Sophia Asphyxia for a solo or double Domme session.

Visiting San Francisco 9/18 — 9/22

NEWS/TRAVEL UPDATE:
San Francisco: Friday, September 19th — Monday, September 22nd (FOLSOM)

I am visiting San Francisco and taking appointments for the first time ever in California. Below are the only days/times you may book your time with Me. Send a polite introduction via email. Include your name, a description of your fantasy/scene, the activities you enjoy that correlate with Mine, and any additional, pertinent information. you will be required to submit a deposit to reserve your appointment.

Friday, September 19th — Saturday, September 20th — Monday, September 22nd

My website: www.IamyourFetish.com
Contact info: IamyourFetish@gmail.com

Queerella Fistalot will be joining Me, and We are offering double Domme sessions for a very low tribute. Why? Because We want to give you the opportunity to suffer for Us. Below is a photo of Queerella.

All emails are welcome. I would love to connect with people in the area, but time will more than likely not allow. My schedule is filling up quickly, with Friday, Saturday, and part of Monday reserved for play with new clients. The Armory of kink(dot)com fame is on the list of places to visit, and possibly one of the events held in conjunction with BondCon. Of course, Sunday is reserved for kinky fun and debauchery at the Folsom Street Fair with My cohorts from Chicago, and the sea of pervs that will be attending.

Additional information regarding  where I will be conducting My sessions will be added momentarily.

~Alexandra the Sadist

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A Good Time Was Had By A/all.

Articulation is sexy. As is devotion displayed through suffering.
Written by My banana-cabana-boy:

Dearest Mistress Alexandra,

   Have you ever had a review where Your sub writes, “i can’t describe how unbelievable my session was” or, “i can’t begin to express how mindblowing it was”? Well get a vocabulary and an imagination bud, because your Mistress deserves an articulate and sincere account of Her time spent with you.

   Here’s mine.

   Right up front, i am honored to have been Your choice to fulfill a personal perversity and happy i was up to the physical challenges.  You seemed very proud and pleased in making me Your “Vase (pronounce “vaaz”) ala Sphincter”. i truly appreciate the thought and time You spent on this. Your humiliations are eeevilly and gleefully played out and i pray to be useful in more of Your cruel and beauteous visions.

     You’ll be happy to know all of Your lovely marks are blooming quite nicely and making me wince at every seating. my birthday was several weeks ago and i consider myself fully spanked and caned in celebration thereof.

   Wow, You sure enjoyed filling me up to my limit with that enema.  The nozzle being inserted, and my bowels and intestines expanding and bloating while You look upon my increasing discomfort is a humiliation i am happy to endure as i see You smile at my helplessness. i’m now dreaming of that milk and molasses enema that was mentioned.

   No matter what is said “in role” piss is PISS. It tastes like piss and that’s undeniable. And You had me drink Yours; the waste that Your body no longer had any use for. Except to feed to me. And i drank it eagerly and obediently.

   As You can tell, and i expressed this before W/we parted, my love of O/our time together Wednesday could not have been more optimally shocking, unexpected and desirable. Certainly, being a man, i have perused other Mistresses web-sites. This having been O/our third session i can definitively say You are a Domme of a singular variety. You define You and all others are riding coach.

   YOU are it!!

   Looking forward to future playtimes with more devilish fun.

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Watersports VS Water Sports

Hello, Chicago, I am back (and still recovering from mild jet lag). My vacation could not have been lovelier, and it was the perfect length of time under the Caribbean sun, moon, and hundreds of visible stars. I returned with a deep tan, lots of sand in My suitcase, and enough memories to last Me through next winter. This was a much anticipated trip as it was a true vacation during which anything resembling work did not occur. Hooray for suitcases that do not exceed the weight limit due to leather, latex, and toys!

The only mention of anything that instantly made Me think dirty thoughts was the mention of water sports and which ones we would be engaging in that day. I couldn’t help but to giggle to Myself, as only three years back I engaged in MY version of WaterSports with a fun boy-toy… at the resort, at the pool, near the beach, under the Caribbean sun. Another Hooray, this time for public Golden Showers! This IS an acceptable way to show affection towards a slave, in My book.

I want to thank each of you for sending Me off with warm wishes, and for your patience as I catch up on My updates, emails, and things of that nature. That said, in a few days you can look for updates to My Clips4Sale store #50845 and see what has been going on behind the closed doors of The Studio. Looking forward, My pets!

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