IML/ Vespertine weekend never disappoints. I have been actively involved with both events for 13 years, and look forward to it every year. I always feel as I am in My natural habitat, which is because I probably was a gay leather man in a previous life. I normally only attend the Vendor’s Market at the host hotel which places Me immediately in the kid-in-a-candy-store mindset as I window shop for a few hours, then make another round to make My purchases. Then, I return another day to purchase more!

Mr. S Leather took most of My money (and slave’s), and as a result I’ve several new toys & power box to add to My collection. I finally upgraded to an ErosTek ET312B after using the ET232 and Folsom power box for years. I also picked up a Fleshjack Electro Stroker, a unique cordless silicone e-stim vibe, the extreme electro sex butt plug, and the small torpedo butt plug. And adapters, electrodes, leads, bands… things you can’t have enough of in your e-stim kit. I also made sure to show some of My favorite vendors support by purchasing a few impact toys and tools for the medical fetishist (ME).

The weekend ended at Vespertine, a Play Party for Queer Women founded and organized by My beloved Sister in Kink Daddy Sky. I have seen this gathering evolve into such a beautifully diverse event since its inception. It is an all inclusive, safe environment for Queer Women to play and enjoy. I personally had the pleasure of suspending and playing with My cohort Queerella aka Mistress Katrina. Her marks are blooming and are quite colorful! I also watched two very intense fisting scenes, one anal and one vaginal. I have fisted both in various ways, however I have yet to go elbow deep so it remains a goal! The night ended in pure bliss. Intense, sensual, invasive play in every direction My head turned. There is nothing quite like the symphony of moans, groans, whimpers, whispers, grunts, giggles, slaps, whacks, cracks, buzzzzzzzzz, zaps… not to mention the visuals!

Now that the weekend is behind Me I can continue My regularly scheduled program, and tackle a few projects I’ve been working on. This will include a few major purchases that will allow Me to resume shooting videos with better quality and lighting, as well as contribute to the Sadista Klinik I am in the process of assembling. Stay tuned!

DATES CONFIRMED FOR DETROIT!
Sessions are being booked for Friday evening after 7PM until Sunday 11AM (flexible, could extend until 4PM).  My time is always reserved in advance as booking protocol must be followed. It is quite simple, just read ALl the info and follow ALL the instructions on My website, and let’s discuss!

WHY, YES, THAT IS AN ENEMA BAG IN THE PIC!  As many of you know, I am a medical fetishist. This means I do offer enema cleansings, retention, punishments while traveling.  All enema fetish sessions MUST be booked in advance and require at least two hours of play.

SEE YOU SOON, DETROIT!
~Dominatrix Alexandra Sadista

PhillatioFoot and I hope you can join us on Saturday, May 11th for our Kinky Boots Foot Fetish Party. The party will begin at 8PM and goes until 1AM. There will be a performance by Miss Ammunition and a sexiest boot presentation/contest (Women only!).

If it is your first time… Welcome!  Some of you have asked about the rules.  Basically, have fun and keep it classy.   Play should only include foot worship, tickling, massages, trampling, and any wonderful activity revolving around and catering to foot fetishists.  Any play outside of the foot fetish realm and nudity is not allowed, nor inappropriate requests.  We have seven private/semi-private areas available along with several areas in the main room for you to play in.  Again, nudity is not allowed.  No sex acts, period.  If someone makes an inappropriate or offensive request, please let me know and either Phil or I will handle the situation.  These parties have a good reputation, let’s keep it that way!

This is the longest running party of its kind in Chicago – 17+ yrs!  We strive to create a safe and classy event to bring together admirers of feet and the Women that enjoy being pampered.

Women do not have to pay a donation at the door, however men are asked to do so and bring a bottle of wine for the Ladies to enjoy.  Evening wear / cocktail dresses and festive looks are welcome.  We will have hors d’oeuvres and light beverages for you to enjoy.

RSVP: Iamyourfetish@gmail.com.  If you have any additional questions, do not hesitate to ask.  Let me know if you would like to attend, and if you plan on bringing a guest.  We will need his/her name for the RSVP list.  If we do not have your full name or your guest’s for the RSVP list, you will not be allowed entry.  The address and parking information will be sent on the day of the event.

~Goddess Alexandra

UPDATE: Available time slots remaining are Friday the 19th from 9PM til 2AM and Sunday the 21st from 4:30PM til 8PM.

I have already started booking appointments in Houston, TX! I lived in the Montrose area and other parts of town for the majority of My childhood and young adult life. I am excited to return to see dear friends which will make My play time limited.

That said, be on your best behavior when contacting Me. Do make sure you include all the information requested when filling out My form. Do expect to send a deposit to confirm our time. It is more efficient for you to provide your exact availability rather than ask for Mine. If you are providing verifiable references, be sure to inform the ProDomina so She knows She will be contacted. Include pertinent information such as Her website URL or link to Her ad, phone, email, date of session, memorable details.

I will be conducting sessions at Domina Shannon’s Dungeon which is very well equipped and discreetly located near Downtown Houston and the Minute Maid Park. Bondage lovers, the furniture in this studio is perfect for you. The St. Catherine’s Wheel and metal cbt chair (see photo) has endless possibilities. I will be bringing My favorite personal items such as My electro torture kit, favorite whips and cbt/nt toys, and supplies for medical fetish scenes.

Medical fetish sessions are required to book in advance. I will not bring play piercing needles, catheters, sutures, medical staplers, enema supplies, etc unless you have arranged a scene with Me and sent a deposit.

FTT – I will only be seeing one FT while in town. Our appointment must take place in the morning on Saturday ending by 1PM or on Sunday afternoon after 1PM. I have been training new and experienced Ts for over a decade. Do not expect any physical contact or “t.p. service” as I do not allow it. your sole purpose is to be a toilet, and nothing else.

I will consider wardrobe requests that include latex, leather, lingerie, and fetish boots specifically seen in My photos, otherwise you are welcome to make a specific request and purchase (allow time for delivery).

you’ve a few weeks until I invade your city. Start making plans now.
~Dominatrix Alexandra Sadista

On a dark night with the moon and stars being our only source of light, we found just the right spot to do it. We wore only robes, as part of the thrill was to share this experience completely in the nude. he disrobed and got on all fours, without any direction from Me, and said “I am ready”. I smiled the wickedest of smiles (and My first of countless to come) and threw My robe off to the side. I straddled him, and without hesitation gave My first ever Golden Shower. I began pissing a ferocious piss on his back that splattered all over him, all over My legs, all over the grass around us. I stopped before I finished, as I wanted his position to change. “Now, you need to turn around and lower your body, tilt your head back, and open your mouth,” and before I finished My sentence, he was in position for Me to piss into his mouth. I repositioned Myself, this time using one hand to ensure My stream would be aimed towards his mouth. The other hand grabbed his shoulder length hair and moved his mouth into place. I continued to piss on him, until I was empty. But was I ever SO satisfied.

One never forgets their first time. Mine took place on an island when I was a minor, and they continue to occur with regular frequency and as much fervor and enthusiasm as the first.

When Medieval cartographers were charting the seas for wayfaring vessels to navigate by and got to the edges of known existence they would draw icons to communicate a sense of fear and awe that translate as, “THIS WAY THERE BE DRAGONS!”

As always Mistress Alexandra Sadista ushers me into the dungeon with a warm greeting and a smile of anticipation. I bow to Her feet and kiss Her black stiletto platform boots. Two pecks each. Once I have disrobed Mistress is ready to play Her rhapsody of pain and degradation upon My submissive form.

What could be a finer means to blaspheme than to mock crucifixion on Sunday morning? Wrapping my arms to a bamboo pole that extend across my shoulders with plastic wrap, Mistress secures them to a higher beam holding me upright and helpless. High pressure loo[ ended clamps are snapped onto my exposed nipples, elastic rubber band is wound about my genitals and lead through the loops on the clamps, and then pulled tightly back to the balls. Mistress Alexandra presents Her arm pits for me to inhale their sharp, pungent scent as well as Her feet to my face for my mouth to worship Her beautiful boots. To complete this passage of O/our scene one of Mistress’ high cut street boots is tied like a mask over my face, reducing my idendity to that of a shoe.

Enemas can be used as a cleansing ritual or, as my Mistress was wont that day, a means for experimentation. With me as Her specimen my bowels were subjected to mounting concoctions of various ingredients: still water, soda water, jalapeño juice, and eventually Ms Alexandra’s very piss! Inserting the hose of the enema bag up my rectum, I was made to endure copious amounts of liquids filling me up beyond the point of retention! Holding my sphincter tightly, ever so tight, Mistress escorted me, ever so slowly, to the bathroom savoring my enormous discomfort and desperation. and then blocking the front of the toilet to keep me squirming deliriously, ridiculously, before allowing me access.

As my tormentor, Mistress applied this same routine four times with the last one including the insertion of a banana, and every time Her pleasure in holding me from my release showed more and more jubilantly on Her face. There was glee in Her voice. This was Her fun.

For O/our finale it was decided that I shouldn’t be let to leave without being significantly marked; a physical reminder of O/our time. A signature. Arms tied behind my back, gagged, blindfolded, I was bent over the bondage table, ass in the air, to await an impending flogging as Mistress collected Her tools. Agreeing on five strokes per implement (I had a choice?) it turns out that would be five strokes per buttock, and that every cane, strap and whip would require a “warming up” period of an undetermined number of strikes.

And STRIKE my Mistress did! With biting rounds that left my ass and thighs red, welted,… striped. Several days later these bloomed to full, deep purple bruises that remain tender.

With Her suite of tortures complete Mistress Alexandra seemed satisfied that I was going to leave fully affected inside and out, knowing I would only crave more. In parting I left as I had greeted Mistress, at Her feet with my lips under Her boots.

DRAGONS